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"NERVES" - Surgery June 17th!

SURGERY this Friday the 17th .

Please any words of wisdom for the nerves I am feeling?

Thanks in advance!

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Well I made it through...not even 24 hours post-op yet though. Hard to sleep for me the port site is the most sore. The gas is there but not the worst...thanks so much for the message! I will be in touch when I am up and about more!:)

Omg we are long lost sisters lol..we are being banded on the same day! yay!! and i sis weight wathcers and i waited 5 years for this!! (long story) best of luck and i am going to have to friend you so we can keep eachother up dated..that is if you dont mind hehe :o):)

I was banded 4/12. The fear began a week prior to my surgery. I started doubting the potential success of the surgery. I did not tell anyone, but my husband. However, a funny thing happened, I picked up the phone three days before the surgery to let my mom know that I was having surgery. I did this because at the last minute, I began to think that I will not wake up from the surgery. That stayed with me until they took me back to be prepped on the day of my surgery. I had not seen my cycle in months so I started wishing that I would have a positive pregnancy test at the hospital. Surprise, surprise, surprise-My cycle was on when I went to change for the surgery so there was no backing out. The nurse was so nice and talked to me so much that I did not have time to be scared. Luckily, I was the second surgery that morning and the one before me ended early. So I did not have a lot of time to sit and think. Within twenty minutes of getting changed, I had the IV placed, then my doctor walked in with his reassuring smile. As he walked out, the Anesthesiologist walked in. Within minutes my CPAP machine was taken and checked. Before I could turn to relax, the anesthesiologist(sp?) came back and added a cocktail to my line. He then unlocked my bed and began rolling me back. I made a bet with him that I will make it into the surgery room without going to sleep. Just before going through the door they had me to switch beds and the next thing I knew was that I was trying to get up, but I couldn't. I asked the nurse, "how much longer before they begin?" She patted me on the shoulder and said that they were all done and just waiting for me to wake up. I was in the recovery room. So do not worry, just show up and before you know it, it will be over.

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Yeah!!!!!!!!!

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Well I made it through...not even 24 hours post-op yet though. Hard to sleep for me the port site is the most sore. The gas is there but not the worst...thanks so much for the message! I will be in touch when I am up and about more!:)

What I did was I started writing down and thinking about all of the exciting things that I will be able to do once I lose all of the weight, like fit better in chairs, go out dancing all night, riding horses, riding bicycles and motorcycles, running marathons, rockclimbing, etc etc. I felt like that was really empowering, and then I felt less nervous and more excited. Remember that each step you take is bringing you closer to the healthiest you! Best of luck with your surgery :)

I LOVE this idea! I am going to start a list tonight. I am being banded on July 6th and today was the 4th day of my 14 day liquid diet. I am extremely nervous too, second guessing my decision, but deep down I know this is what I've been waiting for. Thanks again! :)

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