Thier a freaking joke!! My number one person that is suppose to be my support system is always accusin me and I'm bearly 3rd week post op if this is what it's going to be like for the rest of my life Awwwww hell no so far I'm doing great I haven't cheated or anything and I get accused!! My number two bailed on me he decide he couldn't wait till I felt better my other friend told me she was to busy to listen or talk to me when I was feeling down and told me this was a waste of money and time because I wouldn't be able to have children or even get married anyway cause I was going to be all saggy!! I just feel like everything is coming down around me!

People that haven't walked your walk are quick to comment, usually negatively. I just lost my nearest and dearest friend(i thought) of many years recently because she didn't get something I wss going through.

Strangers are sometimes better supporters. People here understand. Maybe use them to sound off your fears, , frustrations, etc. Strangers also make for good listeners.

The people in your life will be there to share your new and improved life. Change, jealousy, ignorance, can all explain the "supporters " you mentioned.

I am sorry for the hurt you must feel.I have a pretty good idea how it feels.

Thank you for commenting it does hurt my feelings as for the friend she's not very good in my book anymore I'm just gonna let it go which I should of done a long time ago and the boyfriend he'll be back he's just needs to adjust that I'm not the type to beg I have to worry aBout me right now and quit letting on ppl depend on me so much for everything!! As for my mother she'll quit tripping we've just spend entirely to much time together its time for me to go back to wk thank god I start my new job Monday three weeks of being home is entirely took long!!

Thank you for commenting it does hurt my feelings as for the friend she's not very good in my book anymore I'm just gonna let it go which I should of done a long time ago and the boyfriend he'll be back he's just needs to adjust that I'm not the type to beg I have to worry aBout me right now and quit letting on ppl depend on me so much for everything!! As for my mother she'll quit tripping we've just spend entirely to much time together its time for me to go back to wk thank god I start my new job Monday three weeks of being home is entirely took long!!

You sound much better : )

Hope you enjoy your new job.

What will you be doing?

Billing for oil field