So I'm going along with life thinking everything is wonderful and grand! Lost alot of weight, look good, feel happy, life is good all around. . . or so I thought. . I should have seen this coming but I'm sooooooooooo incredibly stupid!! Ya'll don't have a clue! 10 1/2 months out of surgery suddenly my gut decides that it needs to catch a "bug". . I can't puke cause I can't so I'm stuck with the worlds worst nausea for the past week. . .ok fine, yes i loose a few pounds, big deal!!! Well as of yesterday I was only have waves of nausea, not too bad, but still didn't eat much. . .i go to shower and as i'm drying off don't i over hear DH telling my daughter the following "Yeah your mom's be consistently sick now. It's that surgery. . I never supported her with this, she went behind my back and got the loan, she could have done this all by herself, dieting isn't hard. . i gained 7 lbs and it was so easy to loose, all she had to do was eat less and exercise. I don't know why she did this, it was so dumb" I was so shocked to overhear that. . I have not confronted him about it cause it was not true, he was the one who came to the seminar and told me he'd only support the sleeve and not the band, he came with me to get the loan, cause we used my daughters' car and he had to sign too, and finally dieting isn't easy when you have close to 200 lbs to loose, 7 lbs is not even a dent into the bucket. . . I am so hurt at this time that he would have said that. . I probably won't tell him i overheard, but be damned if i tell him anything is wrong with me anymore either. . . Thank you for listening, it may just be a petty rant, but i needed to get it off my chest cause it hurts. . . .

I'm so sorry that his attitude is continuing -- seems to me that maybe he's scared and nervous about your success -- I've read over and over about silly husbands and their weird reactions to the big weight loss and I'm wondering if this is his weird way of reacting to your weight loss. I mean, come on, who wouldn't apologize when confronted?? sigh. I'm sorry.

Ohhhhhhhhhhhh my inner ninja is 10 shades of fired up ! ! ! My foot would be planted so far up his ass, his eyes would cross. Men, I swear, we can't live with them, and we can fit their body parts down the garbage disposal! ! !

Bahahaha Tiff, so true!

On second thoughts I can think of one body part that might fit down the disposal if he didn't shape up!

hahahaha you guys kill me! I love it! Yes I could definately stuff some parts down the disposal tootsweet! hahahaha . . . love you all! Thanks, I feel alot better about all this cause i got it off my chest. . now just to get the nausea away and I'd feel 100% again. . go to my PCP on tuesday anyhow, will check it out then. . . love ya again!

Ack, I am so sorry you are dealing with this! I agree with Tiffykins! Swift ninja kick in the arse! I think so long as you are standing up for yourself, that's what is important. We can't control our partners (much as we might *like* to :-)), but we can say what we know is true and defend ourselves, and that is what is really important! Still... maybe just *one* body part down the disposal, lol!

Sometimes you need to move on. If the guy is an arse then find one that isn't. Why hang around for more of same?

Jane x