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I haven't lost that much yet, but I am noticing that the skin under my armpits is flatter and flabbier (not rebounding well). I really notice it when I lay on my back! Like- what is this crap?! My feet are already smaller, and my ring is loose (yeah- I may soon be able to wear my wedding ring again!!!)

I called and they said it was probably muscle pain, and to try cold compress 1st, then it that didn't work, try heat. If I still have it tomorrow, to call back. I have it today, but not at bad as yesterday. It gets worse with bending and breathing out deep, so I am trying not to do that:wink2:

I am 3 weeks out and finally on purees. It is wonderful to eat something and feel full. I was stuffed after lunch today, and still not really hungry. That being said, I go home where everyone is eating chips and cookies, and it smells soooo good. My advice is to tough it out. I mean, this will not go on forever, and think about other diets you went on. You usually last what, a month or two? Pretend this diet will end in and week or two (which it kind of will) and you go on a new diet. I loved my refried beans, cheese, and spinach today, because all I could eat before was cottage cheese, yogurt, and soup before. One step at a time...

How long did yours last? I really don't want to call my surgeon. I can't afford to take ANY time off work. How about if I see my reg doc tomorrow? Thank you for your feedback by the way... Has anyone else had this problem and had it be serious?

I have good insurance, and I am sure I can get a breast reduction after I am done losing weight, but what about the rest? How can I get insurance to pay for plastic surgery?

I really hate to post this, but I met a couple who had bi-pass, and the husband drank beer like there was no tomorrow. He said beer was his replacement behavior for eating. He looked great too! But he was bi-pass- maybe there is a difference. I am SURE an occational beer or pop would not do any harm. But I am not a doc. I know if the future when healing is all done, I will have the occational beer. Maybe one or two a month.

It is fine to admit to your mistake, but don't ask us to tell you it is ok because it is NOT!!!

I am going to a party tonight, and would really like to eat something with some flavor. I think I go to mushies phase on Tuesday, and have done well with oatmeal, creamed soups, cottage cheese, and yogurt. Do you think it is save to grab some pintos and cheese from Taco Bell to munch on while at the party?

I had the same problem. Cooking for family was hell. And my 3 yr old is always wanting what I have. So her delicious meal would sit there, and she would beg for my shakes and jello. Now she wants my yogurt and cottege cheese. Doesn't she realize how good she has it?

I was banded Dec 22, and have been struggling myself. When I went from the Clear Liquids to full liquids, I stopped losing weight. I assumed it was due to the extra calories from the oatmeal, yogurt, cottage cheese, and Soup I was eating. So I cut out the oatmeal, and have yogurt for Breakfast, cottage cheese for lunch, soup for dinner, and Protein shake for a snack. I also have a K protein Water if I get hungry in between. I am constantly drinking water in between to help with the hunger. My thought is, if you can get in you 60 grams of protein and your water, try to keep under 1000 cals, it might help. If you are eatling less, you body might go into starvation mode and start storing fat instead of burning it. Stretch those cals throughout the day to keep you metabolism going. Hope this is helpful:regular_smile:

Where are you guys getting these delicious sounding protein shakes????

I heard that cold restricts the band, and heat makes it looser. You may be going in the wrong direction. Try some hot tea before you eat.

I am sorry to hear you are having such a hard time. You know, I had to go to 12 sessions of counseling before they would approve my band. I think it would be better if they made everyone see someone once a week after surgery. That is when the real battle begins. I mean, AA have sponsers. Did you think about getting one?

Sorry, I thought I created this post looking for others who were frustrated like me. Guess I will have to private message next time.

I have used both, but I am "short" inside, so sometimes tampons hurt me.

How long did you wait after surgery to have sex?

I am new, and anticipate the same problems, but I was hoping to get some feedback on a current. I consider myself and clean person, and always work hard and being clean in certain areas. But this new diet, all the Protein and shakes and fish, I have notices a change in oder and taste (according to DH). How did I go from sweet and pleasant to bitter and foul!?! Sorry if this grossing anyone out, but what do I do?

I was told it is a water retention issue that causes that. Still waiting for Aunt Flo, so don't know yet.

I got a binder with all kinds of info in it. One page wat called fighting bad breath, and sugerless gum was recommended. You don't swallow the gum- just chew it. When I am done, I spit it out.

Welcome to bandster hell. I am almost 3 weeks out and having hunger pains. The first week after is the worst- it slowly gets better. Not till your fills and resrtiction does it get more normal where you really feel full.

My advice is to fix yourself a plate of snacks (crackers, cheese, soft meat, etc.) and grt some sugarfree gum. The gum really helps me. And remember, everything in moderation. If you can tolerate pizza, why not have half a slice?

Oh- so you spit!

As I have said before, it is NOT the posters who make occational mistakes or overeat over the holidays- no one is perfect- I am talking about what I call BCB's (Badly cheating bandsters) who sabatage themselves during healing or don't use their band correctly frequently. If you posted "I messed up and overate, gained 5 lbs over xmas, what was I thinking," that is fine- lots of poeple do this. It is the posts that say "should I have been able to eat like this?" that gets to me. Those people want validation, not support.

I am glad you asked this question, because I am also not a spitter, and DH is wondering when we can return to our activities. How long did you all wait after surgery to get physical? And to the original poster, IT never really goes down that smoothly, just keep the drink next to you to dilute the "protein" as soon as you swallow it.

I am worried about hair loss as well. When I lost a bunch of weight in High School my this locks thinned significantly and never really recovered. But then I found out I had Hypothyroidism, and more hair fell out. I can't afford to lose much more. You guys mentioned some products to help. What are these and how do I get them. Should I ask my doc for a perscription?