jantje

On 3/16/2022 at 3:33 PM, WhispersOfAngel said:

Those reactions are possibly just jealousy/envy rearing its ugly head. It happens, unfortunately.

And yeah that does seem like a lot of weight loss per week that far out. Maybe she should reach out to her nutritionist and see what they say.

thank for your advice, i'll keep that in mind if the progress keeps continuing like this

5 minutes ago, learn2cook said:

Just looking at dates and math, she lost 100lbs in one month?

no,average 22 lbs a month

1 hour ago, WhispersOfAngel said:

I only mentioned the support part because it happens. If you read this thread, you'll get an understanding what, we the weight loss surgery patients often deal with from those closest to us.

And also this calculator for weight loss surgery can give you a guesstimate of what she might weigh when her body settles on its new weight. https://www.obesitycoverage.com/weight-loss-surgeries/gastric-bypass/how-much-can-i-expect-to-lose I plugged in her info and it says at 18 months out, 20% of sleeve patients weigh 185. Check it out for yourself. Just make sure you're looking at the correct surgery. It gives options for Band, Bypass and Sleeve.

yea she got some toxic reactions already... especialy from female friends.

Thank fot the tips, i only was a bit surprises she still is losing 5.5 lbs/week after 4/5 monthe post surgery

33 minutes ago, WhispersOfAngel said:

It's difficult to answer this question because you told us she now weighs 209 pounds, but you failed to give her height. Is she 5'10, 5'? Which surgery did she have?

Why are you scared she's going to lose too much weight? Maybe you're just not used to her being at a "healthy weight."

I hope you're supporting her weight loss journey to a new, healthier weight and not badgering her about "losing too much weight" There's nothing worse than someone close to you not being supportive when you're trying to become healthier. J/s.

ofc i'm supporting her in her journey, no worries. all support to her right now.

btw her height is 5'7 and had a sleeve surgery

Hi all,

my wife had a weightloss surgery at december 1st 2021, she was 308 lbs, now she has already hit 209 lbs, im scared shes gona lose too much weight.

what can we further expect? how much will she lose?