joy32

Get this....

My husband made me an entire Valentine's dinner by himself. (No, he is not a cook & normally never makes anything but cold cereal.) I was thrilled. He has never done anything like that before. Then, I saw what he had made. Steak & potatoes with pop to drink. HA!! I couldn't have any of it. But, it's the thought that counts - right? Oh yeah, he had strawberries with chocolae fondue for dessert. Do you think I should keep him?!?!

You must have as thoughtful a man as I do. Mine is the kindest, most loving, generous, giving man. As for yours, KEEP HIM. He tried to honor you!!!!

Hello Dixie -- I work for CISD at elementary level.

Joy32

I am from Flower Mound

Joy32

I guess I will take this from a different viewpoint. If your husband is a supportive caring man, and if he thought you might have a big VALENTINES dinner ready for the two of you, he might have been trying to honor the holiday and your relationship, not trying to hurt you. You just have to know your husband. He might have been not thinking about the Lap Band but about the romantic holiday.

Joy32

You said your problem was dry mouth?? Do you have the type of machine with the Water tank? Maybe you need that type of CPAP. I have a mask that fits just on the nose and I wont sleep without it. First good sleep I have had in years!

When people say something mean or insulting to someone and then say (or act like) it was just a joke, that is their way of relieving themselves of the guilt of insulting that person. In their mind they know they mean it, but if you take offense, it is your problem -- since they said it was a joke! Don't let your husband or children do this to you. It not only affects you, but even more it sets a stage for how your sons will treat their wives. Stop this abuse now for your future daughter-in-laws sake if not your own.