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chrisssssy

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  1. I have felt the same way as you and then I figured this, they know when a person is doing this for all the right reasons and I know that I am! If you are confident with your decision and you have done your research, you are going to be fine! Relax!! Let me know how it goes for you and what they ask, I am curious!! good luck!! Chris


  2. I totally disagree with elisa too.

    My daughters are 9 years and 18 months old so obviously the baby doesnt have a clue, but 9 year old sure does. I think being honest is the only way to go. I dont even have my initial visit until June 4th, but we have already talked about it. I think that if it is something you can talk to them openly and honestly about it makes it easier and I think for us it will be months that she knows about it so it wont be something new and scary to her. I just told her that Mommy has tried tons of diets and nothing seems to work to make me healthy so I am going to have this procedure done to help me lose the weight! I want to stress to her that it is to make me healthy and just not to be thin. (Even though it is part of it for me) I dont want her to get obsessed with weight loss this young in life and I dont want her to have self esteem issues like always have. So hopefully if I talk to her about the health side of it she wont see it as I have to be "skinny" to feel good about myself!

    I am sure it this something that you have been thinking about for awhile I bet your kids know more than you think! They are smart little cookies!

    You know your kids better than anyone and you know in your heart what they need to know and how they will react to the situation! My advice to you is do what you think is best for them and yourself!! My situation may be completely different than yours, ya know?? So advice is good to get, but the decision is yours!! I hope this helped somewhat!!

    Best of luck to you and I hope it goes well for you! Also good luck with your surgery! : )


  3. I have done so much soul searching about this whole journey and I have decided that I could compare the lapband to "clipnotes" from high school. To me it is just like that, you still have to do the work, but it makes the journey a little less difficult for you. I guess I am showing my age with the cliff notes LOL. I see lapband as a gate to my freedom from being fat! I am so ready to open the door to a happy, healthy life!! I dont have a date yet, but I just cant wait! I am ready to start living and quit just "existing"!!


  4. I want my health back, I want happiness, I want to feel a sense of accomplishment.....I am one to start something but never finish it! I see the band as a tool to make my dreams come true. I know I have to do the work, but it is going to make it a little easier for me! I want to wear a sleeveless shirt and tuck my shirt in! It is the small things that are going to mean the most to me!


  5. Hello!!

    I have made the decision to have the lap band done! I cant get in until June 4th for my consult, but it is worth the wait! I have struggled with this decision for about 6 years! I went back and forth with lap band and GBP. After serious research and serious soul searching I know that lap band is for me! I would love to meet others going through this process, people that have had it done, ect! I love personal stories, they are motivating and very informative! I am Chris I am 33 years old and the mother to 2 beautiful little girls, 9 years old and 16 months old! My husband is great and very supportive too! I would to hear from going through this too..........cthomas44420@sbcglobal.net

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