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Not sure if this makes sense, but, I have had no, absolutely no hunger since my surgery on 1/12. I force myself to have shakes and try to have Soup, to get some nutrition. In two days I begin the 'mushies' and am worried that perhaps adding things I like and different flavors, will activate my hunger!

I know I can't stay on liquids forever, but..if I am happy on it, will it be bad to not move forward?

Anyone else experience this, and also experience the fear of adding foods?

I was banded on 1/14 and have not felt the slightest bit hungry at all. My doctor allowed me to start adding foods to my diet beginning on 1/18. Today I was allowed to begin well cooked veggies, veggie soup, mashed potatoes, etc. Well, even with eating the mushies, I'm having to force myself to eat. I'm only getting in about 400 calories per day and I'm up to about 30 oz of liquids per day (I'm really trying hard to get it all in and I just can't). In the morning I feel very nauseous and the thought of eating is just horrible. I am barely able to drink my Water. Later in the day, I eat about 4-5 bites of something like smooshed up peas or drink a couple drinks of soup and I'm full. It took me 2 hours to eat a banana today. I feel like I'll throw up if I eat more. It's not painful like I'm stuck. I'm just full and I have that "I just overate feeling". I don't know if I'm just swollen from surgery still or if it is because he said he put a 10cc band on and it was pretty snug. It just seems weird to me....

Can't believe you are eating soft food so soon.

I'm looking forward to tomorrow because according to my doctor's plan, I can begin with cooked veggies, Beans, pureed Soups and mashed potatoes. I'm following my doctor's plan to the letter. It's like he has staged it so every couple of days, I can add something else, so I don't get bored too much with the diet. Obviously, I'm being conservative though and MOST (80%) of what I'm still eating is full liquids.< /p>

Hang in there y'all! It does get better, I had my surgery on Dec 31st 2008 so just about 3 weeks and I was not bad at all! yes I had shoulder pain from the air but it went away after a few days and remember you are swollen inside from the surgery. The swelling takes a little time to go down so that you can get something in you. Hang in there! It will get better,soon as you get some Soup , Carbs will help the weird feelings go away, Tomato Soup Low sodium is a lifesaver!

I also had a weird feeling rolling up my sternum like i had to burp turns out that was things settling down from The Hyatal hernia that got fixed while I was under, This surgery saved me before I even got it! I was Very anemic and would never have known until pre op blood work.

You will be so much happier later, just have to get thru the first week and a half.

I was allowed to start cream based Soups on Sunday and I had some Creamy Tomato (Cup at Hand) and I have to say that was the best stuff I've ever had!!! It felt SOOO good going down. It took me 45 minutes to get the whole thing down, but it was glorious!

I have to say that I'm feeling better today. I only had liquid Tylenol this morning before work. I started back to work (teaching) this morning and got a wonderful surprise! We had a 2 hour delay due to the weather! I didn't have to be at school until 9, so I was able to leisurely get ready and drive in. Then, since it was inauguration day, we watched the coverage of the inauguration all day while doing various projects related to it. I also had to leave early today to take my daughter to a doctor's appointment. It was a great day to go back. I found that being busy really helped me get my mind off the band. Today was the first day I can say that I felt human again.

Also, the past 2 nights, I've been able to sleep on my left side AND on my stomach! :thumbup:

Maybe there is a light at the end of the tunnel after all!

I am so glad I am not alone, I have been searching for removal as well LOL the pulling and bloating feeling is so bad, I can not live this way!! Have you seen your dr yet? I go see mine tomorrow, its suppose to snow here I dont care if I sled there I am going to see him!! LOL

I don't go to see my doctor until Feb 11, but if something goes wrong, I can always call ahead. I keep telling myself, just make it through the day. I go back to work tomorrow and I'm hoping that will distract me enough to make it through the day. I'm a teacher and 4th graders are very distracting! :scared2:

We'll get through this...hang in there. Just remember what your reasons were for getting this in the first place!

So surgery was thursday and all went well. I felt great in the hospital. I get home, and cant seem to get much in. I was told 60 grms of Protein, yea thats not happeing. Even when I drink Water I feel so bloated and uncomfortable, takes forever for that to pass. I have gas like crazy, and then the worst, the port pain. I am wondering what I did to myself. I bent down earlier and it hurt so bad it took my breath away, I almost passed out, it feels like fishing wire is ripping thu my stomach on the right side where the port is. When I turn, strech, bend, anything, I feel it pull, what is really going on in there? Did I make a mistake?

I am a day ahead of you. I had my surgery on Wednesday and I'm having much of the same doubts that you are. I'm trying to be strong, but I don't think I'm doing so well. I've even been researching lap band removal on google! I will say that the pain for me was so much better today. I'm only on Tylenol and I'm sore, but its definitely manageable. Now I'm having a hard time getting the Water in. I think I'm getting dehydrated, so I'm sitting here drinking like a fish (as much as I can without feeling sick). My tongue is turning white, I'm freezing to death even though the temp in the room is 71 (took my body temp and no fever), and I feel a constant lump in my throat. I keep telling myself that I'll be OK...wait it out for at least a couple of weeks, but its hard.

From what I've seen, many people feel this same way during the first weeks after surgery and then once the effects of surgery goes away, we're OK. I'm counting on this. Hang in there. You're not the only one going through this.....we're in it together!:scared2:

Bad idea....you will be under general anesthesia which stays in your system for up to 24 hours. If you drove, you would be just the same as drinking and driving and you could have an accident and hurt yourself or others. If you got pulled over, you could be arrested for DUI. My doctors would not release me unless I had an adult to take me home and I only lived 5 minutes from the hospital (if that). Surely, there HAS to be someone who can take you!

I know I'm probably bugging all of you to death, but your help has really been getting me through these early days of the band. Today, when I woke up (5 days post op), I felt like I was on the verge of choking. Its almost like I have something stuck in the back of my throat. Is this normal? My doctor told me that he put the 10cc band on and "its pretty snug" and I'm fearing that it is too snug. If that's the case, will they have to go back in and put the 14 cc on or will it loosen as I lose some weight?

This is such a foreign land. I did at least 2 years of research on this before I did it, but now I feel so ignorant in many things. Its really a matter of there's no way to fully prepare until you do it.

Thanks,

You just got the band and I think it's completely normal to go thru this. It is a definate change and that is overwhelming in itself. You got this done for a reason and right now you might be uncomfortable and not rationalizing it completely.

Try to relax, breathe, do some light yoga.

In this moment you have it in and there is no reason to turn back after coming this far.

Give it a chance.

I sometimes think why did I get this band- what was wrong with me why I could never lose the weight. Why couldn't I just eat vegetables all the time to fill my hunger?

Well - it is not easy for some people to lose weight. And I still never want to eat my veggies!!! I can honestly say without this band I might have gained 35 lbs instead of lost it!

Thank you so much. I have no intention of turning back now, but I was worried I'd have to spend a lifetime of panic attacks! I guess my whole body is just in shock right now!

Thank you both for your replies. That makes me feel better. I really thought this was the case, but I wanted to make sure I wasn't a total nutcase. Well, I am, but at least I can't blame it on the band!! :huh2: This too shall pass....

How long until you stop panicking about the band itself and life after the band? There are moments where I have to fight a panic attack and the thought of "I want this thing out of me" hits. Then I can distract myself and I'm OK again. Is this a sign that I just wasn't ready psychologically for the surgery or is this normal? I would feel like such a failure and be so embarrassed if I end up having it removed because I was having panic attacks.

I guess I should say that I'm on 10 mg of Buspar for anxiety...maybe I need the dose increased.....

What is the surgery to remove the band like? Is it as tough as the recovery from getting the band or is it easier?

Yes, she did edit it quite a bit! LOL

She ate salad and muffins and was in great pain. And I didn't "rip" her (believe me, I can go off on someone, and that wasn't ripping her!) I asked why she was eating muffins and salad because, per the info I saw on HER profile, she is supposed to be on a very different diet. I thought maybe she didn't know how important it was to follow that diet so I asked "Why are you eating muffins and salad?" If that's ripping her, we're all doomed! :glare:

However, she, as we all, can eat what we want. We're grown ups. I don't know her and don't "care" if she wants to eat foods not on her doc's diet! It's her prerogative.

Thanks...I thought I was going crazy for a minute! It would have been ripping her if you had responded the way you did based on the post that I saw, but now I understand fully! :glare: Yes, muffins and salad is a no-no for me right now too. Now I can see where your concern came from and things were not as they seemed. :huh2:

I've always been irregular due to PCOS. I had my surgery on Wednesday and today (Sunday) I wiped and saw evidence of her arrival! UGH....There must be something to surgery that brings it on. I did it will all my other surgeries too.

Luckily, the incisions are nice and dry, and the bruises are fading to yellow/green and the rashes are disappearing. I have to give myself lovenox shots every day for a week-10 days. I don't feel the needle, so that part is fine, but the meds sting a bit. I can see where I've given the shot though because there is a tiny little purple dot at each location. My tummy looks like a mess!! LOL

Connect the dots anyone?

Hey...I see you are from KY too. I'm from Lexington and my husband works in Louisville.

I've had quite a bit of gas pains too, but they seem to be fading now. My shoulder doesn't really hurt anymore. Now its just muscular pain that I'm dealing with.

I think the OP edited their original comment. I don't think it is the lortab this time.

OK... thanks! I didn't see the edited thing. I didn't think you could edit your message after it was sent. I'm still learning all the ins and outs of LBT.

I wasn't banded at this location, but I would suggest you read the sticky of surgery day stories, if you haven't already. There are so many similarities that happen regardless of where you are banded that you should get a good idea of what will happen.

JB...your picture freaks me out a bit.

This is my 3rd day. My doctor has me on full Clear liquids for a week, am doing ok with that. My only real complaint is the pain at incision. It is a burning pain whenever I try to get up or sit or lay down. I thought I had high tolerance of pain but this could almost make me cry. Does anyone else have this type of pain? doctor gave me liquid oxycodon but it does nothing.

That the meds that I take too and even though I still feel pain on it, there have been a couple of times when I missed a dose because I slept through it. It was THEN that I realized how much it really WAS helping. Now I take it every 4 hours and even set an alarm at night! My pain feels more like a severely pulled muscle, but it does seem to be getting better today. If I'm sitting still or walking, I don't feel it too much. Its just when I have to cough, stand up from sitting or lying down, or bend over for any reason.

Ummm...did I miss something? All she asked in the first post was what was an absolute no-no and the next post was ripping on her for eating muffins and salad. Where did THAT come from? Am I not getting all the posts or what? I'm so confused. Maybe its the lortab???

I had my surgery on Wednesday 1/14 and I was very thirsty when I woke up, but I have yet to really feel hungry. I've only been "eating" broth, shakes, etc because I know I should to keep my energy up and my muscles. I was allowed to eat a banana this morning and it took me 45 minutes. I was chewing and chewing until it was practically liquid. I only ate it to get some calories in, not because I was hungry. I'm sure this will change once the swelling in my stomach goes away. Then again, my surgeon did say that the band was a bit snug on me (10cc), so maybe I'll get lucky and have restriction just from the band itself.

HI, Your remark as to why I did this hit a nerve. I have a Feb.10th date and that is all I can think of. Should I do this? I am scared but I should probably be more scared of the consequences of not getting this weight off permanently,:scared2: Wishing you the best. Keep in touch.

Before my surgery, I made a list of all the reasons why I wanted the surgery. I even posted some of it here on the thread "Bear with me while I relieve pre-op jitters". It really helped me focus on the big picture. You have quite a bit of time to focus on this list and make a pro/con list. I'm sure you'll do fine. :wink2:

Mom is a nurse, who had the procedure done as well, and she said there is an adhesive used to get the instruments to stay in place.

Thanks doodle! Fortunately, all the rashes have disappeared except for where the adhesive held the catheter in place for my On-Q pain buster ball. I'll have that rash for a while because it was on there for 2 whole days and I didn't get to take it off until Friday. Now, my incisions are itching like crazy, but that's a normal part of the healing process. I'm doing really good about not scratching. I will rub them a bit through my shirt at times though if it gets too bad.

I had surgery on Wednesday also Tina. I have been extra sore today too, but otherwise ok. I, like you, have wondered what in the world have I done! It has almost been like I am mourning something that has been lost. I am sure I will be much better when I can get back to my everyday life. I haven't had a problem with the diet either, I just wish there was a little more variety to the liquids. Good luck to everyone.

Sometimes I catch myself thinking too far down the road. I think 5 or 10 years from now, I'll still be following all these rules and not able to eat what I want, but I quickly tell myself that this is what got me into trouble in the first place. Someone on here said they gave themselves 6 months with the band and if it didn't work out by then, they would have it removed. That's what I'm going to do. That should give me time to get over the soreness, start seeing some real weight loss (yes, I'm aware of average 1 lb per week, so that should be around 24 pounds). I sometimes find myself beginning to panic at having something inside me, but I keep telling myself there would be no choice if it were a pacemaker or a hip replacement, etc. This really isn't a choice right now and I'm ok. I try to focus on the moment. Let's just get through recovery and we'll handle the next part when we get to it. My doctor's plan allows me to eat bananas today and I have to say, this is the best damn banana EVER!

All of us band twins should stick together to see how we do and support each other!

I had my surgery on Wednesday too.

They gave me tylenol w/ codiene for the pain and it just made me nauseous.

So I stopped that and just went to straight Tylenol Syrup and that seems to be managing the pain, but I am still sooooo nauseous.

:-(

When they found out I usually get sick from anesthesia, they put a nausea patch behind my ear that I was able to wear until Saturday. It was WONDERFUL. I didn't have ANY nausea at all. Perhaps next time you have any surgery, you could ask for one yourself. I hope your nausea fades soon!

We're band twins!!!