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GoingforGoal

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  1. GoingforGoal

    Pain meds

    Liq Lortab
  2. GoingforGoal

    Numb areas after surgery?

    Not to be funny, but if the numbed site is over your port you may forego lidocaine prior to fills yeah... always think + lol
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    Numb areas after surgery?

    The feeling may or may not come back. I had a c/s and have been permanently numb under the incision. Neural recovery is one of longest recoveries that exist so be patient.
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    Almost scared to eat

    Throwing up from nausea or from getting stuck? There's lots of talk about being afraid to transition foods due to fear of getting stuck so I just want to clarify. If thus far you have not had any complications with your Clear Liquids (nausea, excessive restriction where it doesn't feel like the Water is going down etc) than it's time to transition. Go slow and test each sip. Going slow will reduce nausea but will also let you gauge if the thicker liquid is problematic. If it is, extend your clears another day and try again. If not, slowly add volume with each 'meal' and eat progressively thicker liquids once the thinner liquids pass with no problem. Although docs give us timelines, we are all unique and sometimes we need to extend the period we are on (liquids, mushies etc). It's an experiment to say the least. Listen to your band and your body. Trust when you feel uncomfortable to stop or even take a step back. But also trust that when there's no issue, there's no issue and you can resume transitioning. Easy does it. But please don't be 'scared' simply be slow
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    Stress and weight loss

    During stress your body creates cortisol the very culprit that increase insulin resulting in excessive storage of fat. To decrease cortisol destressing is necessary. Some do yoga, some take a break, some just breeeeeeathe.. Now that you have seen stress first hand and how it effects wl I hope you can keep at away. Congrats on the new baby and welcome to parenthood (oh... I guess the last comment is no longer valid SNICKER)
  6. T-8 days until the new me :)

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    Decreased urination?

    Minimal intake for women should be 2.2 liters. A decrease in urine output is the result of negative intake. I know it's hard..but drink more Try sipping throughout the day continously. Drink protein shakes for added fluid intake etc.
  8. It's excess skin. Basically your fat is no longer filling your abdominal cavity to feel firm and skin tight. As the fat cells shrink, there's nothing to replace the fat volume. So skin becomes lax. I call it cottage cheese stomach...That's why I'm going for cosmetic surgery next month lol.
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    Post O0 diet question

    Ready, Please share more information about yourself. How many days postop are you for instance? You should never eat more than 1 cup per serving (8oz), however, most newly banded patients cannot consume this much at one sitting so they sip intermittently throughout the day. Things like weight loss, calories consumed etc are not as much of a priority as healing for the first 4-6 weeks postop. Typically with the transitional diets we start at very low calories (500 cals sometimes) and gradually increase our intake as inflammation allows us. A typical average for a well established bandster on solids is 800-1200 (women) and 1000-1500 (men) depending on activity level. I only share this so that you don't over consume and if you find yourself eating near 2000 cals than you have certainly overshot the caloric range optimal for wl.
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    Worried about safety

    Spartan, I understand your anxiety, it's natural and to be expected. Risks should never be weighed lightly, however, the typical outcomes should be a sense of comfort. As a nurse I consider 3 factors for the prognosis of a surgery: 1) The type of surgery. Is it an open surgery, is it laproscopic? Is it a short surgery or will it last for 3, 6, or 8+ hrs? How invasive is the surgery (ie incising organs, accessing vessles etc or are we superficial to organs/tissues)? 2) What is the health of the patient? Have they had negative surgical experiences/outcomes in the past? 3) What is the experience of the surgeon and the facility performing the surgery? This surgery is performed laproscopically typically drastically reducing healing time and risk for infection. It is typically performed under 1 hr and is noninvasive in regards to accessing vital organs and vessels that could pose risk of infection, internal bleeding etc. Since the procedure is so short, the adverse effects of anesthesia are seldom seen and can easily be reversed with other medications. If you are having your procedure done by a bariatric surgeon, take assurance that he/she is well versed in the procedure and the routine of the surgery. His/Her support staff is also well experienced and will know how to assist any diversions that may occur. It's a well oiled machine designed for the very best outcomes. Yes, there are some risks and we dwell on that statistic but these risks are as prevelant as walking across a street or driving at night. A healthier view is to compare the potential risks of surgery with the very real risks of being obese. Which is more likely? Deep breaths, you'll be fine
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    Denied?

    Hi Billie, Unfortunately there are a thousand scenarios someone can get denied and it has nothing to do with whether you 'prequalified' or not. Examples include: a) a person who far exceeds the minimum requirements, but suddenly gets diagnosed with a condition they were unaware of whilst undergoing diagnostics in prep for surgery. Example may be cancer. This requires the patient to get this addressed first before proceeding w/ the band. a person who is borderline and cannot demonstrate any comorbidities, or fails to meet sufficient proof qualifying them for approval. For instance, you are BMI 35, no comorbidities and have only been overweight for a year. (again, this is specific to the individual insurance co's and their requirements) c) arbitrary denial. This is my story. Husband and I went in together. Did all our tests together. Submitted the pw, he gets approved and I get denied. When the doc informed them we were a married couple and we mutually met the requirements, the insurance company approved me. Yes! It's a game, and Yes! it can be played not in your favor. But keep trying. Most people coast through. If you already meet the minimum requirements there should be no problem. We are talking small percentages of people who pop up with conditions and/or the person who is trying to see if they can get qualified and were not confident they would be approved or not. Just go through the motions. There is nothing you can do until you get word from the insurance co.
  12. lol Mis where do you get those pics ahhaha Cat, congrats hon. I am coming up on my 4yr anniversary as well. ^5
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    Is my surgeon right?

    ok without being in the conversation the only thing I can deduct from this conversation is that the surgeon may have intended to say: If you eat like normal without any regard for volume and/or bite sizes etc and you feel absolutely no restriction or pushback, than you may have stretched, slipped, eroded etc your band. No, its not meant to be painful when you eat. However, it can be painful when you eat a large bite, a food that typically does not pass well through your stoma or if you eat fast and overeat. Again without being there I cant say precisely what he was inferring but its my best guess
  14. skb, I'm happy you are feeling the sensation of what we describe as green. It's great when you feel this early on so that you can gauge if you are in the green for the rest of the future. However, to truly know if your fill put you in green, wait a month. Fills effect everyone differently but some of the common experiences are: 1) inflammation immediately after a fill resulting in maximum restriction. Hence the reason many are on liquids and transition to mushies as to not further agitate the inflammed area 2) After the inflammation has subsided and you resume normal eating, the band gets 'used'. So it relaxes further. 3) Although I did not notice this in the earlier fills, I certainly do now but sometimes I get tighter a couple weeks after the fill. 4) Around the 4 week mark is when you can assess you band for what it should do for you long term and determine if you nee a fill immediately 4-6 wks apart or if you are content and can hold off. Also keep in mind as you lose weight, as time elapses etc that maintenance fills are required usually even if you previously were at green. But like I said, at least you konw what you are aiming for and that's the biggest accomplishment
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    PBing

    Couple thoughts...one, definitely remember that worked with the last fill needs to be 'retested' after the next fill. The slightest additional restriction can make a yes food a no food real quick lol. But also remember, give yourself a few weeks after the fill to truly test the band. By than the inflammation has subsided and the band has been well used giving you an idea of how lose/tight that band will be at that particular fill. Lastly, band restriction fluctuates from day to night, day to day.. If you notice your band is slightly more open than normal, take advantage and eat a tuna patty Although I have foods I hesitate to eat because they consistently cause issues, I still keep them on the list for 'open days'
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    Aspartame

    I am a sweet & low fan, drink it all the time (hot tea, coffee name it) and I drink CL as my back up drink as well to switch things up. The only response you are going to get is "sugar is better" "artificial sugars are bad bad bad" lol etc (quoting a previous topic posted) but these are personal preferences and not band related
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    How many calories?

    Hi 3mommy... Just going to throw some feedback out there instead of giving you a true #. 1. Most bandsters are typically around 800-1200 cals (female) and maybe 1000-1500 (male). The lower end of the spectrum is for less active and the higher end for the most active. 2. When newly banded some bandsters can't even get 500 cals in but should actively work towards increasing their caloric intake as inflammation subsides. 3. Fat burning= calories in - calories burned. If you find at your current intake your weight loss has stopped, than either eat less or workout more. 4.900-1200 cals is a huge range even though it's a mesely 300 cals. An example, at 900 cals you may lose and at 1200 you may gain. You MAY benefit from staying consistent to test your bodies sensitivity to a particular calorie. However, if you are still losing that is all you need to concern yourself with. Everyone is different because our metabolic rates, activity levels etc are different. THis is just to keep in mind if you come to a standstill in the future when Metab rates may slow down or if your body has adjusted to the calories and needs a change to continue losing more.
  18. Depending on what stage you are in, I would certainly try taking a whole capsule. I have taken horse pill antibiotics while banded with no problem. That is at GREEN and certainly restrictive enough to not allow some foods like dry meat to pass etc. I would experiment as it would save you the ordeal of crushing and tolerating the bad taste. Other points- if you are newly banded and not on solids, I would suffer the crushed med phase until you are better established on the band as to not create inflammation. And make certain your meds are crushable, I am assuming this was already done Here's a list of meds that should NOT BE CRUSHED: http://www.ismp.org/tools/donotcrush.pdf
  19. lol Hi and yes you watch too much Grey's Anatomy lol. I'm an RN and just wanted you to know that you have a dedicated anesthesiologist at the head of the table monitoring your vitals and YOU during the entire operation. Sedatives are given per body weight recommended doses but there is alot of wiggle room to add more if the patient is not properly sedated. There are many subtle signs to alert an anest. well before you wake up. The second thing is that the lapband procedure is a relatively short procedure as well and even further reduces any chances of you awakening Not to undermine the risks of ANY surgery, but this as routine as it gets. And although it is completely normal to have anxiety (especially if you are young or if this is your first surgery etc) but be reassured that you are going to do just fine. Just reinforcing the positive thoughts you are telling yourself and how much your life is going to change for the better in T-9hrs
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    At a stand still

    Hey Blue, Most people start struggling in week 3-4 if they haven't already been suffering band hell. It's normal and it's definitely a challenge because we start to fixate on food. I know you'll make it through Congrats on the wl, that's fantastic. Hugs
  21. lol Nana, I have this saved on my desktop lol
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    uggg...

    Hello, By your own admission, your insurance just permitted coverage as of July of this year. Unfortunately, EVERY insur. co. has different requirements and those requirements need to be verified and met by the doctor's office. Typically when the docs office has been working w/ certain insur. companies they know by hard what they expect and can get the ball started much earlier. I hope that he was able to get the first steps started (ie maybe an assessment etc). But be ready to get patient because your actual surgery may not be for months (some even have to undergo a 6 month medically monitored diet prior to surgery). If I were you, I'd look up the requirements so that you have a good idea what to expect and won't be too shocked at your next doc appt when he tells you what your steps will be. Congrats on choosing the band...it will come SOON
  23. Oh I know your pain. Never before in my life would I go up to a fellow obese person and suggest what they should do about their weight haha. However, after the band and losing heaps of weight I cannot help but sympathize and want to help. But than I step back and I think to myself..what if someone did that to you. Out of the blue just said, hey I see your overweight, you should get the band. Oh boy. That's as bad as someone asking you when you are due when you are not pregnant LOL. If someone asks, please do help and share your story. If someone brings up the topic and share they are struggling/failing, share. But if they don't ask... I think I would refrain from bringing it up. It is indeed a sensitive topic. Unfortunately I know that means we have to accept this person may never lose weight, or maybe they'll gain even more before getting started on the right path, or perhaps they'll get conditions as a consequence of their obesity making them suffer even more (ie diabetes). Sigh, but it's the onus of the person to be ready and to make the decision. All your comments may solicit is embarrassment and anger and that is the opposite emotion the person needs and certainly won't encourage surgery. Patience
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    Low metabolism?

    Thanks for the citation. Much appreciated. Want a good laugh..at the bottom of your post is your dates/surgeons. We were banded by the same surgeon Dr. Moazzez (crazy small world ey) lol
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    Low metabolism?

    Sorry Sojourner but Nana's description is medically based. Indeed when you lower you caloric intake and do not compensate w/ exercise, your body does adjust and lower's the metabolism. There's no need for it to spend all that energy when 1) you are taking in insufficient energy and 2) are not burning significant energy. Also, as you lose weight your body adjusts to the new demands to sustain that new mass, and again, this can result in a lowered metabolism. If you do workout, exercise is a known metabolism booster. Obviously, because you are burning energy and it works your metabolism more than a sedentary individual. Mind you, this is all based on consistency not the once in awhile workout. I'm uncertain if nana's statistic that 95% of us who get unfills will gain weight rapidly. I am not disagreeing as that is the typical experience. However, I haven't seen this statistic published is all. I think her point is that because our metabolism has lowered because we are eating (let's say <1000 calories), when we get unfilled we are no longer maintaining a 1000 cal diet and thus we are overfeeding our metabolic needs and thus rapidly gain weight. No denying that's precisely what is happening. As for MrShep, its impossible to gauge what is happening w/out knowing things like how many cals he eats, how much you lost, how much you workout etc. But the lowered metabolic rate is of no shock to me. Meds are very commonly described and can only help.

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