MedicVSG

Well I had my surgery yesterday. VSG by Dr David Oliak. Surgery was done at Orange Coast Hospital, in Huntington Beach CA, and I’m in the ICU for a day because Severe OSA. But that’s been fine on their CPAP with my mask. I’ve walked a few times. Last night and this morning. A little sore but really not bad. Still NPO which sucks. I’m so thirsty. Looking forward with little trepidation for the next part of the journey. Good look all.

I’m going in at 0900 for a 1200 Surgery in the morning. Good luck to you all.

Wishing you well, I'm in socal and am getting sleved Mon morning.

We are a stiff necked people.

Thanks everyone, that really helps. I think I'm getting over the jitters for now. Surgery is at 1100 on Monday morning so positive thoughts.

Thank you that really helps.

Sounds like a plan.

Sounds good to me, I'm sure the wife wouldn't mind. Not to get too personal but there is no doubt that as weight goes up, performance goes down.

Ugh. So I just had my last pre op appointment. I’m cleared for VSG in 5/21. But now I’m freaking out a little. So I’m a 40 yo guy 5’11. HW 287 CW 268. That’s all from my 1 month pre op diet. I’ve kept my daily calories to 900-1000 with at least 120g protein. About half shakes and half food. It’s been hard but I’ve gotten used to it. But the thought of “when I’ll be able to eat real food” is always there. Fat Brain? Food addiction? Addiction runs in my family in both sides. So I’ve lost 20 pounds, managed my work schedule, went through all the insurance hoops, paid out 5600 in program fees and copays/deductibles. My wife is very supportive. I’m on 3 blood pressure meds, have sleep apnea, high cholesterol. My father had a stroke at 55. My chest CT showed starting coronary artery disease. My weight is really effecting my health. I hate how I look. I wear vests or sweaters over my dress shirts because I hate how my gut makes my shirts untuck and look sloppy. I have 4 sweet children. The love how I cook and always say we should open a restaurant called “Big Fat Daddies”. They are being sweet but I hate being seen as Big Fat Daddy. My weight had always been a issue but until the last 7-8 years I’ve kept it somewhat in check. I stayed right at the top of my “height weight” band in the Navy and passed all my physical fitness tests as a firefighter and paramedic. But over the last 8 years things have gotten out of control. But now that this is real and Surgery is Mon morning I’m having second thoughts. Maybe I can stay on my “pre op” plan for another 60-80 pounds. Maybe I can keep it off this time. Of course as soon as I left my surgeon I went out for lunch and had a Mac and Cheese and a cupcake for desert. I’m nauseous and ashamed of my weakness. But I’m afraid of parting ways with the lifestyle of indulgence that I enjoy despite how sick it’s making me and limiting my ability to enjoy life. I’m sorry this really is an emotional dump. I’m just really filled with conflicting emotions.

Shoot yeah I can see that. Hope it gets better.

LOL, that sounds good over here! Thanks everyone!!

Thanks for the thoughts- my food relationship definitely must change. I'm too young to have the medical complications I do. My wife has been sending me posts and questions about VSG. I think she is starting to play around with the idea it. But I'd never even bring it up as a suggestion. It has to be completely her journey with me walking beside her, never behind pushing. Maybe at this stage I'm looking for reasons to worry.

I'm glad things were better, Have you tried the clear Premier Protein, maybe that thickness in shakes is hard? Be Well!!

Hi All Ive been lurking a while but afraid to jump in. I have a surgery date 5/21 at Orange Coast Hospital with Dr Oliak, in SoCal. Sill in my pre-op diet, I've lost 10 lbs have 7 more to go. As we get closer, I'm starting to stress out a little. I'm still very motivated. Im 40 with high blood pressure and sleep apnea. I've tried every diet out there and my weight has continued to go up. And the non scale failure that pushed me over the edge- I was working out with my daughter, weightlifting and I my belly was too big to deadlift, I was so embarrassed. There are 2 things that worry me: 1. I'm afraid that I won't be happy not being able eat as much as I do. I'm a huge foodie, and so much of my families adventures are food related. 2. My wife. She is super supportive, but I still worry. I am keeping this private from most people. My wife has the same BMI as I do, around 40. I'm worried as people notice my rapid weight loss and comment, that it will make her uncomfortable. You know, Eric is loosing weight what's your problem? We have talked about it and she says it wont be an issue. We have been married for almost 20 years and are solid but I worry. Anyway thanks for listening. Looking forward to connections and support. Any questions please ask.

5/21, staring to get nervous.