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Candi must be enjoying One-Derland way too much LOL I put up a support group photo album on my page and one with my bro & fam. Gosh I found one of me in a bathinsuit that I added and my thighs are just rediculous LOL forget scars & tummy tucks Im gonna need lypo in those suckers !!!!!!!!! Anybody try this silicone stuff Silicone Scar Treatment | My Experience with Silicone Scar Products

We are almost ALL here on line right now - anybody heard from Candi? I saw Tanifaire on here the other day and said hi but no response - hope you're doing well girl!

Thanks, Chris - I'll check it out - sounds like I could get into financial trouble there LOL Riley - a group walk at Apple Hill???? Can we please set a date for the Petaluma walk before Jes & I have surgery?? Nicole - for got to mention... Good luck with the jobs you applied for - keep us posted - what's with Mike's job situation - anything new?

What/Where is Apple Hill?

Hi Ladies - Tina - who the heck would say you post too much - I, for one, love reading your posts. You make me think! Tina, my brother is too old for you - 45! His hair is graying and he has my color eyes - basically - he's a male version of me - I'll get a pic up in my album so you can see LOL Nicole - glad you had fun yesterday! got on a pair of my "new" jeans today - thank you very much! I can't believe they all fit! slept in my new nightie last night too. Riley - you'd better get use to those proposals - they're gonna keep commin in! you look amazing with your tiny little waist. Yes, I am back on track today. Ate way too much at Reggies - food was waaaaayyyyyy too good. So good that it carried over into Sunday with those darn sweet potatoes I took home - grrrrr! Dishes were my pleasure! Chris - I think they said the oatmeal swells so we shouldn't have it. Tamra & Jes - see you Wednesday Heather - popcorn didn't smell good! wish I had that problem. Question? Who is that hot number in that pic?? LOL

Thanks Riley - I'm taking it - where the heck are you gonna find a man that can keep up with you anyway lol

Tina - you should write a book - seriously~

I would like a ME YEAR - can I get rid of my hubby for a year? And my brother AND his Webber~!

I'm proud - I'll be even more proud if you can avoid the popcorn - hahaha what are you going to see?

I don't really know yet how many people I "have" to give up yet LOL I haven't told anybody I'm doing this except my husband, you guys and the millions of people reading this forum. I do know that I choose not to 'hang out" with any of them right now because all they do is eat & drink. When Im around such good food - Like Yesterday - my old habbits kick in and I eat till I'm stuffed - I can't be trusted! LOL. All my friends are on the larger side.

Tina you are crackin me up right now

I'll be there Pam - and I'm gonna try to drag Tamra with me!

K - I'll pm you my cell phone number

we're in luck! it's next wednesday the 19th

Richmond is the 1st & 3rd Wednesday of the month. 6 - 7:30. conference rooms C1, C2 & C3. I will go with you if you want - Jes goes to one of those too! Lets plan it for the 3 of us to go to the very next one - you two ladies down for that?

Sorry, Girl but your friend just doesn't get it and that annoyed me for a moment - I'm over it! but I agree with Tina 100% YOU NEED SUPPORT.

oh, and the extra skin is nothing like the RNY people. this is a slower, more natural process and your skin has time to shrink with you - yes, there will be some but that is true no matter how you lose the weight. Is she telling you to stay fat forever so you don't have a little extra skin at the bottom of your tummy! I have it now from my past weight loss - I went down from 272 - Im not banded and it's there already!!

tamra, I think you're asking the wrong question. It doesn't matter why people say unnecessary things - the question you need to find the answer and solution to is "why do you let it affect you" you can't control other people all you can do is control you and your actions. People only treat you the way you let them so tell her to quit or cut her out of your life - it's that simple. you ladies on here are the only friends I hang with. I have 4 other friends outside of here that I know would support me but their lifestyles are too much for me to handle so I come around on an as needed emergency basis!

k, Tina - i'll take your word for it - I trust you!

Tina, since I lose so slow too, I bet I'll be about the same. I don't mind though. As long as it comes off! I want to lose about 50 more lbs then I'll be happy! Hopefully, I'll be at goal by next summer!

Wow - 20lbs would put me at 180.6 - i just don't know what to do with myself under 200lbs LOL. Ok, so 20 it is. I need to work on this ticker thing. for some reason whenever I try it just shows up some gibberish code on my siggy.

Ok, chris, what do I do? How much should I shoot for?

OMG, Tina - you created a monster! I forgot how much I love white potatoes! Surprise, my brother BBQ'd (salmon) made baked potatoes and i ate one! Grrr. Probably gained 5lbs since yesterday. so, no more food for me tonight. sunday's are hard because my brother loves to cook and he starts early on sunday so he can "graze" all day long. Hardly no water the last two days - better get on that now.

Shoot, I'd love to but since my surgery is next month I simply just don't know what to expect or where I'll be. i've heard so many people say they gain weight the first few days after surgery - Hmmm? so, now we can fit into normal costumes - what is everybody going to be? I need to check out ruby! tina, where did your band go? not back from Vacatoin yet? LOL

You are so right Heather - nobody's getting the wrong size of anything on my watch! Donna, Tina and Heather - you need smaller pants. I need bigger pants LOL. Im in my inbetween size - My fat pants are too big but my skinny pants are too tight - silly me got rid of all my fat pants because i never plan on being that big again but now Im stuck with spandex jeans LOL i refuse to buy a bigger size!!