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1badassbiggurl

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  3. Posted

    I’m officially six months post op (RNY 11/7/17) and couldn’t be happier with my decision to have weight loss surgery. It’s been an uphill battle with finding new meals and keeping up with diet and exercise but this new tool that I’ve been blessed with has made it a lot easier and I’m confident that I will go on to reach my goals.IMG_0718.JPG Image1525801351.927845.jpg

    HW 356

    SW 321

    CW 221

    GW 170

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  4. Posted

    I’m nine months post-op tomorrow. Someone called me “tiny” today. First time I’ve been called that in a non-ironic way! Very strange to hear and difficult to comprehend.




    I know right ...a few of my family members have called me skinny. I told them they are not allowed to call me skinny, because technically, even if I get to my goal weight of 170 I would still be classified as overweight [emoji23]



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  5. Posted

    I stalled for about three weeks. At first I didn’t care much because I’ve been told and from reading different post here, that there will be stalls. But, I’m happy to report that after five days of eating leaner and four consecutive days at the gym ...I got that scale moving again & was down four lbs this morning!



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  6. Posted

    My brothers wanted to see my loose belly and arm skin over Easter...to tease me about it. We're in our 40's/50's. My family has a very twisted self deprecating sense of humor, and a couple of them work in health care. (and yes, I showed them...just to make them flee in horror..lol) Have to say though, one of them said....that's not too bad! And told me I didn't need plastic surgery. Which I took as an extremely odd.....could only happen in my family....compliment.

    [emoji23][emoji23][emoji23]



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  7. Posted

    Dear Lord, hold me!!!! You are so freaking beautiful!! What an incredible transformation!!!! [emoji4] [emoji4] [emoji4] Look at you and your adorable self! I can't believe such quick results girl!!!! Are you so proud???

    I am [emoji41] but I am more pleased with the new opportunities that have opened up to me. People who are thin or even ppl who are just a little overweight, can’t really begin to understand what it’s like being obese living in todays society. I have had countless doors closed to me and missed opportunities because of my weight. Now, I feel unstoppable!



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  8. Posted

    Reading all the replies have made me feel good about any option I choose! Going to talk it over with my husband. He feels like I shouldn’t blurt it out to friends/family but if someone asks me, then tell them. and I feel better about that option.



    That’s what I do now. I don’t want to lie for two reasons (1) I’m a bad liar (2) there maybe someone who was like me, struggling with their weight and pondering having the surgery, and I would gladly answer any of their questions.

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  10. Posted

    Hi there,
    So I have told a few friends and some family, but absolutely refuse to tell work. I work as an EA and support super fit athletic men... yep. Not saying a word.


    I only told my husband, and one of my closest friends. My family is filled with some strong personalities that definitely don’t mind letting you know what’s on their minds [emoji23]. So, I chose to keep my parents, sisters, four daughters and other friends in the dark (like, if I could have gotten away with it I wouldn’t have told my husband [emoji23]). But anyways, it took me some months but I wrote letters to my parents, sisters and daughters that I sent them, via text, the day of my surgery just as the wheeled me into the OR. I know some people may not agree but it was the best thing for me. Luckily, when I woke up from surgery they were all there supporting me [emoji7]



  12. Posted

    For those with spouses, I think it's fun to do the Lady n' the Tramp thing and just order a starter, then the meal. That way you can have a bite or two of an app and a bite or four off his/her plate. Then the spouse still has buttwads left of dinner and you're satisfied. I loved sharesies pre-op, and I'm so looking forward to going out and only having the expense of one person plus iced tea for moi! ROFLMAO!!!
    But. LOVE the card. Will try to remember to ask my doc tomorrow!!!

    That is exactly what me and hubby do! Hey Fluffy [emoji8]



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  15. Posted

    Hi guys! I’m 2 months and one week post op (meant to post last week). Life is still good I’m trying to get used to my now slightly smaller frame [emoji23]. My husband looked at me the other day and said, “you can’t see you’re smaller; because I watch you and you still move like you’re 300lbs and you’re not”. I still have a big girl mind set; it really takes some time to adjust to the change in your body.

    As for the my diet. I pretty much can eat whatever. I stay away from carbs as best I can. My diet mainly consist of meats and veggies and I try to keep my calorie count under 600/day for now. I recently started back at the gym and it feels good to be back. I’m excited for the new changes in my body that will come about. I’m still overly concerned with excess skin. But I’ve decided I’d much rather deal with excess skin and be able to fit in an airplane seat, than be 350lbs struggling to get out of bed each morning.

    Lemon Water has become my new best friend, and not that stuff you buy at the grocery store either. I’m talking about freshly squeezed lemon juice raw and unfiltered. Get you some! The benefits are incomparable, but more importantly it helps with Constipation.

    HW - 356
    SW - 321
    CW - 256
    GW - 180



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  19. Posted

    Update: Hi guys [emoji1480] ..it’s my almost 5 week post op update!

    Tomorrow will be week 5 post op and so far so good! I’m tolerating foods well, still fighting to get 60oz of Water in, but I’m getting better & stronger each day! Still wearing my support garments, if i get dressed and forget them i feel funny without them! Yes, they are a pain to put on but i feel so much better with them on. I’m excited to get back in the gym next week doc said i can resume workouts after week 6. The weight continues to fall off slowly but i think slow is good since faster weight loss sometimes leads to more excess skin. Anyone have any good recipes they want to share for the holidays? Are you guys finished shopping? How’d our late RNY buddies do? We need updates!!!!!



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  20. Posted

    Can I just confess to y'all?
    I'm so thrilled for each one of you and proud of your losses and how you're healing!!! ((hugs))
    Every time someone announces they are approved or have a date, I get this knot in my throat/chest as I'm happy for them. I also am a little green with envy. This was also supposed to be MY time. You know? Now I'm in limbo again for the next 3 months wondering if my insurance is going to find a way to exclude me from surgery. So instead of the holidays being laid back and easy...I'm sad and stressed. I know time is what we make of it. I'm just having trouble the last couple of weeks processing the disappointment and choosing to have a positive outlook. I know I'll get there...it just sucks while you're processing.
    There...they say confession is good for the soul?

    I know it can be very discouraging and depressing and i pray that everything goes well so you’re not delayed anymore! But can i just say that i for one love having you here!!! You’re so positive, upbeat, encouraging and kind to everyone, and i just can’t wait until it’s your turn and we can return the favor. Please keep your head up and hang in there! [emoji8]



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  24. Posted




    Of course we're going to check on you! My holiday was boring, didn't do any shopping, very quiet. And I've been looking at the support garments on Amazon. Guess I should order one before I ever get a date, lol. Glad you are doing well and that the holiday went smoothly [emoji4]

    Yeah, I was just on Amazon yesterday with my GF who also had WLS back in July. The prices seem reasonable I’m going to go back on today!



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  25. Posted

    You should be very proud of yourself. Also, do what I’ve promised to do which is continue to post here. It will keep us accountable. I haven’t had my procedure done yet but it will likely be late January or early February. I have made a promise to myself that I don’t want the weight to come back once I lose it hopefully 🤞🏻🤞🏻I think if we post on this forum we can support each other and help each other get through the difficult times. I’ll be happy to annoy you nonstop 🤣🤣to make sure I hear from you at least once a week. Can you promise to do the same for me please?[emoji120]

    Absolutely! 🤞🏾



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