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Also, remember that with all the workouts you are doing is causing u to gain lean muscle mass which tends to weigh more than fat. After a while it will balance out and you will see the scale move. In the meantime, look for other non scale victories such as loose clothing and such. Hang in there

Down 5lbs this week. Can I get an AMEN!:thumbup:

I was told that the best was is to go back to basics. I lost track and I decided to get back to the basics and start all over. You still have the tool, you just have to use it. The power is in your hands. The band is a mere tool that we have to work. I know you can do it. We all have it in us. Good luck

As a Christian, I cannot encourage to you to leave him. However, as a woman I belive your responsibility is to your children. His drinking is a potential hazard to you and the kids then by all means get out of there. He is a grown man who has chosen the path he is on. Sometimes taking drastic measures MAY help him. As far as your kids hating you, I am sure when they are all grown up they will love thier Mama for making the decision to take care of their needs. You will not be the first to leave and start fresh. As the famous adage goes, " A journey of a million steps begins with one". As time goes on you will be able to get all the nice things again such as the house, yard, cars etc. You sound like a wise and strong woman. One thing I have realized is that you cannot not make people change. That entirely depends on the person. I pray that you find a full time job that will enable you to take care of your family. As long as you are alive, God will give you the wisdom and strength to make it. Good Luck!

Hi Guys, I am doing great. I am working on my Thesis for my master’s degree; so between that work, hubby and the baby, I cannot seem to log on as much. I am also relocating to Alabama from VA and getting a house built as well. I promise that I need about 48 hours in my day. I have not abandoned by Bandster Bunnies. You guys are a part of my life forever. UPDATE: I went for me second post-op on 4/30. E'thing went great and I get my first fill on 5/11 . I am not sure if I really need it bcos I am yet to experience a bout of hunger sensation. However, I am not sure if it is because my portion sizes maybe slightly larger. The other thing was I had only lost .5Ibs since surgery as of 4/30. Well for some reason, this week I have lost about 3.5Ibs and I am excited. I started working out on the elliptical doing about 2.5 miles every day. I think the exercise makes a huge difference. Guys, since we are all done with surgery, I was thinking about starting a thread for us in the Post -Op thread. That way we can still access each other and feed of the experience of the veterans. Or wld u rather continues with this thread. What do u guys think? Love u all and I am so glad that we all made it safely thru the procedure. God is good.

I am three weeks post-op. I have been doing fine with the exception of terrible gas pain in the afternoon. Every afternoon, I feel extremely terrible and all I do is take Gas X and pass gas all evening. I am not sure what is going on but it is not fun. I had lost a total of 25lbs since the pre-op diet. However, the past 2 weeks, the scale has stopped moving in the right direction. I have gained 3lbs since surgery. I am not sure why, because I eat small portions and my calorie intake per day is between 800 and 1000 a day. I have eliminated all simple carbs and very little complex carbs. I am not discouraged just a tad bit disappointed that my scale is not going down. I still belive that I made the right choice and when I see my doctor next Friday, I will express my concern.

Hi Guys, I have been missing in action for a little over a week. I had some personal issues that I had to resolve. By the Grace of God it is all good. Update: I am three weeks post-op. I have been doing fine with the exception of terrible gas pain in the afternoon. Every afternoon, I feel extremely terrible and all I do is take Gas X and pass gas all evening. I am not sure what is going on but it is not fun. I had lost a total of 25lbs since the pre-op diet. However, the past 2 weeks, the scale has stopped moving in the right direction. I have gained 3lbs since surgery. I am not sure why, because I eat small portions and my calorie intake per day is between 800 and 1000 a day. I have eliminated all simple carbs and very little complex carbs. I am not discouraged just a tad bit disappointed that my scale is not going down. I still belive that I made the right choice and when I see my doctor next Friday, I will express my concern. I am so glad for all you guys who are doing great. I am also praying for those of you who are yet to be banded. Take care and God Bless

Hi Family, let me apologise for not being able to post over the weekend. I am doing relatively fine. I flew last week to surprise the family. The plane ride was uneventful with the exception of this rolling pain in the chest/esophagus area that seems to stop me in my tracks. Hubby and baby girl were so happy to see me. My family says they can tell I lost weight. I did have a pre-op appoint on 04/08. My incisions looked great. I told nurse that if I drank one more shake I will jump off the roof (lol). I had lost 18lbs on the doctors scale since March 8th. However, I have lost 25 on my personal scale. I have been using my personal scale to update ticker factory. I explained my chest pain to the nurse and she believes that it is the hitial hernia repair. Advised that I take pain meds and sudafed to reduce allergy and sinus drainage. I experienced intermittent pain the whole weekend in the chest area. I am not sure what triggers the pain, but whenever I lean my head back I get relief. This pain sorts of roll down my chest. Also, whenever, I swallow I sort of feel the food going down in a slow and almost painful way. I am ready to heal and get back to norma. CHALLENGES: :mad:I hate sipping my drinks, I just want to drink :mad:I miss a cold glass of coke on ice :mad:I hate that it takes me so much time to eat and makes my food cold (love hot food) :mad:CHEWING gets boring. :thumbup:I AM LOVING THE WAY MY CLOTHES ARE LOSE!!!!!!!!!!!! Worth the challenges:thumbup:

At airport now in transit with a delayed flight and have to go soon. Had my post -op today. Will update further when I get in tonite. Luv u guys

this mornin, I woke up feeling very naseaous, I also started my TOM (time of month) overnight. I am not sure if there is any relation to my nausea. I am still on liquids and at this moment I cannot phatom having another protein drink. I have been sipping on calorie free lemonade to cut down on the naseauted feeling. I s/w nurse advised that I was feeling like crap. I told her that I cannot do the pro shakes today. She convinced me to try other brands. I was not able to get my shakes in today. Whenever, I tried I wld gag and I did not want to risk vomitting. My doctor prescribed me some nausea medication. Just liquids and a chocolate malt energy drink called MILO (very popular in Mexico and Africa). God willing, 2morrow I will go and buy some protein shots. I have pushed my post op for 2 morrow. Catching a flight to see my family afterwards. I am suprising them, was supposed to get there on Saturday, but I just can't wait. What happened to my ability to BURP! All I want to do is burp. Also, I have been able to fart (TMI) quite a few times today. ThanK God I am alone. Congrats to all those banded 2day. God be with those being handled 2morrow.

Hi Love, u have the answer to the question. Jesus is the ultimate doctor and healer. People get killed eday by driving down the street. Keep ur faith, commit the surgery team in God's hands and keep going. Fear and faith can not reside in the same space. By HIS stripes u r healed. God Bless

Hi Guys, I got banded on 04/02 (last Friday). I have done pretty well so far with the exception of the normal gas pain and discomfort. However, this mornin, I woke up feeling very naseaous, I also started my TOM (time of month) overnight. I am not sure if there is any relation to my nausea. I am still on liquids and at this moment I cannot phatom having another Protein drink. I have been sipping on calorie free lemonade to cut down on the naseauted feeling. I have called my doctor and left a message. Any advise from the vetrans will help.

Congrats to all those banded 2 day. Welcome to the other side. UPDATE: Today is a much better day. Of course the gas is still trapped but I managed to flush some out. I walked two miles today:thumbup:.1 mile this mornin and another this evening at a pace of 2.2 mph on the treadmill. I have very little pain at the incision area only when I cough. Went to grocery store to pick up a few items. I was so happy that the section that usuall excit me was not even an issue. I have my post-op appt on Friday and I fly on Saturday to go see my hubby and baby girl. I miss them so much. Good Luck to all the Bunnies crossing over 2morrow. God bless

Hi Guys, just thought I wld check in today. I have been doing fine with the exception of uncomfortable gas, intermittent pain in my chest/shoulder area. I am still on full liquid diet. Having problems getting in all my shakes. I actually missed my afternoon shake and I cld tell the difference this evening. I was almost sort of hungry. Well, I am at the moment working on my shake now. The gas has been very stubborn today. I can't seem to get it out. Managed to drive to the store and bought some GAS X chewables and that seems to be working. I have had a few precious Farts this evening. I have a whole new respect for farting after this experince. I callled my doctor about the pain in my chest/shoulder area and he recommeded walking and Ibrofen. I walked a bit this mornin and evening. I stopped taking the Percocet today. Need a clear head to recover. Swtiching to over the counter. I miss my hubby and daugther so much. I don't get to see them till Saturday. Had a few down moments today, but I managed to get over it quickly. I am getting cabin fever. Contemplating going back to work a few hours a day for the rest of the week. Sorry abt the rambling. Luv u guys and good luck for all those being banded 2morrow. Congrats to all those banded 2day.

First of all I want to thank the God that I serve, for a successful surgery. I also want to thank each and everyone of you for the well wishes. I am still sort of oozzy from all the meds, but I wanted to let e'one to know that I am doing chezzy. I will post details 2morrow when I am all alert and probably sound sane. The pain is almost non-existence, just a little discomfort. Still at the hospital, will spenf the night here. I have had nothing to eat all day, just four cups of ice and 4 oz of sippping water over an hour and a half. I am not hungry just a constant dry throat. Will post a more detailed surgery experience once I am sober. Guys we can do this. Lets do this.