june09bandit

Welcome to the board! I think surgeon's have a special personality type. Mine is still not invested in me personally, however, his nurses are. Mine has also added an additional surgeon and a PA who seem to be more personable and more willing to talk. I think surgeons prefer to deal with us only when under anesthesia

The psych will ask you all those questions when you visit them. They are the ones that try to get into your brain to see if you are making an informed decision. Good luck in your journey! I hope you can figure out what is best for YOU!

Schmack,

Just try to relax and let the air go out however it chooses. My first words coming out of surgery were "I need to burp" and I've been burping since then. You are just miserable right now from the surgery, the anesthesia, and probably mourning the loss of your coping mechanism - food.

Keep drinking Water to try to stay hydrated. Maybe try watered down juice or gatorade. I had diarhea for a month until I could start eating real food. It was miserable - so I know what you mean. You'll be better before you know it!

I suppose the band tightening is just one more thing to add to our lovely dispositions during cycles...

Thanks for the info!

I was actually just wondering if it was associated with monthly cycle. I had lots of restriction last week, then barely any this week. Things that make you go "hmmm".

So should we adjust for the 1 week or the 3 weeks???

Enell sports bra - those puppies won't move!

Thank you Diamond - I think that's it! I think I've finally hit my sweet spot and I really don't have much of an appetite. I don't want to drop too low on Protein, so I was thinking those bullets may help me on the days when my appetite is low.

Thanks again!

Cindy,

I believe it is a matter of restriction. I felt exactly like you - could eat whatever and in whatever quantity I desired. I was barely losing at all. I was banded on June 4, 2009. I had 3 fills, then a complete unfill and had to start all over. So.. I had my last fill on 30 September. For some reason, it all kicked in last week - 2 weeks after the fill. At long last, I think I feel what everyone else has been talking about. I feel full after a few bites, and don't really have much of an appetite over all. It's such a dramatic change, I have a hard time explaining it. I think I've lost 5 pounds in those 2 weeks.

Just be patient and keep seeing your doc on a regular basis. The restriction will come...

I didn't get to ride today. We had to go in search of Halloween Costumes - and other miscellaneous errands. I did lunge them last night, so tomorrow I have high hopes if it's not too hot. The plan is to ride at least 2 then give them baths for what I expect to be out last hot weekend.

Keep riding, your abs will come back. I HAVE to sit the trot. My knee won't let me post. Now I have to find my industrial strength bra and I'll be back in business! Keep me posted on your progress!

Where do you buy your Protein bullets? Are there different brands? If so, what's your favorite?

Thanks in advance!

I'm not gassy, but I sure am an accomplished burper! I worry at work after I eat that I'll have to look professional in front of someone - and an unexpected burp will come out.

Sounds like you may need an adjustment. I was slipping back into old habits prior to my last fill. Since that fill, overeating is not an option - one bite too much, and the pain really makes me regret it. I'm slowly learning not to EVER push past that full feeling, no matter how good it tastes.

Are you due for an adjustment?

Good luck!

I'm not riding as much as I'd like - but I'll blame it on fewer hours of daylight and too many hours of work! I have been lunging them some to keep the kinks out of them! One of my goals for this weekend is to get them all ridden..

Good luck to all!

What part of AZ are you in? I recommend you choose someone close to you - you will be visiting them at least once a month for at least the next 6 months. I used Dr. Schwartz in Tucson. The surgery went great - no compications, no nausea, and here's the best part - no gas pains in the shoulders!

Good luck with your decision!

Isn't it a great feeling to get back to riding again? Congrats on being back in the saddle! You may be sore tomorrow, but it will just be muscle soreness, not port soreness (from not riding for a month).

Take your time on that absess - my main mount had one and she was off for about 6 months - but she has horrible feet anyway. I learned my lesson - I won't try to let her go barefoot again!

Enjoy all your successes! You've worked hard for them.

I lived on chicken noodle Soup that comes in a box - the one with the tiniest noodles. It was slightly off the diet, but it did not cause me problems - that was in the 2nd or 3rd week though.

Good luck!

Nancy,

I would suggest not rushing into it. I think we all go through the pre surgery anxiety immediately before surgery. However, if you've never had that period where you know this is right for you and it's definitely what you want, then I would wait a little while before committing. This is truly a life changing event. If you aren't ready for those changes, then you will be miserable and depressed and want it out a month after your surgery. Some part of you has to be ready to change. Because of the post op diet, there will be times when you are sure you will starve to death - but the desire for change will get you through it.

From my perspective, there are days that I just want to eat. That's what I've always done, so it's a habit. I feel very deprived and, frankly, pissed off when I can't eat the last bite of something that tastes good. But, if I eat it anyway, I get really pissed off because it hurts so bad.

It is an entire lifestyle change. Be sure you are ready before you commit. I don't regret the surgery for one minute, but there have been some difficult times to get through. It's not easy.

Good luck to you!

As sexy as this sounds, I kept my tshirt tucked under my breast to keep from having skin on skin contact. I wore a bandaid to one doctor's appointment and was scolded - he said no band aids - they don't let air in to the incision. He recommended a sanitary napkin attached to the bra.

I went to the store and tried on bras until I found a couple that did not have underwire and they were a lot more comfortable. Not very supportive, but better than nothing!

You can tell the doc about it and ask him to document it in your chart. I'm sure they know the rash will come and go. I have a dermatologist appt in a couple of weeks, I think I'll scratch a little before I go.....

I'll do both sides of the discussion - I'm 44, two skin cancers already removed, and 6 month "inspections" for the rest of my life. I do still tan once a year when I'm in Cancun... Yet another addiction.

Now, to answer your real question - my hubby has major scarring on his shoulder from surgery several years ago. He did not properly protect it one year in Cancun - it must have hurt really badly. He now slathers it in SPF50 now as soon as he goes in the sun. Apparently, the scar will burn much worse than normal tissue. Be sure to protect your scars. An infection on top of an existing scar would really hurt I think.

Are you drinking plenty of Water? If you don't drink enough, your body will retain any that it has.

The shots are a miracle the first couple months. You won't believe how much better you feel just leaving the DRs office after your shots. I usually limp in and feel like dancing out...well almost!

Please tell me more about these shots - is it the synivisc stuff? (not sure of the real word). My knee is killing me and I'm in the same position as you - not much can be done until I'm old enough or in such severe pain that a knee replacement will be done.

I'm glad the situation resolved itself - I was one of those that read your post, but I honestly didn't have any advice to offer. My doc told me that it can take up to 2 weeks to feel the restriction, but I haven't experienced it for myself yet. It sounds like you may actually be at your sweet spot for now. Cross your fingers and hope this is your magic fill spot!

Yes, I had this happen to me yesterday. I went straight to the doctor's office and they put me in front of the people who were already waiting. I lost 5 pounds overnight - doctor unfilled me completely so that I could re-hydrate myself. Don't wait.

Went in for my third fill on Weds. I had made reasonable progress and lost 5 pounds in the month prior (reasonable according to the doc, not me, I wanted more). He asked me if I wanted a fill, and I said yes, a small one. I felt like I was close to the happy spot, but needed just a little bit more.

The doc was training a new Physician's assistant, so I think we all got distracted. At any rate, he gave me 2 ccs. My brain registered it as .2cc, but the band definitely thought it was a full 2 ccs. About 7:30 last night, I took a drink of Water, and it got stuck. Oh.. bad sign, I was sure of it. From that point on, through the rest of the night, I was throwing up or PBing my own saliva every 15 to 30 minutes. I'm sure this was the longest night of my life.

Got up this morning and headed straight back to the doctor's office (2.5 hours away). I lost 5 pounds overnight. He unfilled me completely and told me to re-hydrate. I go back next week to start all over. ugh

Next time, I will pay more attention - do NOT get 2 ccs if you think you are close to the sweet spot.

Erin,

I wouldn't take it personally that your aunt does not ask you to go riding. I must admit, there are very few people that are allowed to get on my horses. I have to know how they ride and feel like they will be safe on my horses and that my horse will be safe in their care. Some of us are very protective of our horses - it's not personal.

I had a friend that wanted to sit in my saddle while it was on the horse. I reluctantly agreed to avoid being rude. She landed on the back with a THUD - my horse was not impressed. I honestly didn't think I was going to be able to get her off fast enough to avoid her being injured.

hmarko, I'm so sorry for your loss. I also lost a horse a couple of years ago, just before the weight gain started. It's like losing a part of us.