Mrs. Bubba

Isn't if funny how doctors are so different. Why would he not want you totally informed about your situation.. My PA always withdraws what is in there to check for leaks and then tells me how much she put back in.. This last time I even looked up and saw what she was doing...

RAINWI, thanks for the encouragement.. I did talk to the doctor's office yesterday and they just don't think it could be anything they did because I can eat and drink.. I think they are wrong... The only thing that changed was all the rough handling I got in that office. I believe it is just going to take time for me to get back to normal... My back is a bit better today and I have no headache.. But the stomach is about the same.. My insides feel very weird.. It hurts to cough or sneeze... It's like when I first had my surgery and had that big incision... Doc said it would take time because he had to jostle me around so much... well, this is about the same... Thanks again for responding.. It's good to know I'm not imagining this whole thing.. Julie

Bloom, did you have a bunch in your band at the time of surgery? If you had 7 before your last unfill, you must have.... I had 3 cc's at surgery... Lots don't get that right away I've learned...

Hi BobbieND.... good to hear from you.. I don't think I'm doing anything special. I eat what I want most of the time... just not very much of it.. I only lost 4 pounds in the month over the holidays and was disappointed in that, but very happy that I didn't let all the goodies push me backwards... I'm just so confused by these last happenings. I used to own and operate a fitness center like "Curves".. Long story short, my equipment has been in storage for a while. Recently one of our rental spaces became empty and my husband set up the circuit for me. Tuesday was the first time I tried it in many many months... I have a rather weak back and neck and it must have been too much for me. I went very slow and easy, but the machines were cold and very stiff... I think I hurt myself. I also think it just happened to coincide with my very rough fill... I'm no doctor, but I do know my body well enough... I did call my doctor today after I was in to get another chiropractor treatment. So far they haven't called me back... I'm thinking this is going to get better, but I better stick to walking for a while yet... Another reason my loss might seem fast is that I have quite a bit to lose. I started at 387.... That's over 200 to my goal weight.. I'm happy with my loss and still it would be nice for it to go faster. Don't we all want it to be overnight!!!!! I hope everyone else is doing well.... take care.......Julie

I had my 3rd fill on 1-19.... the first 2 were just a snap and I had no problem at all... they want 24 hours of liquids after the fill.. This last one was different.. The PA tried and tried to feel the top of the port.. stuck me 3 times, but after much prodding and poking and asking me to do a "crunch" and hold it, she called the surgeon in to help. Well, he really prodded and poked..hard....but he found it.. it had moved a bit and was at an angle... I wasn't overly uncomfortable through this and the swallow of water went well... After a few hours I started experiencing lots of gas...wanted to belch all the time.. then my back and neck started to hurt.. By the next day I was miserable.. I went to see my chiropractor and he said my neck and middle back were out, probably from pulling up on my neck during the "crunches"... I'm still working on getting that back to normal, but it's the stomach part that still concerns me.. Up till now I haven't felt much restriction and this feels so different and strange. I can drink and eat (haven't gone past soft foods much yet) just fine... nothing comes back or slimes. Yet I still have this gaseous feeling and the need to belch so often. I am also sore from the prodding and poking.. And I feel crampy down low almost like menstrual cramps.. I'm not constipated. Does this sound like something I should be worried about? I'm thinking I just got pretty jostled around and it will be getting better. So far it isn't much.... I don't think I'm too tight as I can eat and drink.. Anyone have any suggestions about this...Oh, and I'm losing like crazy..... Thanks for listening.. Julie

I had my 3rd fill yesterday.. been on liquids mostly, since then. I have so much gas and can belch all the time.. and my stomach hurts a little... It's more of a discomfort, but I'm a bit worried. I haven't felt restriction up to now and don't know if this is it or something else.. They had trouble doing the fill this time and did lots of pressing on my middle to get the right spot on the port.. I think maybe I just got all riled up inside and need time to get back to normal... I'm hoping that's it.... If it isn't better in a day or two you can bet I'll be calling them to find out what's going on.... Julie

how wonderful for you..... I'm one who has over 200 to get to where they say I should be. It's very encouraging to know someone has actually accomplished this huge feat.....Thanks for sharing..Julie

Congrats on your accomplishments... It feels good to be proud rather than disgusted, doesn't it????!!!!! I'm feeling a bit that way myself. Yesterday was my official end of the holidays..... This morning when I weighed in I was only up 1 1/2 pounds... I was very happy... I was a bit worried as I know I ate too much of the easy foods the last two weeks and not near enough protein. When I had my second fill on 12-15 (6 cc in 14 cc band), I was hoping for that strong feeling of restriction. I didn't get it and am able to eat more than I should. I don't, most of the time, but those darn goodies kept calling my name.... I never went crazy like I have in the past, but I did let them get to me. I'm very glad to have all the temptations gone. I'm also hoping that by the time the next holiday comes around I will have conquered all of that and lost most of my weight.... A year can change a lot.... Best of luck to you and all of us for a "losing" new year.... Happy 2009........... Julie

I'm not sure what is going on with you, but my first reaction is that you need to change something... Usually when the weight loss is stalled an abrupt change is habit will make a difference. Are you exercising at all? Are you close to your goal? Sometimes that last 40 - 50 pounds come off way slower. I don't understand why you are being pushed off by the dr... that isn't right. I have learned from lots of reading here that I'm lucky to be from North Dakota... We seem to get things done lots faster that those areas that are much more populated. Persistance will have to be your rule... Keep after them and don't take no for an answere.... And don't forget how well you have done... Stalling isn't going backwards..... And just maintaining over the Holidays is a positive thing.. So keep your chin up and keep up the good work... Merry Christmas... Julie

I was like you.....loved my diet coke..... But now it tastes funny when I have attempted a sip... But regular Coke is better.. I have a sip of my husbands once in a great while... Nothing serious.. I swish it in my mouth to get some of the bubbles out. And of course after the ice melts some it loses some anyway. I've only done that a couple times, but I would love to do it more often... When I get to where you are I may be tempted to imbibe a bit more often... Congrats on such a wonderful success... That is totally awesome.. Julie

Good for you.... We'll get this all figured out before long.. It's a bit rough to have the holidays to contend with, but we just have to keep our eye on the prize.... Just think where we'll be next year at this time!!! WOW, I can hardly wait.... Take care and have a great holiday season... Julie

Welcome to you.... Tell us a little about yourself. How are you progressing so far. I'm down over 60 pounds since August 21st. I'm very happy with how things are going, but would still like to wake up skinny tomorrow!!!!! I've learned to be content with little steps... Have a good day.. Julie

I'm happy to report that I did fairly well with Thanksgiving Day... I planned to give myself the opportunity to feel normal and happy.. I was happy with a bit of this and a taste of that. I did have a homemade crescent roll and a half piece of pumpkin pie with real whipped cream.. I was content and unstuffed and proud of myself for not feeling that "stuffed misery" that is usual on days like this... Never again, I hope!!!! congrats to all of us for perservering and counting our lap-band blessings... Now.... on to Christmas cookies!!!?? I'm more worried about them than anything.. They are a weakness of mine... Take care all.... Julie

I was in to one of my free support group seminars last week and was given a handout to read that promotes the idea of just maintaining over the holidays rather than losing. It says it's just too hard to go without everything so it is best to enjoy, but use your head and don't go overboard... Think maintenance!!!! I like that idea... I don't want to feel like I can't... I want to know I can, but just choose to be smart about it... Happy Holidays to everyone.. Good luck with maintaining!!! Julie

Yes, I can relate to what you are going through. I had my first fill on 11-11, but my surgery was on 8-21... I had to wait because of a full incision... I don't feel any different than I did before it... But what I have learned is that the restriction we feel after surgery is in part due to swelling and as we heal that swelling goes down and the restriction fades. Now that the band is truely ready to work it will take some fine tuning to get to the place that really works well. I try very hard not to overeat even though I know I could... I'm proud to say that I handled the "Trough" (what my husband calls the Golden Corral Buffet) the other day... It is amazing how refreshing it is to leave there feeling fine and not stuffed to the brim... I hope you find restriction soon.. It's good you called your doctor, but chances are good you are fine and just need more "fine tuning".. Best of luck... Julie

I had a great deal of pain after surgery as I had to have a full incision and was in the hospital for 4 days... I was sent home with a liquid elixer that really did a number on the pain... I took it religiously the first few days.. Actually had the perscription refilled, but didn't end up needing it... I agree with the rest.. If you need it, take it.... However, prepare yourself for the constipation that seems to come from the darn stuff... That gave me more pain than the surgery... thought I would about die from the straining until my doc gave me permission to take a laxative... Hope that doesn't happen to you... Keep your chin up... these days will soon be behind you... Julie

My doctor only requires 24 hours of soft foods after a fill.. I was to have my first today, but someone screwed up with scheduling and I had to leave without it and must go back tomorrow..... I'm a bit anxious.... This is another instance of every doctor being different in what the say.... Good luck.. Julie

Hey Restless Monkey..... I think you are giving Jeremy very good advice... It's been a while but I was 23 once, too, and if I was your mother I would be very concerned... Jeremy listen to some good advice and talk to your doctor soon.. All those things that have now made their way into your life since your weight loss will only be better when you work on the other things, too.... Oh, and by the way... great job on the loss... I wish women could lose as fast as men...... Best of luck to you... Julie

I'm feeling a bit like you I think... I've been stuck losing the same pound now for about 8 days... It's also a very busy, trying time in our household. Overnight company for deer hunting season, lots of good food and family and friends around. I've been doing the cooking and entertaining for this for many years and it's expected that I will make homemade bread and carmel rolls and cookies and cakes and delicious meals.... On top of all that temptation I don't feel much restriction anymore. I'm scheduled for my first fill (maybe) on Monday, 11-10, so I didn't have a problem eating fresh homemade bread with butter... I only had a half piece, but I still had it... But............I'm trying to take satisfaction in the fact that I'm not gaining and I haven't gone on any kind of binge or bender either.. Just really tasting all the good things... and not eating the proteins like I should be... However, now that I think of it, that doesn't account for the non-loss from the days before.. This bad behavior has only been for 2 days.... The truth is it's hard to not behave normally when everyone else is..... I'm going to just try to keep doing what I know is right and not beating myself up... In the past if I slipped up while on a diet, I was usually very hard on myself and then that led to just quitting completely.. I haven't done that or even thought about it. I need to give myself credit where it is due...... and so do you... Everything will be fine and the weight that is already gone is gone forever...... right?????!!!!! Right....... So onward and downward from here... I'm looking forward to Monday when I can get my first fill.. I didn't think I would for quite a while, but now I understand what others have been saying about losing the restricted feeling... I like having it so it reminds me what I'm doing... Good luck...... Now to just make it through Thanksgiving and Christmas... I'm a sucker for Christmas cookies... Julie

Guess I'm in the minority, but I was just getting used to the old one and now it's all different... I'm a bit lost..... Hope I can stumble my way to what I like to do....

OMG, I'm so sorry for your troubles. It must seem like everyone and everything is against you... It is my opinion that your body is reacting badly because it is in a terrible state from stress and possibly depression. This makes our bodies behave in very strange ways. I agree with the person who said maybe you should put weight loss on a back burner for awhile and get yourself back in a good place emotionally.. and you also must remember that you haven't failed... you have been losing and you haven't put weight back on.... That is a positive thing.. There are so many cliche`s out there that seem appropriate for you.... but mostly, "time will heal" and one day you will wake up and feel better and find the strenghth you need to move forward. I'm sure it seems as though the LB is your enemy, but with the right medical staff it could turn out to be a friend. I wish you good luck and hope things will turn around for you soon... God Bless... Julie

H & H, where in ND are you from? I was banded at St. A's in Bismarck. I'm sure not happy to hear that you were treated this way. It sounds like you have one of those docs who just think fat people are lazy.... I felt respected by the surgeon who did mine and have no complaints about any of the staff I have had to deal with. Hope all goes well and this will be behind you soon... Best of luck.... Julie

congrats......... that was a very kind and generous thing to do.. I, too, hope you get something in return someday as a pay it forward. It may not be clothes, but something you need even more... God bless.........

It's been a long time since I was only 50 pounds from my desired weight, but I've heard that those are the hardest ones to lose (especially the last 25!)... So to me, this means you are going to have to count on it being slow. I take a little comfort in that as it is encouraging to know that the slower the loss, the better chance the weight will stay off.. Don't know if I'm accurate about that, but my experience is that fast (fad diets) always leads to disaster.... So let's hope that's true and be happy to be going down........... I'm a 56 year old wife, mother and grandmother who is retired from active employment. I do daycare for my 18 month old granddaughter... and take care of our rental property business.. I have lots of time to eat, which has been a big problem in the past. I seem to have that under control now. I love to cook and bake, but have tried to tone that down now, too.... I'm thinking I might be getting my first fill on 11-7, but don't know for sure. I don't feel as though I have a lot of restriction anymore, but am still losing weight at a reasonable rate.. She wants to see me and we will decide that day. You have a good day and we'll share later.. I wish I know how to do the personal e-mail between just us.. but I don't. Take care.......... Julie

Hi Julie, I'm Julie....from North Dakota. glad to have you here.... I was banded a bit before you on 8-21 and am doing pretty well.. But I still have pain... I think from the port and from having to have a full incision rather than the laproscopic thing.. Dr says it will just take a while longer... So, I try to be a trooper, but it gets old... Can you tell me a bit more about yourself, like your age and what kind of journey you will be on. I have lost 51 pounds with about 156 to go... It seems like a long ways to go, but looking ahead is always that way... The past two months have gone by rather fast now that I can look back on them..... Glad you meet you and hope we can support each other along the way.. Julie