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mymy

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  1. ok enough is enough I am done good luck to you all. I am sorry that I even said anything but let me say I am a strong good women and if anyone women ever says that her man cheated for a year and she didnt have a clue is a dam lie you didnt want to know so what ever and jealous baby I am fine without plastic surgery I am a strong women and trust i am 38 yr and i have had a man cheat on me and i didnt have to see it to believe it i left at the first sighn of mistrust and i didnt have two kids to think of and for that i am greatful. I didnt come on here to be mean i spoke my mind and you didnt have to get all puffy MY god lyou are too touchje what did i say to bring on all the ange I am done good luck and tell your groupies to leave me alone


  2. Suz oh honey how wrong you are I am in no way needy i and as far as my weight i am not that heavy i am a good looking women wjth a couple of extra pounds and that has only been in the last three years oh and did i mention i wear it well. I just believe people give up too easy dam that is all ok if he couldnt keep it in his pants then thats one thing but if that were the case she should have left long time ago its just funny that sibce she lost the weight she just happen to see the light. You guys act as if i am telling her ti just settle for anything my God all i sugested was to work on it dam I am so sorry but what ever I wish you guys all the luck in the world oh and Tina you we4re the one that said he was a good guy great father but i guess you forgot you said that you didnt stress that he was screwing everything you just mentioned the std thing but wtfe


  3. Well I am back first let me say Tina you look great and I am sorry to hear about the violence you wittness. Now let me say I really feel as if I was misunderwstood I was merely thinking about your family I did not mean to offend anyone but your behavyior seemed a little reckless I mean you are a grown women and you would allow yourself to get so drunk that you would kiss make out with your brothers friend on your lawn with your husband and children in the house come on I understand partying but that is too much. I KNOW THAT SAYING ONCE A CHEATER ALWAYS A CHEATER but that is not true. I did not get the band to find someone I never had a problem in that area but I know of many cases that women lose4 the wieght and get wild. I apologize if I offened you please know that was not my intention. I am happy for you and if what your husband did was unforgivable then you have every right to move on.


  4. Well it took me all of two days to read all your post and I first have to congratulate you on your progress I am so happy for you I can feel your excitement. You look great and I have never seen someone so happy that looks as if they should be is pain thank God for pain killers. I havent read all the other post but I have to tell you girl you better slow down. I know hubby made a serious mistake and I know how wrong he was but he loves you and I mean really loves you and you really need to know how precious love is. I dont care if you have a body of an 18 yr. old it is hard as hell to find real love. After you get off of your world spin you need to evaluate your situation and love worth having is worth fighting for. Your husband did cheat ok get past that think of all the good he did. When you were fat you werent happy you didnt have that same zest for life that you have today but he still loved you he didnt run off with the next hottie please imbrace your new life but see if there is room for the father of your children the man that loved you 100 pounds heavier next time some guy is flirting think to yourself would this man give me the time of day if i were fat. Your husband knows you and at 50 to 500 pounds ge would love you. I know he has learned his lesson. Please dont make the mistake and let him go re group get your priorties together. People get this surgery to find someone to spend their lives with and you had what so many of us want but its easier to party flirt. It is hard work to work on it learn to trust again but all the work could pay off. Please dont look up five years from now wore out from all the parting (best believe it will catch up to you) and end up the 40 something party girl left all alone. Someone other women would snatch up your husband and have a good life and because of you he would be a better stronger faithful husband why not be smart take your new body your knew life and share that with your husband and children just a thought. Good luck Michelle


  5. I have to be honest that has been a concern for me I dont want to lose too much wieght. I dont think people can be all exspected to follow a chart its where you feel healthy where you look good. I have been told 145 is my idle wight NOT I would look like a crack head at 145 hell my ass and hair is almost half of that lol I would look good at 175 180 to hell with that chart I want some curves its the rolls i cant bear. Good luck to everyone Michelle


  6. GIRL YOU READ MY MIND I will be checking back on this post I am curious to see what comes of it. I do know you shouldnt have too much to worry about you are young and you dont have that much weight to lose

    I am down 25 pounds and I dont think any surgery will be needed but I do know i will get my breast done


  7. Its been 3 . days and i am so full of gass and i and my stomach looks twice as big as it did before surgery I am greatful for the surgery but i cant wait to get past this part oh please let me hurry up and get past this part


  8. I am proud to say a month clean two weeks with the nicotin patch then i jst stop after 20 yrs. I always wanted to stop but i just couldnt bare to gain weight so when i knew i was sed. for the band i was more then happy to quit. I feel so much better. Why get the surgery and continue to smoke that is just crazt

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