I am upset my husband wont be able to make it to the surgery.He has to go on a work trip its rediculous but ohhh it is what is is if he dont work no money.

Sorry to hear that. I hope you have someone to be with you and drive both ways.

Good luck with your new journey.

We'll be here with you!

That's a bummer. I know the feeling. I am going in for some major cosmetic surgery and of all the surgeries I've had, this is the only one that puts me on edge (I think because it's a 8 hr surgery). Anyway, because of circumstance I am going alone and won't see my husband for 2 whole weeks. Stay strong, bring a picture or something that reminds you of him. And remember he'll be home soon

Congrats on your decision to become banded

praying for you, try to relax and make sure your not uptight when you go in for surgery, he will be waiting for you when you get home, don't go in stressed, Gods got you covered, you will do great, I do understand you want your hubby but he is going to make that money so he can come home and take care of his queen ( you)

it sucks but its not his choice. and we are here for u hugs

Thankyou so much for the nice words .Thank god my mom will be there .This site is amazing I love it great people here .

Thank God for mothers <3 they will stand by us when all else fails, you have a wonderful hubby and im sure he is just as frustrated as you are, im sure he wants nothing other then to be by his wife side, if he could tell the job I cant make the trip I bet you he would, my husband is a business man we have our own business and sometime I want to cry when he cant be by my side sometimes but I try to understand if he could he would, good luck on your surgery and picture his face before you go in.....you will do great sweetie