dreamingofasleeve

My only regret is I didn't do this years ago!
I'm 5 1/2 months post op and down 75 lbs. Although this journey may not be easy. For me this has been the easiest and fastest weight I have ever lost.
I still have 30 lbs to lose, but I already feel and look fantastic (in clothes at least). I knew before I had WLS I would want plastics. So I'm ok with the saggy skin for now, because as soon as I get to goal, I'll get it taken care of.

I totally understand your reservations. And I agree, there isn't enough discussion on the negative side of WLS. I had the sleeve surgery May 7, 2018 and for the first 6 weeks or so I regretted it. I didn't have any complications. My problem was it hurt so bad to eat anything or drink fluids for much longer than I anticipated. I got depressed and felt like I had made a horrible mistake. I couldn't tolerate the Protein Shakes or anything with artificial sweeteners. I wasn't able to get enough fluids in and the chewable vitamins made me nauseous. It was rough for a while. Plus, I also had this totally unreasonable anger that I couldn't eat what I wanted to anymore. I was grieving my "breakup" with food and it was hard. At 8 weeks post-op, I finally turned a corner. I could finally eat solid food and my stomach didn't cramp at every bite. I was able to swallow whole Vitamins instead of having to use chewables. And I finally got some energy back and felt like exercising. All of this made a HUGE difference. I'm so happy I chose to have the surgery. I've lost almost 50 pounds and feel so much better. My advice is to understand that the healing process is hard even if you don't have any complications but to remember that it won't feel like that forever. This site helped me tremendously. Good luck to you and I hope you realize all your goals!

Honestly, even those of us with unforseen complications would still do it again in a heartbeat.

Yes!
And remember, this is just as much of a mental effort as a physical one. In fact, I would say the mental part affects your success more than the physical part. I used food as a reward system, a coping mechanism, and it was a huge part of my social and family life. I didn't realize just how much I depended on food for various things until I no longer was able to do it. It's HARD but so worth it.

We're all very different. For me, yes, it is absolutely worth it. I have been dieting since I was about 12. I'm 59 now. If I were ever going to be successful at maintaining weight loss, I would have known it by now. (I can lose weight fine, I just regain). It's already tough to get older, and hauling around 3 large sacks of dog food on my back was making everything worse. I was fortunate that I did not have co-morbidities, but it was just a matter of time, imho. I'm down 75 lbs. in 5 months. I've never lost more than 40 at any one attempt before. But, don't be fooled. It is hard. The surgery helps, but it takes real commitment from you to make it work.

@dreamingofasleeve
From what I read, it is normal to have some reservations and fear pre-op. In the weeks leading up to my surgery, I know I was certainly questioning myself every step of the way, even up to the surgery itself. As they were strapping me to the operating table, I was crying. And, just like Matt, I can say that I'm glad I did it now. That was not always the case.
I went through a similar experience as Matt with Lap Band, but I had my band out long ago and lived without my tool for about 8 years before realizing that I needed help. Since I got sleeved, I've gone through what I call a food "mourning" period where I think about what I've done and what the ramifications are to my relationship with food. There was a certain pleasure in eating and for me, it was linked to socialization and love. I have had to come to grips with that and change. I think I will always struggle with it, a little bit.
Today, food is fuel. Yes, I still derive a certain amount of pleasure in it, but I don't eat for pleasure. Today, I eat to live. I don't live to eat.
My advice to you is to do a little bit of soul searching. Bariatric surgery of any kind is not the end all/be all. YOU need to examine how much you are willing to adapt and change in order to reach your goals. Any weight loss surgery is a tool, a powerful one, but a tool just the same. Good luck!

I am very happy that I had surgery! My recovery was easy compared to other surgeries I have had! I am losing weight and feel better than I have in years!

I'm 9 months post op, immaculate recovery, for me it was worth it but I had no complications. My motivation also was not looks. So every additional benefit was like icing in the cake. Health once lost or gained (regained) can change your life like you've never imagined.

Got my sleeve three years ago. Still carrying extra weight, but its in very flattering places, and I feel sexy in clothes.
Out of clothes, my body is a damn mess. I have to wear a body shaper to contain the sagging skin, and no amount of toning/compression garments/non-surgical intervention can fix the amount of skin hanging from my arms, stomach, thighs, and I'm even getting a turkey neck. My facial skin is a little loose. It's rough.

That being said, it was still the best decision I ever made. It's gonna suck saving up for plastics while I shed these last 30 lbs. Post-weight loss skin/body issues are the luxury tax we paid for treating our bodies like trash for so many years. I have collarbones. I can ride rollercoasters. I no longer look at tiny cafe chairs, bathroom stalls and airlines seats going OH GOD WILL I FIT. Like suddenly, you *fit* into the world.

10000000% worth it. Five years out from the sleeve. Maintaining well. I had a relatively easy recovery. There are some things I still can’t eat as they don’t sit well, but they are mostly things I don’t need to be eating anyway like rice, bread and carbonation.

Do realize that most people don’t get “thin.” Most people lose about 60-75% of their excess weight. So if your ideal weight is 135-165 and you weigh 265 you have 100lbs of excess weight. If you lose 60% of that that’s 60lbs so the odds are you would end up weighing 205.

You can definitely work and lose more, but statistically that’s what happens.

Overall, I'm happy. Was that always the case, nope.

I was banded back in 2011. I went with the band because I was afraid of the permanence of the bypass (the sleeve wasn't an option at this time for whatever reason, but I guess that's a good thing since it would have really sucked with the acid reflux) I lost 70 lbs or so, gained and lost floating around 300-310 for years. I got stuck on stuff often, and healthy stuff, hurt to eat. Leafy greens were physically painful.

I felt like a failure, I wasn't happy, I was quite depressed, no matter what I did, nothing worked. I stopped checking in with my surgeon, for years.

I finally dragged myself back to my surgeon to talk about my options... I confessed to being a failure and requested help. I was shocked to find out that, my situation was pretty common, that the band was over-hyped and under-performed on the whole. We discussed options and we decided to go with the bypass. 8 months or so later, after jumping through tons of insurance hoops I had my revision surgery on the 21st of March, 2018. The lapband was 100% encapsulated in scar tissue and took the team over 3 times longer to remove than it should have, very glad to have that thing out of me.

Today, I hit 239.9. I haven't been this low in well over a decade. I just wish I had done the bypass first, instead of letting fear sway me from the better choice.

Completely thrilled with mine. Easy recovery (thankfully) and no food issues . I love the confidence and general feeling of NOT worrying about what I look like, how I sit, what others see or how I feel (tired and sore).
It’s definitely hard work to rethink food relationship and emotions but for me, 1,000% worth it!

Good luck.

I am pre op and I feel like we often only see the good side of weight loss surgery.
I want to know... Was it worth it?
I want to be thin but I am scared if failure and side effects. Let me know! Whether your 6 months out or 5 years I want to hear!
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I am pre op and I feel like we often only see the good side of weight loss surgery.
I want to know... Was it worth it?
I want to be thin but I am scared if failure and side effects. Let me know! Whether your 6 months out or 5 years I want to hear!
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I am pre op and I feel like we often only see the good side of weight loss surgery.
I want to know... Was it worth it?
I want to be thin but I am scared if failure and side effects. Let me know! Whether your 6 months out or 5 years I want to hear!
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That's outstanding news...onward and upward

I'm a paramedic...literally ANYTHING could cause an abnormal EKG. If they didn't jump on it within a day or two it probably isn't anything serious. The cardiologist will probably just re-do the EKG to his standards (skin prep/lead placement, etc) and send you on your way. If you tend to get nervous or are a big caffeine drinker, you could have some benign irregular beats...he'll say-cut the caffeine. :-)
Hope everything is A-Okay! Try not to fret too much...but it is scarey to be told your heart's abnormal and have no idea why. Keep us posted.

Yay, so glad it will all work out!!

My EKG was abnormal too. I am another obese person with bradycardia. My resting heart rate dropped to 40 when I started the pre-op diet. It hasn't gone up much since then. my heart rate used to go to 140 when walking briskly, but now I can be out of breath and it is at 125. I guess my body thinks it is starving and is trying to hold on to the fat. This is part of the reason I upped my calories to the 1000-1200 range.

I know it must be so frustrating to wait this long. Funny thing is my insurance had NO supervised diet requirement, but my doctor made me do it anyway. I had goals, milestones to meet and they were huge! But I did it. Before surgery even happened I was so proud of myself. I had to start eating in a way that I would be eating after surgery. It was hard, sometimes I starved myself so I could eat something really bad for me and not have it show in my progress. Looking back, I was struggling with some really huge food demons, but I'm so glad I had punched them all out before surgery. There was no mourning for sugar, no craving for fat garbage, no crying for cake, just a focus on getting better, and eating better and the sleeve helped me take that last huge step which is "true" change. I'm so sorry I just threw all this at you, I guess I wanted to console you for having to wait and try not to waste the waiting period. I bought these cute little pyrex glass condiment bowls before surgery. They hold a measured cup. It will be a very long time before you can ever eat more than what fits in one of these little bowls. In fact, you probably won't be able to eat much more than half. I started eating from these for nearly all things I ate and still do to this day. Probably will forever lol. I ramble on so much! I can't wait to hear more from you though and see you reach your day and all the days after.

Thanks for the update. So glad everything was ok. Good luck on your journey. The sleeve was the best thing I ever did for myself. You will do great!

Glad everything worked out...

Oh yay! I'm so glad for you. Usually the cardiac clearance is the last step. You must be getting very close to securing a date!

Well guys, the cardiologist did an ekg and said i do have a variant in my heart rhythm but it is completely normal especially for younger people (im 27).
Because i haven't had any symptoms or anything she didn't require any other testing and said i was fine!

Wishing you the best tomorrow. Let us know how you made out. I'm sure it's probably nothing but I know how you feel. I'm a worst scenario person too