BrittneyH

haha thank you! You are totally right. I actually have found a boyfriend who is super understanding of the surgery and effects. He just says I am not allowed to loose my ass. He doesn't care if my boobs deflate haha. He is overweight too and I just him just the way he is!

yes. I burp all the time. It helps.

Does anyone else have this? When I eat too heavy of food that my stomach doesn't like I start spitting up sticky clear liquid like phlegm. I just spit it into a tissue but never actually throw up the food. I am 3 weeks post surgery. Anybody know what this is or why my body does this?

I am so glad someone posted about this now. I had sex recently and I know I have had bigger but holy wow I was tight! I am only 3 weeks out. I do not understand but I am not unhappy about it one bit!!

thank you! that is so true.

That is great advise! Yes I guess it is ok if they only like skinny girls. I am normally attracted to skinny guys too so I can't be mad about that. I do know I deserve an amazing man. I guess maybe I will have more options.

Mine is a brat. She also follows me around but more often bites me then cuddles. haha

That cat is gorgeous! Now I want to cuddle.

I get hit on online easily but rarely if ever in person. Maybe I don't notice. IDK. I am hoping when I loose the weight I will at least notice it... because I know I am not ugly.

I have always liked skinny guys but don't mind some meat either. I didn't think about if my taste will change! I can't imagine it would. I hope my confidence will tho! Right now I just assume I am a certain type, like I will only look good with guys my size.

Maybe I am worried that the men who will like me are dirt bags who only like skinny girls. At least now I am not concerned because I know they don't mine extra weight on me.

My surgery was on 2/12. I have been taking time off from dating to focus on myself. I think it would be better to wait until I'm at least at my goal weight. I am concerned what kind of guys will be into me when I am skinny though. I haven't ever been small. The men who usually hit on me say they like curvy women... what if they don't like me when I am 148 lbs.

haha this is funny. I have 1 cat. Her name is Charlotte. I much prefer men who like cats then dogs. Cats are feisty and independent but love to cuddle. Like me!

Every time I eat something I have to unhook my bra or hold up my boobs to allow the food to pass through my esophagus to my stomach. I wish I could go braless but they don't look good just laying there when I am in public. I tried a bralette but that is too much fabric around my upper waist also. I need a better solution!