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Thanks miss for all the info and support!

Love that sage!!!!!

I know all about the counseling thing lol my problems are not going away or going to get better anytime soon so i have to start taking care of myself in midst of the craziness and stress and not wait to say then ill take care of myself. I feel like i am safe to say most of us with the band emotionally eat or have some sort of unhealthy relationship with food or else there would have been no reason for the band

Its so hard to tell how much fill is the right amount and not too much were you are miserable

I dont have much of a fill now due to a surgerey i had and they took most out. Before that though i was eating crap food because healthy food was getting stuck all the time

Thank you for the encouragement ! I am working to keep my family afloat my marriage is a mess i have two young kids and trying to do it all i guess you can figure i take the back seat in priority plus i ear my way through the stress. I work in hospice now and my own mortality is becoming apparent and i need to be here for my kids!

Thank you for your help ! I feel so discouraged and like a failure!

What kind and how much exercise do you do?

Maybe i will seek out a new one i am thinking about 1200 should be good

They always tell me to do shakes though i don't want to live off of shakes im 5 2 about 245 pounds

Do you guys think ww jenny craig or just good ole calorie counting is the best ?? Along with a band tweak??? and if calories what is the range i should be in

Thats wonderful! Your an inspiration!

I feel like people lose the weight without the band and i cant even do it with the band!!!!

I had the too loose than too tight problem i hated stuck! I couldn't eat healthy foods but now i can everything but too much if it

What have you done? Do you count calories? Do you get the proper amount of protien? Do you drink enough Water? Do you visit your surgeon for fills when needed? Do you exercise? Okay' date=' I will wait to finish the rest of my 20 questions! LOL[/quote']

Ive tried everything but stuck to nothing thats the problem i do see my doc and about two months ago had most of the fill out because i had an unrelated surgery and i had to get it out i am a 36 year old mom who is doing most everything by myself i work full time so not tok much free time for me i need a plan i have tried ww , calorie counting, medifast, i wad thinking about jenny craig so annoyed i have to do any of this with the band:( plus i have major stress and little support

I have had the band for two years but have not had much success. I need to really start over and take this seriously or else i will start having medical issued what food plan do you suggest i do? Please help!!!

Thank you all for your supportive responses. Toomuchfun -I feel that if I wait until my life is in order I will never do the right thing by me and give up completely on my health. It does not look like my stuff is clearing up anytime soon so i will have to live with what it is despite how sucky it is. Anyway I do know how to persevere I am a fighter I am just trying to figure out what route to take. I was actually thinking about having some Fluid out and seeing if it puts me in a better place. I am not losing with what I have in it so dont think it will hurt much. I appreciate all of you!! thank you your encouragement literally brought tears to my eyes!

Here is my crazy story. I had the band done Nov of 2010. I have not had any crazy problems but the band has been getting on my nerves lately. I initially lost about 30 pounds and then my life had a big crisis hit..the stress is near killing me and I started eating crap and of course gained weight. I am working 4 part time jobs to keep my family afloat, i have two young kids and no time to take care of myself. Anyway i find it so hard to eat lately, it hurts and the crap food is so much easier to eat. I have been to the doctore but is not much help. I feel like i vomit about twice a week but i avoid the good food for me since it is hard to eat it and i dont have relaxing time to eat slowly non stressed. I hate never getting the normal full feeling, sick of the lump in the throat and pain in the chest, sick of the being afraid of certain foods, plus i feel bloated all the time and gassy. Then i have been hearing all the horror stories about the band and cancer and then i get anxiety thinking i have a ticking time bomb inside of me. sometimes i really truly regret getting this, It was a waste of time and money and heart ache. I feel like i was losing better without this thing in me and feeling better also. I want it out most days but not even sure if insurance will cover it. Any ideas suggestions??? Mot sure what to do. thanks in advance!

I was wondering if anyone out there has done medifast with the band. I just ordered my first month and I am really praying it will give me the structure i need. I will be doing the 5 and 1 which is 5 medifast products and i lean and green meal.. thanks....

I hate to be gloom and doom but I really think tha I have given up onmyself and this surgery. I had it done november of 2010 and I did lose about 40 pounds. I had a major life crisis hit and my ife has not been the same since and since that point about 1 year ago my weight loss has ended and the ain started I am up now half of what I lost and I am so mad at myself. I feel like I went though this whole process to just fail at this also. I feel like this was just another failed weight loss attempt. I am in a rocky marriage, i have two kids work about 50 hours a week and can not find the time to take care of myself, and when i do have the the time i dont have the energy or the desire. I think that i have a decent amount of Fluid in my band to the point where i can get stuck on certain things but yet other things, maily junk goes down so easy! I am afraid i stetched my pouch at times, i at times also wished i never got this thing now its one more thing for me to worry about going wrong inmy body! I need to get on track, i need a buddy, i need some advice to pick myself up somehow and move on in the right direction.....not sure if there is hope for me though..maybe i am destined to be like this....

i was told that mine was a stoma spasm..i get the pain also sometimes but it is random and i could follow all of the rules and it would not make a difference. i had a small amount of Fluid removed and it has gotten a little better. my kind of feels like a stuck pin with the food going down but its not stuck.....same way with me also after a few painful bites then i could at times be fine. hormones also back the band feel tighter i was told

Hi everyone well I had my surgery Nov 15 of last year and have lost about 35 pounds ..only problem is , is that my life has got really complicated and stressful (more so than before) and I started putting myself on the back burner again and hello weight gain! So my question is I need a diet plan or some sort of structure to follow..I ma to free for all now..I can eat most anything still.....Please I would love any ideas. The doc told me two shakes and one small meal ....I dont know if that would keep me full..what do you all do and think is a good food plan????? And for those of you who have been really successful what worked for you in the losing phase of this process???

Hi everyone! I have two questions for all of you banders. the first is I am finding it very hard not to eat at night my husband works on the weekends and I am all by myself. After I put the kids to bed I am bored and lonely and all I want to do is eat! Please any ideas or surggestions would be greatly appreciated! Also I am so gassy and bloated everytime I eat I am 8 months post op and wondering if anyone else experiences this. Thanks!

I love jay robb also no after taste..sometimes i put some sf ff pudding powder in the chocolate to make it a little stronger.

I was banded in Nov and I have lost about 38 pounds I feel like a failure also like it should be more but Ineed to remind myself of what I have lost and keep pushing ahead