Ok, so it will be my 20th Reunion very soon, and I am already freaking out. Back in December when I was banded, I assumed I would drop the weight so quick I wouldn't be having these thoughts, but then reality set in, and I'm down to 203 (218 day of surgery). In high school, my weight flucuated between 160-180. I want to look good for this event, but more importantly, I want to mentally prepare myself for it. I know now I won't be anywhere close to below 160 as I had originally hoped, but how do I convince myself it's ok? Has anyone else faced something similar?

I don't, but I did have my 20th last summer- don't dwell on it, have fun!

dionaw

Well, most of them won't be their high school weights either.