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msnenequeenie14

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  1. msnenequeenie14

    Wanting my band out :(

    Iatetheskinnyme I think I really do understand how you feel. I was really really believing that I made the wrong decision getting banded. I thought I wanted the band so bad and I did everything perfect to get it, then after I got it, I was in pain and confused. Discouraged and I experienced something that I realized I had not felt in so long I couldn't remember. HUNGER. I have been overweight and overeating for so long that I couldn't even remember what being hungey actually felt like. I have spent the last 20 years just eating and eating and eating, eating because its morning, night, afternoon, because I'm happy, sad, or because I passed someplace that I just have to stop in and get something. I used to eat a meal while I was cooking a meal and convince myself that I was still hungry...Once I got the lap band, I was experiencing a lot of different emothins and my natural reaction to emotion is to EAT. Except, I couldn't and still can't eat the terrible way I have been eating for so long. I actually got HUNGRY. I was so scared and nervous and depressed and just a whole host of other things...But I have been coming to LBT everyday and reading about the experience of others and getting encouragement and tips and I realize that I am actually Happy and pleased that I do feel hungry, its a sign that I am not overeating anymore(being hungry feels so much better than that, I am so stuffed I want to throw up or die right now feeling) I can no longer stuff everything down my throught and then feel terrible about myself because I did that. I have not had a fill yet and I have only lost 26 lbs so far, but I feel great! I feel like I can do anything. I feel like if I stick with this lap band and use it as the tool it is meant to be I will finally be FREE! Hang in there, I really believe you CAN do it! :bolt::thumbup::tt1:
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    Really hard time adjusting to life with the band?

    I was having a really hard time for a couple weeks after I got the band. I was losing like crazy immediately after the surgery but ywo weeks after my post op my weight loss started to trickle off. I am happy to say I have not gained anything, but a I haven't lost anything additional either. I'm having some troubles with my doctor, I really need a fill so I can get started and they never call back. I was banded 6/30/08 and my first fill wont be until probably 10/14/08. My main problem right now is that I can still eat the way I did b4 I got banded, I don't allow myself to, but its scary! Since I don't have any restriction yet, I have taken to just plain old starving myself and taking these organic appetite supressants so I won't let the food get the best of me! But it was quite a shock to my life
  3. I'm really sorry guys, I hope these Q's are not too dumb...:redface: 1. Can anyone please tell me what PB means??? 2. Can anyone tell me how I will know if the band has slipped? 3. Can anyone tell me how I will know if something is stuck?:smile2: 4. Can anyone tell me if all of this burping and hiccups is normal?:thumbup: Thanks Jenean:thumbup: Banded 6/30/08 Mercy Hospital Dr. Lufti 339/313.2/160
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    another stupid question about my last pb

    Hey, Can I ask what PB means? I wonder if you and I are worried about the same thing, I have not had a fill yet and I have just been eating regular stuff and trying to do my best to eat less of it. I am nervous that I did some damage or the band slipped.
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    Need HELP in Chicago, PLEASE!

    I am intellegent. I obviously attempted to make the appointment when I went for my 1 week post-op and they were unable to make the appointment at that time which is why they advised me to wait and call at the 5 weeks mark, they advised they were swamped. Good for you that the band is working for you, it is obviously being maintained properly by Mercy. I am not having the same shiny happy experience with them. FYI, when I talked to them 09/17/08 they advised that they had gotten all of my repeated messages and just not sure why they did not take time to call back. They also advised me that Dr. Lufti, who was my surgeon, will only see post-op patients on Tuesday mornings, this was not an issue that they made clear prior to my surgery. I work for the Police department, and I cannot always be available on Tuesday mornings and I can't call off or request off every single tuesday until they find one they can squeeze me into. They offered me an appointment for 10/14/08, arrive at 630 am and no guarantee that Lufti will see me. I feel like I should be a priority to them just like any other patient, they were so attentive to me before I had my surgery
  6. Thanks for the message, I appreciate it. You are totally correct, I have not had a fill at all and have been contacting them over and over to get one. They finall called me 9/17/08 and said they got my mesages but are not sure why nobody returned my calls. They also told me that I can come in on 10/14/08 at 630 in the morning and see if the doctor can squeeze me in, but no guarantee that he will get to me. It is really so frustrating, because if I could do it without assistance, I wouldn't have gotten the lap band...

    I decided to see if I can find someone else to be my doctor.

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    Hiatal Hernia repair

    My Doctor told me that the only real symptom of a Haitial Hernia is that you might have experienced mild to severe heartburn or GERD
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    Hiatal Hernia repair

    Hey! I had a Hiatial Hernia repaired also at the time I was banded. My Doctor told me beforehad that it was determined that I had one when I had that Endoscopy. He said that the hernia was what was causing me to have the heartburn. He said the Hernia is a part of my upper stomach that protrudes into my thorax through a small rip or several small rips in my diaphram. I have noticed a marked improvement in my heartburn! Jenean Banded 6/30/08 339/313.5/160
  9. WOW!! Congrats! That is my personal goal as well, I started at 339, and I will really feel like I have actually accomplished something once I can say I am under 300. So what have you been doing? 42 lbs since August is EXCELLENT!!! Please share some tips if you can?!
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    My third Fill

    I totally understand how you feel. I have not had a fill yet and have only lost 25.5 lbs, but I notice I can eat whatever I want just like before the band and it is really frustrating for me. I have been trying to get a fill but am not having any success. I try to eat better than before, but if I could do it on my own I wouldnt have needed the help of the band. Stick with it and try to eat as healthy as you can. I started taking organic appetite suppressants until I can inally get them to return my call about a fill.
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    I can eat anything

    Anwa, I would like to join yur club! I am so nervous and scared because I was banded on 6/30/08 and I have lost only 25.5 lbs so far and I can eat enything with out any problems. I have not vomited or even been nauseated even once. I have not had my 1st fill yet, I'm having a great deal of trouble getting my Docs office to call back and give me an appointment...I'm making myself crazy worried that the band has totally popped off or something. I make myself eat less most days, but when I get those all too often weak moments, I have nothing stopping me and no problems...*SIGH*
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    blood pressure question...

    That is an excellent question! I was banded 6/30/08 and I have hight blood pressure for which I take three medications per day. I have lost 25.5 lbs so far, but I have not been able to go off of my meds yet. When I had my surgery they advised me to take my meds as regular that day, by the time they wore off 24 hours later my BP was higher than I had ever seen it in my life they were freaking out a little (I felt fine, which was odd, I usually don't when my BP spikes) I didn't bring the meds with me to the hospital and they didn't have exactly what I take available. I am so looking forward to not having high BP...
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    Newly Banded in San Antonio - need to lose 250lbs!

    Hi Amy! I am Jenean, I am a mother to A 4 year old girl and a 7 year old boy. I was banded 6/30/08 and I am struggling, struggling, struggling! I hope we can be friends and motivate each other!
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    I'm here to help...

    That is really nice of you to offer to be a buddy and a mentor and to show your hard work and success. I am a nervous wreck right now. I was banded 6/30/08 and have lost 25.5 lbs so far without having any fills yet, but the more I read on this website the more nervous and discouraged I am getting. My original struggle was that after I got the band I began to feel hungry and I realized that I have been obese and over eating for so long that I was unfamilar with hunger and do not know how to cope with it. I seem to be able to eat regular amounts of food but I make myself eat less than I did pre-band. Since I got the band I have not thrown up even once and I have not had the urge or any feelings of nausea, is that normal? I want to get a fill because I want to see some real progress, I exercise 5-6 days a week, walking a mile or more, but now I am really scared, people are talking about things getting stuck and vomiting and having to have corrective surgery or be rebanded. I really am so confused right now. I know that all I want is to be healthy, no more high blood pressure, no more GERD, I don't want to be the biggest thing in the room anymore but I'm so nervous now.
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    feeling pregnant!!

    I feel so bad for you! I had the same problem, they explained to me that they pumped my abdomen full of air/gas to inflate it for surgery, after they close you up your body has to absorb that air/gas and then expell it. I have some pics of my abdomen from the week after my banding, it looked like I wa 5 months Preggers...It will go away.
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    Swollen feet!!!

    Also, when your having problems with swelling, NO SALT AT ALL. NO SALTY FOODS, NO SALT ON YOUR FOOD. NO SALT. Be honest with yourself about your salt intake and get rid of it to improve your swelling...take it from a person that had swollen everything from head to toe!
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    Swollen feet!!!

    Tomina08 if your just starting your seminar, you still have at least a few months to go until getting banded. Have you had your blood pressure checked? That could be causing your swelling. Ask for a diuretic, it will remove the excess water from your body and give you some releif. I had some problems like that where I was retaining so much water that I was in pain, I asked my doctor for something he gave me Hydrochlorathiazide. I literally peed out pounds of water that I was retaining. Don't Give up!
  18. This is my first band, got it on 6/30/08, and I pretty much did my own thing as far as food is concerned since the day I got home. I tried the liquid thing but I was absolutly starving and I couldnt take it. Being so obese for most of my life I always over ate and I never experienced what hunger truly actually actually felt like and once I got banded and started experiencing my stomach actually growling and feeling uncomfortable from really being hungry, I just couldnt take it. So I looked at what the nutritionist told me I can and cant have and I started doing research on calories and all and I do my own diet. I have not had my band fille dup yet, probably next week they will finally get to me and the experiment will begin again...I don't know if its good or bad what I am doing, and I do walk at least a mile a day or more for exercise. I just know I am desperate to lose weight with out that hungry feeling...
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    I Can't Believe I'm Asking This...

    Maybe they did leave yours on. but I had surgical incisions North south east and west and they took off my entire gown, the north, just onder my brest was to get to the hepatic hernia and repair it, east for the camera west for the post and the two small "south incisions" and they strap all your limbs down arms, lower and upper legs. You were probably naked too, you just may not have been naked until you were out, I already had an IV and I was awake and talking to the docs adn nurses until they were ready to start.
  20. It only took about 4 months from start to surgery! I went to the first seminar, I gave them my medicaid card, they scheduled me ot see the surgeon, he examined me and set me up for a long list of tests (I will be happy to look in my file for the names for you, I'm at work right now) it was about 7 different medical tests, got the results and scheduled my surgery date pending Medicaid sending the approval back. Once the last test results came in it took about 14 days and I received an approval letter in the mail from Medicaid, I called the Hospital and advised them I got it, faxed it to them and they set my surgery date solid right then. I got offered an excellent new job which was a career move so I had to push back my surgery from June 3 to June 30. I was a painless and seemless process to get medicaid to pay for the banding. I am 5' 8" and at the time 339 lbs I had some acid reflux problems (which turned out to be a hepatic hernia, which the surgeon repaired while banding me) and I have high blood pressure. Medicaid gave me no problems and no delays! Please let me know if I can tell you anything else!
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    Need to gain weight!!!!

    Eat Pasta with some heavy red sauce and lay down right afterwards. Wake up at about 2 or 3 am and do it again, you will have that 5 lbs. Before you go to the weigh in, drink as much water as you can stand and DO NOT go to the bathroom before you weigh, a completely full bladder adds almost a whole pound. I hate to tell you how to gain weight, but I totally understand what you are trying to do
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    I Can't Believe I'm Asking This...

    FYI, I hate for ANYONE to see me naked except my husband so it was a difficult thing for me too, I just swallowed my pride, got my brazillian wax on, freshly shaved my legs and underarms, got my hands, toes, and hair done and hoped for the best...
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    I Can't Believe I'm Asking This...

    Sorry guys, but you will be COMPLETELY naked during the surgery...So make sure you get nice and shaved up..lolol! Its not that bad, they will give you an REALLY LARGE hospital gown before you go into surgery and they tell you that you must take everything off underneath. They will very tactfully uncover you only inside the actual surgical room right as you are about to be strapped down and sedated...Also here is another news flash, the day of the surgery, you have to meet with a whole slew of Doctors that are involved with your surgery and most of them need to see some part of your bare midriff area, also the doctor may even come in and write on your abdomen...its ok, they do this surgery all the time and theyhave see better and worse...
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    chiacgo doctors

    Hello Everyone! I was banded 6/30/08 at Mercy Hospital in Chicago, IL Dr. Rami Lufti. The staff there is very nice.
  25. Hey, I am in IL and Medicaid not Medicare is what paid for my surgery 100%. I went through Mercy Hospital's progran for LapBanding. now that I am post-op I have to pay only $3 per visit. Please let me know if I can help you with any questions, I was just banded 6/30/08 and I saved every scrap of paper that i have thats associated with this surgery!

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