MarisAthena

4 hours ago, sharonwg said:

Hi Maggie - its so very nice to have you join us here. Of course you are feeling a sense of loss; we have had a long standing relationship with food and food was reliable and available if we wanted it, despite it ultimately making us so very miserable. You are grieving the loss of a deep and complicated relationship. Let it go - its a bad relationship and your surgery will support a much healthier union between you and food.

I had my surgery on 1st June, having completed a two week liquid diet. Its hard - there is no getting away from it. You are going to have to dig really deep honey; its only 2 weeks and you will soon be there. You can do it - believe you got this.

Dear Carla - try not to spend too much time worrying about the weight you are not losing at this stage. Maybe follow the advice your medical team has given you without your own modifications and see what happens honey. Relax beautiful girl - don't stress at this early stage xx

For all of you who have surgery tomorrow, I am so with you in spirit and prayers. Can't wait to see you on the other side - 🤗

Six hours until the surgery. 😀

6 hours ago, Carla Ogwin said:

I have cut back on everything everything that I put in my body is sugar free it's liquid is Jello it's popsicles it's broth homemade broth and I even join the Y again so I can work out and I lost a pound no I'm not sure if that's enough and my surgery is on the 13th that is what I've been following and I just feel like why aren't I losing more weight than that I walk everyday

Hi Carla, I was on the same diet as you and I barely lost 4 pounds, so please do not worry. I think they recommend the number of Protein Shakes based on height and weight, some are on three, some on four. My surgery is in 6 hours and I will ask if the fact that I lost only 4 pounds is an issue, but I do not think so.

My surgery is tomorrow, I will not know the time until this evening after 6:00 p.m. I do not know why mayo Clinic does this, but they do not let you know what time the surgery is until the night prior to the surgery. They did the same for my husband’s brain surgery couple of years ago.
I still have doubts about this gastric bypass surgery and probably I will until they roll me in, but I think it is a normal reaction to fear. I have so many underlying health conditions that will be resolved with this surgery and I still doubt my decision. My mind will play this game until I wake up from the surgery and I will know that I do not have any other options. 😀

6 hours ago, sharonwg said:

Hi guys - I'm 3 days post op and doing ok. I don't have any pain so not a need or pain relief and am now managing to sip more Water (I am determined to stay hydrated - it's so very important!). I'm moving around but ensuring that I pace myself. David and Jaz - my thoughts and prayers are with you tomorrow - you will b fine guys. I hope you have found the posts of us who have ad the surgery over the last few days of some comfort to you. Can't wait for you to join us on the other side 🤗😘

My nutritionist advised me to add Protein Powder to everything, including the Water I drink at least in the first month after surgery so I can meet the Protein goal. Just some info for you.

13 minutes ago, Carla Ogwin said:

That's how I feel about my support as well. I'm left alone all the time, never asked if I want to hang, but its all good. I found my bariatric pal fam, thanks for the support yall. I don't mean to spread my business either .

Please do not worry Carla, this is why we are here for each other. Stay strong, you shall overcome, all will be wonderful! We will be healthier, and live longer!

5 hours ago, sharonwg said:

I do not have the support of my family so you all mean a lot. I have to say, i am very comfortable here healing in peace. I do have my two little kitties mind you 🤣

Happy to hear you are home and well. Try to walk as often as you can, I was told that is most important after surgery. I love kitties, they are the best! They say that people that have kitties or puppies live longer. Enjoy your time home. For me Monday cannot come quick enough! 😀

10 hours ago, sharonwg said:

Hi. So, when I came out of the theatre, one of the drips I was on was paracetamol which lasted for 6 hours following surgery. They offered more after that but I didn’t need it. They also offered a liquid anti inflammatory (ibuprofen) but I found it way too sweet and couldn’t drink it. I still have no pain. If I experience pain, I can just ask for painkillers xx

Thank you so much! Funny, I just realized that you are British! In US we call the theatre, surgery room, and we do not have Paracetamol (I remember that medication since I grew up in Europe, my Mom used to give it to me as a child). 😀 I think the US equivalent is Tylenol. Very encouraging information! The fact that you are doing so well with no other pain medication is great! We are going into the weekend and my surgery is on Monday. I hope to do as well as you. Stay strong, keep hydrated. I was told that the first couple of weeks are a bit hazy due to all the hormonal changes. Rest well, we will talk soon, praying for you tonight (it is 12:30 am where I live 😀).

2 hours ago, MarisAthena said:

Thank you so much for these news, great encouraging information!

Just a question for you, did they give you any type of pain medication? Thank you!

3 hours ago, sharonwg said:

Just a small note to alert you all too - the lady in the room next to mine also had a bypass and does not have any pain either xx

3 hours ago, sharonwg said:

Just a small note to alert you all too - the lady in the room next to mine also had a bypass and does not have any pain either xx

1 hour ago, sharonwg said:

Just a small note to alert you all too - the lady in the room next to mine also had a bypass and does not have any pain either xx

Thank you so much for these news, great encouraging information!

3 hours ago, sharonwg said:

Hi June family - quick update. All good here. Not really in any pain to be honest. I know I’ve had something g done in the stomach area but I wouldn’t say it hurts if that makes sense. I can pretty much get in and out of bed but just slower. Should probably sip more Water but don’t really feel like it - i knew w I have to push myself. They gave me a liquid ibuprofen but I just couldn’t drink it as it tasted way too sweet. For those of you having your surgery on 2nd - good luck. You’re going to do just fine xxxx

Thank you for the update! I have the same surgery as you on Monday and I am still very scared. Your posts will help me sleep better until then. Please keep them coming, you are helping all of us. Praying for all of us tonight. Thank you so very much!

52 minutes ago, nece71367 said:

June 22nd will be here before I know it. I’m so ready for this new journey. I’m so tired of feeling this way about how I look and ache all over, my poor -very supportive husband thinks I don’t love him because I avoid sex due to my insecurities. My body grosses me out, he doesn’t understand that it should be enough for me that he loves me and doesn’t care about my weight, but it matters to me🤦🏽‍♀️

I am so sorry you feel this way, I am exactly the opposite, I feel I am beautiful at over 300 pounds. I always blame it on my husband, we have been together for 23 years and he makes me feel like I am the most beautiful woman on earth. Beauty is in the eyes of the beholder, and the most important beholder is you. Love yourself.. Your husband loves you and thinks you are beautiful, allow yourself to feel that way. This surgery is mostly a tool to be healthy, live longer, not be in pain. You are beautiful inside and out, give yourself the gift of happiness, the gift of life. The older we get, how we look becomes so much less important. I remember 30 years ago, in my early twenties looking at one of my pictures and thinking “I am so fat”. I was 158 pounds and I am almost 6 feet tall. I had a very harsh view of who I was supposed to be. Your feelings remind me of a much younger me. You shall conquer and overcome this stage, I did, and so will you.

2 hours ago, sharonwg said:

Hi guys. Well…,. I’ve had the bypass and have been out of theatre for a few hours now. No gas pain at all and I can now get up to use the bathroom without the nurse providing I take it a little slower (anaesthetic still a little present). I’m doing good guys - just now going to watch Netflix on my iPad. I’m also going to now brave taking tiny sips of Fluid for the first time 😘🤗

Congratulations! Let’s hope you will continue doing well and have no pain. Will keep you in my prayers, keep us updated if you can.

On 5/30/2023 at 6:15 AM, Carla Ogwin said:

Good morning all, Thanks Maris never thought about bringing a hospital bag that's a good idea. I already have my must haves for home Vitamins chewable etc. Off to Walmart I go today.

20 hours ago, Ang_LovesClutch said:

Hi everyone! I’m new here, sleeve surgery is in 6/12. Kind of feeling a little concerned, my surgeon doesn’t have me on any kind of special diet prior to surgery with the exception of 24 hours prior (clear liquid diet). Am I on an island here? Anyone else have no restrictions prior to surgery?

Hi Ang, please do not worry, there is no standard amongst the specialists (nutritionists or surgeons). Be happy that you do not have to do the liquid diet and enjoy your last “food funerals”. I posted before how frustrated I was about this, but we have no choice on those decisions and we should never worry about things we cannot control. I am sure your surgery will be very successful!

My surgery is in 4 days. So far so good. I found and excellent website that talks about the importance of Vitamins and minerals after surgery. I am sharing this so you can read it. Who knew that you are not supposed to take the Iron and Calcium at the same time and that they should be separated by at least two hours? Enjoy reading. 😀 https://www.obesitycoverage.com/bariatric-vitamins-guidelines/

7 hours ago, southernmomofive said:

Hey y’all! Placing some Amazon orders for my supplements and extra comfort things that I’ve read in multiple places. Here is my list for hospital and after. Let me know what y’all are bringing or using etc.

Slides to walk after surgery in hosp.
Loose lounge pants /tops
Socks
(Eye mask, toiletries, pillow, blanket , phone charger, chap stick etc)
GasX
Tylenol dissolve packets
Xylimelts dry mouth
Vibrating heat pad
Belly band
4oz portion cups with lids (disposable)
Vitamin B drops
Fish oil liquid
Flavorless Isopure powder (thicken broths)
calcium citrate chews
Bariatric Vitamins w/iron chewable
Hylite hydration drops for Water

Just a FYI, from mayo Clinic, it seems that Iron should not be taken together with Calcium or Multivitamins.

https://www.mayoclinic.org/drugs-supplements/iron-supplement-oral-route-parenteral-route/precautions/drg-20070148#:~:text=Do not take iron supplements, each medicine or dietary supplement.

On 5/21/2023 at 12:44 PM, Lolavolcan said:

My surgery date is scheduled for June 21st. My doctor requires a 4 week, all liquid diet before surgery. I started today but am worried I’m gonna fail.

I am doing the liquid diet right now. It is very very difficult. I never heard before of 4 weeks liquid diet. It is really worrisome to me when all nutritionists, doctors and all hospitals differ in their opinions and their requirements. Some do not require any diet but for the couple of days prior to surgery, some allow 1 meal per day, others want all liquid, some ask for one week liquid others for 4 weeks. I understand that these decisions are based on BMI, etc, but why such high variation in requirements? To top this, my nutritionist placed me on all liquids diet two weeks ago and today when I met with my my surgeon he said I can have a small piece of chicken per day and I can replace the orange juice with 2 small bananas. I am really confused so I will continue the total liquid diet. I make it through this thinking that if I fail I will let them know, I will talk to my nutritionist. I also hope that I do not fail in the week prior to the surgery because they need to have a clear view. After all we are all humans, nobody is perfect and I am also sure I will not be the only patient in the world that had a mishap! I am angry, hungry and hopeful for the best! 😀 This is all I can do! Oh, by the way, warm chicken clear broth has been a life savior for me the couple of times when I was ready to fail! I bought these on Amazon, they are called Herb Ox sodium free granulated (chicken and beef) bullion. I add my own salt. They are yummy and a bowl of that will stop your craving and hunger. Sigh…Surgery cannot come fast enough! 😀

16 hours ago, CatLady0626 said:

Hi Mona! I’m having bypass on June 2

My surgery is scheduled for June 5th. I started the liquid diet yesterday, today was the second day, and it has been difficult. The hospital is asking for two weeks liquid diet and I started earlier because I want to make sure that by next week when I meet with the team I can ask all questions regarding my blood sugar levels through this diet. I have diabetes and my glucose levels are going all over the place, some high numbers that I did not see before (197 first thing this morning). I think it has to do with the orange juice and Liquid IV drinks that both have huge amount of sugar. I am meeting with the preop team in 3 days and I will ask if indeed it is ok to have diabetics drink those high sugar drinks. I managed to bring the glucose levels lower by drinking broth. The document I received from them asked not to contact the doctor unless the glucose is lower than 70 or higher than 270 so I assume this variation is acceptable in their view. Certainly not ok from my point of view but I am looking forward to get the surgery and reverse the diabetes.

10 minutes ago, LindsayT said:

Things are going well and getting better each day. I'm still having some pain, but nothing that's unmanageable. Thanks for checking in!

Thank you for letting me know, it is good to know that there were no complications. Good wishes and lemon flowers aromas your way!

5 hours ago, kla7403 said:

23 DAYS LEFT FOR ME!

Thank you for counting for both of us. 😀 I have a phone preop on Monday and several physical appointments the week after. I actually decided to start the liquid diet one week earlier than they recommended maybe it will help the surgeon more. For the diabetics here, please know that there is a blood test that your diabetes doctor can order for you, that will let you know if you can reverse your diabetes. I have been a diabetic for 15 years and my doctor and I did not believe that we can reverse it. Guess what? The test results came back on Wednesday and I can still reverse the diabetes! Yeaay!

On 4/30/2023 at 4:45 PM, LindsayT said:

Tomorrow, May 1st, is the day. I check in at 7:30. Pray or wish me luck; whatever is your jam, I'd appreciate it. I'm a bit nervous and so very ready. "See" y'all on the flip side.

Hi Lindsay, how are you doing, how are you feeling? You had the surgery on my birthday and I was thinking of you, how is everything almost two weeks after?

2 hours ago, southernmomofive said:

40 days til my scheduled bypass. Love reading all your posts but I’m super overwhelmed with the amount of posts and the format of this app. Any suggestions on navigating around here?

Hi, I understand how you might find this difficult and overwhelming, but what is very important is that you can learn a lot by doing simple searches. My bypass is coming up on June 5th and the other night I was simply wondering if anyone that completed this surgery had regrets. I just typed in the word “regret” in the search box and a vast array of information, some very old some newer came up. I could go to sleep that night calm, after I read all those posts. I learned that while initially some go through a regret stage, in time everyone is content with the life decision they made. This website is amazing when it comes to information. I hope this helps.

On 7/24/2018 at 2:55 PM, GreenTealael said:

Like weight loss before and after photos but of your new diet !

I'm especially interested in before and after meal photos (take a pic at the point you feel restriction) but it can be of recipe substitutions, your refrigerator/pantry/shopping cart/etc

VSG2017 HW 249 SW 238 CW 167

Can you please let me know where can I get the pretty chart with weight loss information under your message? I saw it around this forum and would like to create one for myself. Thank you!

7 hours ago, kla7403 said:

We are getting the same surgery on the same day!

Yes, I know, I saw your answer earlier. I will be at mayo Clinic in Florida. Where are you getting the surgery? I think we should keep in contact.

On 2/22/2023 at 11:27 AM, Alex Brecher said:

I hope you're feeling better! Here are a few last-minute tips that may help:

1. Follow your surgeon's pre-op instructions carefully, including any dietary restrictions or fasting requirements.
2. Pack a bag with comfortable clothes, toiletries, and any other essentials you may need during your recovery.
3. Get plenty of rest the night before your surgery.
4. Have a trusted friend or family member accompany you to the hospital and be prepared to stay overnight.
5. After your surgery, be sure to follow your surgeon's instructions for post-op care, including taking any prescribed medications, getting plenty of rest, and avoiding strenuous activity.
6. Stay positive and focus on your goals. Remember, you're making this change for your health and well-being.

Good luck with your surgery, and feel free to reach out if you have any other questions or concerns.

Hi Alex, I see that you received a gastric bypass 20 years ago. Did you have to do any other gastric surgeries in the past 20 years? How is your health and do you have any regrets? Thank you so much!