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Sex is great again

Hello everyone, I am seven weeks out, and approx. 50 lbs lighter with 25 lbs. to go reach my goal of 200 lbs. Feeling great, having a wonderful time researching new material on nutrition, Vitamins, and different types of food to help me in my weight loss journey. At the gym and meeting new people in the support group has been a significant appreciation to my self esteem.

One of the best things to happen to me is my sex life is alive again, my wife says she can but her legs around me. Things are happening to this 59 year old guy that I thought was long gone forever. Waking up morning feeling great (you guys know with I mean), not having to take the “little blue pill” is a big thing for me. We are doing things we haven’t done in years. Satisfying my wife offers me great appreciation for our marriage. Its help our life in so many ways. Going to movies, eating out, walking in the park, or just relaxing at home and enjoying each other has put a new spark in our lives. This is life is all about, when two people can recognize the value of love making after 25 years of hardships and successes. As a consequence, one of the most interesting things is, it can only get better.

As always, comments welcome.

Lash

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Yeah for you!! 59 ani't dead yet! hehe

Lord knows I've gotten a bit on the lazy side as I've gotten on the bigger side, then my DH himself likely does the same since he is in the outta breath side..hehehe. Things to change soon with my surgery (date was moved, now Monday the 20th).

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It will get better, its all in the attitude!

Lord knows I've gotten a bit on the lazy side as I've gotten on the bigger side, then my DH himself likely does the same since he is in the outta breath side..hehehe. Things to change soon with my surgery (date was moved, now Monday the 20th).

Ok, I am only 27 but I have seen a huge change myself. It amazing what can happen when you feel sexy again!!!

I am 33 (34 in 19 days) and I know. I feel sexy again and I would have never thought that I would feel sexy again. And that is another reason why I LOVE MY SLEEVE!!!

I've been with the same wonderful guy for 30 yrs now, and our sex life is even better than when we started out. Being at my goal weight makes me have a much better attitude about my body, which of course is the most important aspect of a healthy sexual relationship. I'll be 50 in a few weeks, the last child is now out of the nest - so I'm looking forward to the next years my hubby and will have together having fun (sexual and otherwise!) and being healthy enough to travel, walk, etc. Glad to hear you're in the same boat!

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Best wishes to you and yours.

Lash

I've been with the same wonderful guy for 30 yrs now, and our sex life is even better than when we started out. Being at my goal weight makes me have a much better attitude about my body, which of course is the most important aspect of a healthy sexual relationship. I'll be 50 in a few weeks, the last child is now out of the nest - so I'm looking forward to the next years my hubby and will have together having fun (sexual and otherwise!) and being healthy enough to travel, walk, etc. Glad to hear you're in the same boat!

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Great to hear that, wake up every morning with a new attitude and all will be good for you.

Lash

YAY!!! rolleyes.gif

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