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I have that same problem ... but my friends that are really my friends are there no matter what ... i did have one friend tell me that when i lost the weight that we were not going to be friends anymore.... cause she was not going to be my fat friend...lol... sooo stupid... but we will see what happens... but we call those people haters.... and we brush them off and keep going ... sooo dont worry you did this for you ...not for her....good luck

I say sleeve .... i was going for the lapband too... and when i talked to my dr ... and he said that the lapband wasnt good... i came here and talked to people and changed my mind... and i lovvvvvveeeeee my sleeve wish i would have done this a longtime ago... i did my one the 1st of july and alreay down 27 lbs....i love it ....

i did my classes in carson

i will be twos weeks out on thur ,,,and im sooo unsure of what to eat....i need to call my dr

omg... i made some .....and it was soooo good ... way better then chicken broth...

from what i hear that take them off all the time from people that went to mex to get it put on and now has problem.....i was sleeved on 7/1... i was going to get the band ...but my dr told me it was not a good idea and all the reasons why....and i said heck naw,,,sooo i did the sleeve...and im happy...7day out and 8lbs down....

wow... that is a deep one for this site...lol.. i personal think that god NEVER gives you more then you can handle....but i also know that people can in and out of ur live for a reason not all are good and not all are bad...but you take a lil bit of what everyone has to often and thats what makes you a stronger person you find what i like and what u dont like ... what u willl deal with and what u wont deal with ....sooo with that said...would he bring you ur husband if he was not ready....answer...if he is not doing right maybe god didnt send him for that reason.....always make sure you are always happy with that person and if they are not doing right from the start then im sure they wont do right in the end....good luck

They are HATERS......some people just dont wanna see the next person happy....trust me,,, 6days out and i have haters already...lol..as long as u are proud of u........good luck

hey ally....glad to here that your doing great...we had our sx on he same day ...YAY..... i was feeling the same way as if i was eating wayy to much...but im learning .....

i feel better everyday..... at 1st i was thinking whyyyyy....but with everyday it becomes more clear....im still just taking it really easy ....cant walk for a long time but im getting there

thanks for all ur support...i had the sx on july 1....about 130pm...and im still here hoping to go home tomorrow but..... i feel better and better everyday....its hard but u came this far.sooo iit is what is is...i hate all the gas ...omg...when i 1st camme out it felt like a truck hit me..and thats when i said why did i do this....lol...but things are getting better

thanks for all ur support...i had the sx on july 1....about 130pm...and im still here hoping to go home tomorrow but..... i feel better and better everyday....its hard but u came this far.sooo iit is what is is...i hate all the gas ...omg...when i 1st camme out it felt like a truck hit me..and thats when i said why did i do this....lol...but things are getting better

sooo they just called 945am.. i willl be going in to havesomething done that wll hopefully change my life forever....happy but scared....thanks to all that shared their story cause i new sooo lil about the sleeve..and was sooo set on the lapband till i came on here...thanks all... and plese keep me in ur prayers....

OMG... i feel the same but im 31..and will be 32 in jan...but i try to look at it like god made me wait this long for some reason...and i was like that too wanted too wanted to wait for the houe and job... and i have both and still i feel like i waited to long...but now a days people are starting to have kids at 35.... sooo i dnt feel sooo bad... but i feel how u feel ... i dont have reg per, and when i lost 30 lbs it come every month...soo i hope after doing the sleeve that things will happen fast...but good luc to you.. im sure things will work out fine...i have my sx tomorrow....happy and scared.....

ohhhh... i feel you and that great please keep in touch it would be great to have someone to talk too... good luck

thank you sooo much for all the tips..im sure i will need them. im just soo scared that i wont drank all the Water i will need to get...but hopefully i will be ok ....i just keep hearing sip sip sip....lol... soo we will see what happen thurs is my day and is coming fast

im get closer and closer to my day .....and wow is it coming fast i dont know if i should be happy are scared..lol... but i cant wait to start losing... is there anything or does anyone have any tips before are after the surgery... i would love to hear them ...

im in los angeles.... and would love to have someone in my area....im getting sleeved on july 1st....and im kinda scarrrrrred...lol

thats great i have been looking for people on here thats going to kaiser,,,YAY....i hear that habor city is the best,.. my sister saw dr zane a few years ago and im seeing dr belsbregs,,,,lol i think that the way its spelled... on july 1... i was done with my classes back at the end of april... i was seen i think in may...and had a date for july 26... and someone moved sooo they called friday to see if i wanted july 1... and i said yes... but im sooo scared... it nice to know other people in my city...

i would love to have a buddy....it would be great if i could find someone in the so cal area... im in los angeles and will have the sx july 1....and is really scared

wow... sooo im not having my sx on july 26.... they have moved me up to july 1,2010....OMG... now im getting scared.... i just hope im doing the right thing... i really plan on having kids as soon as i can after the sx....

i to have a date set for july 26... bad part is i got laid off from my job... and will not have any medical after july 31...cutting it real close...lol... sooo im very unsure of what to do know... if i do the sx i will have my medical a lil bit longer cause i will be on leave ... but when the dr says im fine to go back to work ...i will no longer have medical ... but i can buy cobra...and thats an arm leg and an eye..lol..250.00... per month... sooo im calling to see if maybe they can give me a sooner date... but will we see... cause i sooo wanna do this....crossing my fingers....

@ tiff why did u wanna use b/c... just wondering i just started to take them again... and wondering if maybe u know something i dont...lol

Im sure you will be just fine .... as you come down to size you will learn how to be thin everyday...lol good luck to you mary

I fell the same way....and have a lot of the same questiions that you have ... my date is set for 7/26/10.... and i have changed my mind a few times but me being able to come on here and read what everyone outlook on this is makes me feel much better about going on with it ... but good luck im sure you will be just fine...