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Almost 58, is it too late for me?

I would like to hear from people who have done this surgery in their late 50s. I am almost through the approval process and would like to know that not everyone is 30 and a lot healthier than I am. I have diabetes, hypertension, apnea, reflux, high cholesterol, joint pain, general lack of motivation and energy.

I would like to know I am not alone out here. :wink2:

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Froggie D

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So glad you asked, I am 56 was banded 2 1/2 years ago. Just had plastic surgery to remove excess skin on tummy and while I was at it had the girls done too. Love the band, love my new body.

I went to a wonderful seminar yesterday. The surgeon, said he is seeing more and more people in their 50's and 60's having this surgery!! So I say GO FOR IT!! And congratulations on the first steps to a healthier you!!

Anything is possible. If I could do it, so can you. Click my b/4 and after photos in my personal info. All it takes is determination and a tool to help.. Good luck!

I am 52, and getting my band on Thursday. Can't wait, have been thinking about it on and off for years. I too have high blood pressure and cholesterol, arthritis, pain, and have decided to fix this before I get diabetes or heart disease, just know they're waiting round the corner.

Plus I want to buy clothes in regular shops.

You're not too old to get better health, but you're definitely too young to die from preventable health issues.

I haven't had the surgery yet, but as an RN I have seen many people have this without complications, and feel very safe.:wink2:

Be brave, and enjoy the rest of your life

PS, there might not be many older people on the site just because not everyone is computer savvy.

I was 57 when I was banded and have no regrets. My BP is down, my joint pain is better, my cholesterol is down....all markers of the better health I was seeking. As a bonus, co-workers are teasing me about how "tiny" I am. ME-TINY!!!!!! Amazing. Because of the band I weigh less now than I did in 1970 when I joined the Army for my 20 year career!!

Best wishes,

Mimi

Edited by Mimilou2004

This is great! I amenjoying seeing everyone's response. In 2004 when I was banded at 55+ there were not a whole lot of us. Apparently that has changed, and change is awesome. No more meds for me, arthritis pain minimized, no physical activity restictions, shopping in the normal size department, playing with my grandkids, riding bikes, swimming, diving, fishing. Just do it! Best move I ever made and we (those 50+) should band together (pun intended) and share our new found health and all of our wow moments.

My latest Wow moment was last week, on vacation in Mexico when I realized the robe in the hotel closet not only fit me, but was actually big on me!

Anyone else?

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Thanks everyone for all your stories. I am getting really pumped about it. I am not nervous about the surgery part, but nervous about whether I can make it a weight loss and weight maintenance success. I was afraid being older might make losing impossible. Also my bad eating habits and sedentary lifestyle are pretty ingrained after all these years. Now I am convinced I can do it. Thanks again!

Deb

Froggie, one of the things I didn't mention was exercise. Our metabolism's are shot so exercise is important. Start looking for a personal trainer that fits your personality....it will be money well spent. I have never had a plateau during my wt loss journey and I think it is because my personal trainer kept challenging me and changing things.

Best wishes,

Mimi

I am the same age as you and had my surgery just a little over 2 weeks ago. It's never too late for a fresh start! I have lost 10 lbs. since 2/12 and already feel so good! I look forward to being a younger, healthier, happier version of myself. I have 2 adult children and 3 grandkids that I want to be around for! I actually wish I had done the surgery 10 years ago, but cie la vie. I say Go for it! I will be here to support you - just give me a holler.

Barbara

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Hey Chubnomore,

I just got an email from my surgeon's office and I AM APPROVED!!!!! They will be setting a date soon.

It will be great to have someone who had surgery so close and so close to my same age. I am worried that I will not be successful in losing weight and keeping it off. I could use a lot of support from someone who understands!

I am not sure how to do it but we could PM. Do you know how to start this?

Froggie D

Debra

GOOD FOR YOU. You will not be disappointed. I was 56 when I had the surgery in Feb 09. I feel so much better, less meds, more active and all the other things that have been said. It does take patience. But it will work. Keep us updated!!

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:thumbup:Congratulations!!! We have some great resources within the group and we are here for support. When is the date?

Just remember it is not a magic band, it is just a tool to help you to obtain your goal weight and maintain it.

Keep us informed as to our progress.

NO NO NO U R not too old. I had my surgery 2 days ago at age 59. Go for it, you'll be happier on the other side.

I would like to hear from people who have done this surgery in their late 50s. I am almost through the approval process and would like to know that not everyone is 30 and a lot healthier than I am. I have diabetes, hypertension, apnea, reflux, high cholesterol, joint pain, general lack of motivation and energy.

I would like to know I am not alone out here. :(

Please post!

Froggie D

Hi, Froggie! Boy, am I glad to see YOU here! I'm Jeri - I just joined the boards today and I will be 57 in October. I have been approved, and I'm in about the same boat that you're in. I'm fortunate to only be PRE-Diabetic, but I've got apnea, reflux, major issues with neck, back and knees and I'm also fighting the motivation, lack of energy thing!

My surgery is scheduled for 3/12/10 - I'm a nervous wreck, but I'm also excited that for the first time in my life I am TRULY committed to making my weight loss efforts a success. I have been through every single weight loss program you can imagine, plus many personal attempts. None of them have worked long term or I wouldn't be here now.

You CAN do this - there are lots of great people here - take advantage of the support, reach out - we're here and we'll do this TOGETHER!!! I'm going to send you a friend request!:(

NO NO NO U R not too old. I had my surgery 2 days ago at age 59. Go for it, you'll be happier on the other side.

You guys are amazing- there are more and more of us over 50 every day- When I was banded in 2004 I was the exception on 2 counts- my age was high (56) and my bmi was high- (68+) and here I am now, living life and loving it- today in a pair of size 10 jeans, pink sweater, tucked in with a belt studded with pink crystals..who'd have thought that about a 424 pound lady 6 years ago- and now I'm 61 and catching up for all those years of sedentary living- there's no holding me down...

Themoral of the story here is _ GO FOR IT!

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