is it me or is it sooo much harder to get a job being big they just dont want to give u a chance

I agree I think I missed out on many great paying jobs and oppurtunities being over weight.

I think everything was harder being heavy ..

Sadly yes...weight discrimination does exist. I am pretty sure there is no current law against it either. I almost landed a great job when I moved here to FL. I am almost certain the reason I wasnt hired was due to my weight...very sad