Definitely not alone. I started this process in July 2017. I went to an information session. Then got a referral to the surgeon., attended healthy plate classes, saw a nutritionist for 4 months, went to a trainer 2 months ( still going), Saw a psychologist 5 visits (will go back after surgery). I also had to write a letter of all the diets I tried and why I want surgery. My paperwork was finally submitted on Thursday. I'm glad I went through all of this because I have learned so much. Now I'm praying insurance approves my surgery. It is scheduled for April 5th.