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34yo married and a mother of 2 (14 and 11). i have had a weight problem my whole life but it seemed to have gotten worse once i had my tubes tied. what motivates me to want the surgery is the fact that its had for me to do things with my kids anymore. i am tired of having to take the "fat" seats on rollercoasters or my back hurting so bad i barely make it out of the theme park. I know it's time for me to make a change but what change do i make?

My sister and I had our first appointment in April and while she's able to have her surgery in July, I'm having to wait 6 months due to insurance requirements. i thought we would be able to go through this together for support but now that we're not i find myself trying to talk myself out of having the surgery.

I was wondering if am i the only one out there that is scared to death about having surgery! so here i am!?!

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HI

it took me a year to get all my tests and insurance requirements. I was very nervous right up to the time I had my band. (May 24th ) Help your sister, she will need your support and she will be your best support when it is your turn. You will also be able to see all the pitfalls before you get your band. Keep your mind on the prize

Lassie

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I agree with Lassie...support your sister in her journey and she will support you!

Your sister,

Tricia

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Remember this journey is for YOU I know you want a partner but won't it be great to sit on the sideline and see first hand what you need to do. She is paving the way for you so you won't be scared becuase you will know exactly what to expect in every stage....... But ultimately this is for you for your health for your improved life :) Good Luck and know we are here for you

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