Boo Boo Kitty

Ouch on the tooth. That sucks. Since I'm doing clears, I think I'll just go straight tequila. juice would just add those totally un-needed, pesky Vitamins.< /div>

There is the SPIRIT!

Hi guys..

Has anyone ever been so bitchy you get on your own nerves??

I got a depo shot last week and wow I'm so angry/annoyed with everything and everyone ..my husband has been bobbing and weaving all week..

When I first started this Seasonale I even hated myself Shon. It gets better! It is all those damn hormones!

I'm sadly dry this weekend - but if I must declare a drink - let's change it up:

tequila sunrise but since you're on clears - cranberry or pomegranite juice instead of oj

.........ok?

I have to do liquids monday - not for band but having a revision to a failed root canal - thinking cream of mushroom soup!

Poor thing! How are you supposed to handle a root canal dry? I would be downing a fifth by the minute. I hate the dentist. Good luck!

Hi BBK,

I was just talking w/my hubs about this. He's angry you are going through this. He hates any man that will push a woman around.

He brought up something that I didn't think of. He scumbag threatened to deny your daughter he test unless you did what he wanted, he committed another little crime .... it's called blackmail. I'm sure your friend Doug will pick up on that. Just thought I'd pass it along.

Good luck to you

OH! Tell your man thank you for that! I hadn't even thought of that! Doug is coming over tonight to talk to me while DH is at poker. So I will make a list of things so I don't get upset and miss anything.

Thanks for all the support ladies!

Ha! Actually, since he's "on his own" there are women that are his friends that I don't know.

One, in particular, was his "interest" before I started to work there. She was married, but with problems and he kept hoping she'd leave her DH. She never did and then I worked there. He thought she was just a friend (from her perspective) and that she'd be good friends w/me too. I had doubts and sure enough, she stopped coming around. LOL

She's his friend on FB, but not mine.

I have thought about inviting her to the wedding, then though F it.

See--I would do it for pure spite. I hate women like that and would want her to see that he is mine. I am a bit territorial though.

I seem to always have multi pages going at once so I can Facebook, farmville, farm town and LBT! I will be so sad when school starts and I can't play on the computer whenever I want!!!

Guess getting paid is kind of important!

Meh, paychecks are overrated unless you want to survive....

Thank you everyone for your support! I just got off the phone with my baby brother who amazed me. He is going to take care of Brooke for me and sway her to another Dojo, she listens to her Uncle and I will have NOTHING to do with it!

He also suggested I talk to my DH's friend who is a cop. He knows DH very well and knows his temper. I am going to tell Doug everything and get it documented without DH knowing. I am also going to ask Doug (the cop) to pay him a visit when we are gone to make sure this is over and I don't feel this way.

It is NOT fair for me to be trapped or feel trapped in my own home--I am not going to accept it!

I do have a friend that has been there before when he has flirted and made advances. I talked to her and she has no problem defending me if needed.

I really want to kick him in the balls for doing this to me. It makes me feel like I can't be nice to anyone. Why do men do this???

Glou--lol....I just don't want mine getting contacted by old hs girl friends. I guess I am just too insecure!

Lulu--YOU talk a lot?? NO WAY!

xoxoxo

Dh hijacked your fb thats so wrong.

I agree...freaking mafia wars....

WTF... completely inappropriate...

does this 'master' have a boss?? the owner? yes, inappropriate for him to say that to you, unethical to take revenge on your daughter..

dunno waht to say about telling your DH.. dunno what i'd do...

sorry.

*hugs*

HE is the boss, he owns the dojo...

But thanks guys. Someone may have an idea....I hold out hope!

Hello all...

I need somewhere to vent, bitch, scream and get advice about my neighbor.

My neighbor has been divorced 2 years now. And has never "hit" on me before. I wish I could still that! He lives DIRECTLY next to me. SO we are talking I scream he could hear me.

Well lately he has been giving me compliments, telling me how nice I look, asked how much have I lost ect. I have been polite because he is also the Tae Kwon Do master for my daughter.

His comments have gotten down right embarassing in the last few weeks and yesterday blew it right out of the Water.

He approached me and clearly I could tell I was in TROUBLE. He said he had noticed I have said "things" to him lately that have put myself out there. Which I have not because first of all I am married, second of all, I am NOT the kind of person that can make comments like that. I am a very quiet person about sex. I told him no, he was mistaken and got up to leave. He followed me to my car out of the dojo (with my KIDS right there). I was very upset and uncomfotable and kept telling him to "get the hell out of here". He didn't get it. He then said

"We don't have to have an affair, you can just come over". I was speechless and wanted to cry. I felt harrassed and dirty.

I told him "No, that would make me just like your ex wife and I am NOT that girl". I didn't know any other way to get him away from me. My kids were 2 feet away from me and I am not even sure if they heard or not.

I am mortified and have been hulled up in my house. I want to tell my husband--but let's think about that one---WE LIVE next door to him and my man is the type to go out for blood. I have no doubt that my hubby would end up in jail. PLUS he is my daughter's Tae Kwon Do master.

I have no idea what to do. I want NOTHING to do with this man, want my child to have NOTHING to do with him--but there is NO WAY for me to make that happen without raising red flags. We own our home so we are no position to move.....

SO what do I do now? I can not handle confrontation, so me telling him off is close to zero. Plus I am acting very strange with my husband and have no idea what to tell him. I truly feel violated.

And then I am worried that he will take this out on my daughter---he already said she can't test after I turned him down, so he will go after her......

Boo Boo Kitty

You don't know me but I wanted to tell you that I miss your smiling friendly face on the LBT "banner". Change isn't ALWAYS good.

Awwwww! Thank you! That is so sweet! You are just what I need today. Having a bad day and that made me smile!

I'm just curious...i was just banded on 9/18/09. My surgeon has me on strict liquids for 4 weeks. I am not getting alot of neutrition during this and he doesn't have me on any vitiamins yet. should i be worried about lack of protien? or other neutriants? i feel weak but im sure it is simply just getting over surgery.

If he has you on a dietary restriction it is sure to have Protein in it. If you have questions call the office--they should be willing to reassure you. I would also ask about the weakness. It is better to be safe then sorry! Good luck!

Ebony-- big hair is IN right? Think of those damn "Bumpit" things...rotfl....

Miss--You will get here soon girl! You can't have much more to go!

Lulu--HI THERE! Since my FB has been hijacked by DH,expect me here more....lol...

But I have missed everyone so much! Happy to be back!

BBK-How are you? Are you up early, or up late?

WAY too early! I haven't been able to sleep much lately!

I agree stats can be manipulated to say whatever you want them to say!

I am 3+ years. I lost all of my excess weight and work my band. I choose not to eat candy bars, fattening foods because I know what it feels like to be healthy and I want to stay here.

Is there hope--I say YES! Good luck.

***waving wildly****Hi BBK!!!!

Hi slim! How are things going for you?:confused:

Hello all! I am a Mid Michigan bandster! I am on year 3 now, I was banded at Hurley. I live in Jackson. Nice to meet you all.

:confused: I am sorry to hear about all the mess! You are just having no luck at all. I would definately ask about a 2nd baby causing trouble, it may not be worth it to do it again if you plan on a baby in a year or two. I am sorry!

Hello all!

How are you all doing? What is new here? I am well. August 1 was 3 year bandiversary....still hard to believe it has been that long!

Fannie--love the dress hottie!

Those mushrooms are priceless!

Anything extra exciting going on anywhere?

Morning (I think)

Another horrid night - although this time I did manage to stay in bed and get some sleep. It was very interrupted, with lots of tossing and turning, but I managed about 3 hours sleep.

Personal space - an essential.

coffee - gotta get chuggin' the caffeine if I hope to make it through the day.

For those of FB - please say Hi to the PJTP'ers we have lost: LJM, BBK, Donna, SMS, et al. I miss their posts, but PJTP is all I can handle; I'm not adding another potential addiction.

Awwwww tap! Hugs! Hello! I got a message from Lulu that I was wanted. I will try to post more often (only on THIS thread) I just can't deal with drama here anymore....lol....

HELLO to all! :thumbup:

Slim--I say go with what you feel comfortable with, in the end it is YOUR body!

Beth--where at in Michigan?? That is where I live! :smile2:

Slim--keep the newf nice and cold. My bullie has enough trouble in Michigan heat, can't imagine Teas heat!

Heart--:eek: Thanks. I range between 150-160 and it is good with me. I did go down a bit too far for awhile and I looked like Star, it was gross. And that is where the Met set me at!

Random pjtp-I went to the doctor today(gp). There was a stand in doctor(not sure where my normal doctor was today). The stand in doctor basically told me that i need to lose more weight for my height than i planned. She basically added about 15 more pounds needed to get me to the correct weight. Did any of your doctors give you a weight to shoot for? My surgeon didn't give me a goal weight and neither did my regular GP.

Mine gave me a goal of 142, based on the Met Life standard they all must use and then told me that it was too low and NOT to use that as goal, but it is what they must go by for insurance standards. They are based on the 1950 health model, so it is not realistic or healthy!

I wonder if that is where she got her number today for you?

Hey Brandy, (BBK) are you still waiting on the Dr?

No I had the revision last week. Went well I finally look normal. But sick now--they think it is the flu.

How are you doing?

Hello all!

I wanted to post an update for all of you.

After fussing, fighting and yelling I FINALLY got my revision a year after my initial surgery.

It was on the 2nd. Surgery itself went well. I was in surgery at 7 am.

They did a full revision on the Tummy Tuck. They cut off about another 2 to 3" off the tummy. So far it looks nice.

The breasts got the full revision as well. They did the the full cut on the bottom of both breasts. They moved the nipple only on the left breast. They look NICE right now I am VERY happy. They are nice and perky! YAY!

I am waiting now for a call from the Dr. I have a fever and feel horrible. Hopefully it is just the flu.....

Hello all!

PJPT

HELLO!

PJTP--

HELLO all! I miss you all!