I am sick surgery 11-17 was just changed and hospital now I have to go 1 hr away and the kids hubby want to take me out tonight hes supportive but want me to have drinks tonight with him because I wont be jolly like that for a long while I am scared Ipre testing Tuesday I am being pulled in so many directions did xmas shopping contemplating decorations this weekend because if I dotn do it no one will!

I am sick surgery 11-17 was just changed and hospital now I have to go 1 hr away and the kids hubby want to take me out tonight hes supportive but want me to have drinks tonight with him because I wont be jolly like that for a long while I am scared Ipre testing Tuesday I am being pulled in so many directions did xmas shopping contemplating decorations this weekend because if I dotn do it no one will!

hey raquel, if you don't want to go out with your DH and family, give him my address! I'm 5 weeks pre-op, so i think i could take the teniest (msp) splurge. What do you think?

if hubby has been supportive like you say, he just wants to take his favorite out. I'd go for it )

Take a deep breath sweetie, you are experiencing the anxiety we all go through as the big day gets closer. Go ahead and go out, have some fun, try to relax, and have a drink or two (don't get sloshed) LOL. You will be fine, just don't over-do. We are all here for you so try and relax a little. It will all work out and remember, GOD LOVES YOU!

Hugs,

Shell

Just try and relax, go out and have fun. Don't get wasted, but enjoy yourself. Like everyone else said go for it!

ty all feel better today lol sorry had a moment there lol I appreciate support thanks so much!

q

How is everything today??

lol wonderful I just had amelt downtrying to get this house organized and the kids school and xmas and thanksgiving lol I snapped lol

My husband is still alive though lol ty so much!