I am five days out -- was banded last Friday, the day after my 41st birthday, in Baltimore, MD. I have felt super emotional since the surgery. I am excited and I am terrified. I am so scared to fail this time. I got through the 3 days of all clear liquids pretty easily and am now in 2 weeks of liquids/protein shakes and that feels a bit grim. I know I will be reading the discussion here and on various blogs for inspiration...

I would love to hear what's going on in the heads of other newly banded folks...

I have three daughters and I want this for them as much as for me.

Welcome!

Protein shakes can be yucky depending on the brand. I drink the Myoplex french vanilla with 42 gm of protein. It's pretty tasty and the grocery store carries it.

It's natural to be afraid of failure at this point, you haven't had the chance to succeed yet. Cut yourself a break and take one day at a time. It's hard to get through the weeks, even months after surgery and before you have restriction. You want it right now, but for your bodies sake, the process shouldn't be rushed. Wrap yourself around the idea that you will have to "diet" in order to lose before restriction helps you control your hunger and your portion sizes. South Beach is a good one. Don't be afraid! It's only temporary! You can get through it:thumbup:

I'm 6 days away from my surgery, and turn 40 this January. I'm so nervous of failure as well. I completely understand your feelings. I'm self pay, and wonder, "what if I spend all this money, and can't or won't do MY part" because I realize that the band is only a tool, not magic, and I have to do my part as well.

I was banded 8 days ago, i have no fluid in my band as of now, i go for my first fill in 2 weeks. I am eating greek yogurt with a bit of honey and its very satisfying and full of protein! My surgeon recommended it so try that instead of protein drink.