today is my one week since surgery had my staples removed lost 10 pounds in 1 week i forgot to ask Dr's office about can you have sex? I am still sore on left side and steri strips on the incisions. Hubby has been on the road and comes home tonight and i am scared to open any incisions.

Lol!!!! Me too girl that was like the last thing on my mind =D

lol well it is done and over with now lol i waited a week lol hubby was out of town for 2 months came back and i wasnt waiting any longer lol

Lol

Good for you!

Lmao this is funny. Honestly though...I wasn't thinking much about it either ...I was in no mood for it...and I think I waited about 2-3 weeks? Something like that...because I know the first two weeks it wasn't happening even if he asked me!

I am 2 days post op and it's the last thing on my mind and the lovely flowers had better have been because he loves me and not a when can we hint lol

Man' date=' I need to get my libido checked out.

I wasn't even thinking of wanting to try. [/quote']

Same here..lol

just wait till you start really shrinking and you really start to feel sexier..... the libido will come back.

If not.... go buy yourself real sexy underwear .... that will help. Nothing makes you feel sexier than losing the "granny panties" and being able to go to VS to buy underwear.

That was one of my goal..... to be able to were sexy underwear.

We went from having sex 2-3 times a year... yes i said Year..... too.....3-5 times a week.... yes i said week... happy days

Bayougirl- same here! For a long time my boyfriend and I had sex like once a month or sometimes once every two months! It was sad! I felt really bad but how can you have sex when you aren't comfortable in your body? Since I've slimmed down and lost like 30something pounds I've been feeling amazing though and now we have sex all the time!