when will i realize i am not on a diet? do anyone else feel this way, its like im programmed to think im on a diet and the diet will fail like all the others. weird

Maybe that has something to do with you being a lil depressed. I know change is very hard for me, I haven't been sleeved yet and that's why I spend so much time on here reading what everyone has to say. Maybe I can alter my thinking before my surgery.

yea i thought i could alter mines before. nottttttttttttttttttttt lol

Maybe I wont be able to either, but I am sooooooooooo glad I have all the peeps here. Cus everyone understand and can relate, no judging or negative & belittling comments. I wish you the best of luck and maybe after surgery and im feeling down I will look ya up for a boost :}

I think I will always have to be on a diet or always have to watch what I eat. I think if I ate what I wanted I would gain weight.

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I feel the same way if that scale don't move I feel like I'm failing. I have been in stall after stall. I wonder if we'll ever get the diet out of the head and start thinking this is how it is or just stop thinking about it all together

I used to think, "when I'm finished with --- (WW, Jenny Vraig, etc.), I'll be normal". If course, only to gain every lost ounce snd then some, back! But what is normal? My sister who is built exactly like me never let's her weight go above 145. She works at keeping her shape every day of her life snd it shows! If she gains a pound or two, she cuts down on her carbs and sugar and steps up her fitness a liitle. She has never ever said she was on a diet-she say's, "she's watching!" (She's my hero!) if that's what it takes to be normal, then that's what I've signed up for with this surgery! We are also married to brothers and it's been hard being the 'big' one! I feel bad for my husband, too, because he's had to live with me and my weight issues since we've been married, 22 years!

holly that man loves you regardless and thats a good thing. your sister is focused i need to learn that.

artsong im feeling that right now the scale is up 3lbs and i know why, sodium i got to get this Water off. oh and ive been doing lower body workouts grrrrrrrrr cant win for losing sometimes.

before i so feel the same way, man i want to be normal like thin ppl who dont worry about wieght.

minime i will be here for you girlie