Hon, it will be okay. There will be very nice people in the October group, just like there are in the August and September ones. And someday when we are old grizzled veterans it won't matter who had theirs first. It gives you a little more time to get you and your affairs in order. I felt the same way when the June and July people passed me by, I made some really good friends in the JULY group and it really stung when they got their surgeries and I didn't. But most of them still remained friendly, mercmerc just started going back to the gym, maybe someday I will get to also. Just lean yourself back, smile and know that will work out okay. At least you know it still will happen, they could have said NEVER, had that happen to me, took a while to recover.Now give me that Queenly Smile and a wave of your hand!
I remember being pre-op and my favorite thing to do was look at progress photos and dream
I am 6 months, 10 days post op and I am down 128 pounds total. This isnt a very great pic since I have been sick, but i still took it because anything is better than my before!!