Just wanted to say hello to all. I am new to this. I just had my verticle sleeve surgery on Friday, March 16, 2012 performed by Dr. Strom at Bayshore Hospital in NJ. I am 3 day out and still very sore. I think I made the right choice in getting this surgery. I have struggled with my weight for all my life and decided it was time to take charge of it. Not everyone agreed with my decision, but I told them all, that it's easy for them to say things and pass judgement, when you haven't been where I am, and that it's my life, and I have to live it by what's best for me. So I just wanted to say hello to everyone, and thank everyone for sharing their stories. It really does help.

Congratulations on your new sleeve. I know that you are feeling it right now but each and every day you will feel better and soon you will be asking yourself why you waited so long to have this done. I know that if I knew that I could have this much happiness years ago I would have done it then. I did try many years ago and the doctors said that I did not need surgery that I could do it with diet and exercise. I tried that for so many years that I lost and gained myself over and over again. Best of luck on your new life.

It's too easy for other people to make uninformed decisions about what we do with our lives. Stick to your guns, Honeybear, and be assured you are taking control of your life in a very positive way. Many of us choose not to tell others about our surgeries for reasons much the same as yours. There are many differing opinions about that, too, and I hope I didn't open a can of worms by saying it. Don't let anyone rain on your parade! Best wishes for a great recovery.

Congrats TopGun! I wish you a speedy recovery. I got my surgery date today.... I cancelled the first date of 3/29. I think Iistened to my nay sayer friends and it got the better of me... I also think I fear the after life of the sleeve. Please keep me posted on your recovery and progress!