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willowwaters

Gastric Bypass Patients
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    willowwaters reacted to Creekimp13 in 6 months post op and pain levels   
    These are great questions for your doctor. You could also phone a medical marijuana dispensary.
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    willowwaters got a reaction from Yo-yo girl in 6 months post op and pain levels   
    First and foremost let me make it clear in my state this will be legal. My doctor wants to put me on marijuana. I have been on narcotics for the past 10 years and my pain levels are increasing. Due to a new state guidelines they want to take away the meds. My doctor feel to be a good candidate for medical marijuana. My question is how do I intake it if I can't smoke it correctly would it lose part of its potency or its effect if I ingest it instead. I need some thoughts please and thank you
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    willowwaters got a reaction from ladyde in 3 day post op second guessing my decision   
    What you're feeling is probably gas pain. I had such a horrible time in the hospital when I try to lay back down I couldn't because it hurts so much more. So I got up and started walking and walking and walking. For the first few days it was so hard to get Water down.. I would talk to your doctor and see if you can take something to help you sleep... and possibly something to calm your stomach....

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    willowwaters got a reaction from FluffyChix in 3 months post op...... My mind and soul are turning to mush   
    I have just hit 3 months post-op. Yes I'm still losing weight but I feel like it's still a very slow process. I don't understand why sometimes I eat one or two bites and I'm so full and other times I feel like I don't get full even after eating almost a cup of food. Lots of new changes just happened to start at the time of my operation. My son started acting out at school, I had my oldest move back in with her significant other and the baby. They've been in the doctor's office so many times. I lost my father-in-law to cancer. I also started a full-time job sitting all day in a field like I've never done before so my stress of those little higher from that as well. Holy s*** this whole process is truly life changing for me. The only thing that is the same as before as my shoe size.
    Right now I don't know if I have buyer's remorse or I should have waited a bit longer to get this done. I know this is supposed to be life-changing. But it seems like my life is turning so many different Corners right now I don't know which way to go.
    I am currently lost looking for my way the new me.... apparently what I had in mind was not what the universe had in mind. So now I'm completely lost I'm where the hell I should be. I've only lost 34 pounds since my surgery I thought that number would be a little bit higher. I was expecting one to two pound still a week right now. Yes overall I am halfway to my goal.... I am just not so sure on what I'm doing wrong. Is it normal to feel like the whole world is overwhelming and your going batshit crazy.... I don't feel like I'm depressed right now I just feel very tired... My soul is in need of some good mojo..... I still feel like I'm missing a piece to this puzzle. ....
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    willowwaters got a reaction from shelby76 in Am i failing ALREADY!!!???   
    I am trying.... I am a counting down the minutes... my HAAARRRDDD part right now is I need to drink about 1.6 ounces of Water every 15 minutes to get enough in for hydration (up about 630 bed about 1030..... 3 meals a day = 2 hoursish around meal time I cant drink)... my pouch cant handle that yet.... and food was I am oka... I still don't want food a lot I am around 400 to 600 calories a day, with out Protein Shakes, with Protein shakes its about 160 calories more.
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    willowwaters got a reaction from shelby76 in Am i failing ALREADY!!!???   
    I am trying.... I am a counting down the minutes... my HAAARRRDDD part right now is I need to drink about 1.6 ounces of Water every 15 minutes to get enough in for hydration (up about 630 bed about 1030..... 3 meals a day = 2 hoursish around meal time I cant drink)... my pouch cant handle that yet.... and food was I am oka... I still don't want food a lot I am around 400 to 600 calories a day, with out Protein Shakes, with Protein shakes its about 160 calories more.
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    willowwaters got a reaction from SGirl35 in Am i failing ALREADY!!!???   
    Today marks day 31 after my operation..... Starting weight was 265, day of operation 240, go home weight was 246.... today I am 222.... is that normal???? I do understand everyone is different.... but the first few weeks I was dropping over a pound a day..... now I am looking at only 2 pounds a week..... which "normal people" loose when dieting and exercising the right way.... getting frustrated and discouraged quick.... I was sooooo hoping to be at a 30 pound loss by my first post op appointment. putting me at 210.... I am not even close!
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    willowwaters got a reaction from Biddy zz 🏳️🌈 in 19 days out   
    I have not been on here since before my operation. Today is day 19, I think I am doing oka, the weight loss has slowed down a lot. my heaviest was 265 (my first weigh in), the day of my operation I was 240, today I am 227. I have not dumped, taking everything slowly... getting excited I get to eat food I can chew tomorrow!!! It is kinda strange, some of my friends that have had the operation said they would be there for me and I have not heard a word from them.... yet my best friend, who was against my operation from the start, spent 15 hours with me the day of my operation, and has called me every day, and text me to. so now my goal is to wake up my digestive track, I feel like I am backed up still..... I know I am only "eating" about 3/4 of a cup of food a day but I think by now I should be able to go, with out "help"
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    willowwaters got a reaction from shedo82773 in Hot dang less then 20 hours!   
    I did take a picture in the work bathroom Mirror today... the down side is I am quitting this job Today!!!! So I guess I need to re-do the picture. Thanks you for the advice on clothing..... I will have to rethink my shirt choices! I will try and also to my measurements... My goal is one-derland for my son's 9th birthday. Adoring to the charts I should make it perfectly! Today as my finial prep day I am looking at food on pintreast...... BUT.... I think I got this!! Thank you for the tips!!
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    willowwaters reacted to shedo82773 in Hot dang less then 20 hours!   
    I would suggest that you also measure yourself. Even when you aren't losing you will lose inches!! For your before/after picture take it in a doorway it seems to help with something visually. A door gives you a guideline to measure with!! Also, try to get slippers that have grips because hospital floors can be slippery. Take something that zips or has buttons because you will be sore and you won't like raising your arms over your head. And LAST CONGRATULATIONS!!! You are starting a great new JOURNEY!!!! Keep us in the know!!
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    willowwaters reacted to James Marusek in Hot dang less then 20 hours!   
    Have you taken a good before photograph of yourself, so that you have something to compare to after surgery? Many times we are blind to our obesity. We do not see ourselves. Therefore when the weight begins to drop off rather dramatically, we question if this is really happening. Photographs are a good visualization of our success. Many people carry a before and after photo with them, just to remind themselves of their success.
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    willowwaters got a reaction from confusedturtle3 in Lost 40 pounds in two weeks   
    Can I say you are damn hot!!! you are beautiful creature of the earth and you can tell from your eyes the beauty is truly on the inside to!!! Congratulations and Happy birthday!
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    willowwaters got a reaction from confusedturtle3 in Lost 40 pounds in two weeks   
    Can I say you are damn hot!!! you are beautiful creature of the earth and you can tell from your eyes the beauty is truly on the inside to!!! Congratulations and Happy birthday!
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    willowwaters got a reaction from Rainbow_Warrior in I'm hiding my surgery from family anyone else ?   
    Yes, I am in a way. I am telling them I have another Fibroma removed. Less questions, and believable. I juat don't need their judgmental ways!
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    willowwaters got a reaction from confusedturtle3 in Lost 40 pounds in two weeks   
    Can I say you are damn hot!!! you are beautiful creature of the earth and you can tell from your eyes the beauty is truly on the inside to!!! Congratulations and Happy birthday!
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    willowwaters got a reaction from pfisher in Calling all October sleevers!!   
    Yes October 23

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    willowwaters got a reaction from confusedturtle3 in Lost 40 pounds in two weeks   
    Can I say you are damn hot!!! you are beautiful creature of the earth and you can tell from your eyes the beauty is truly on the inside to!!! Congratulations and Happy birthday!
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    willowwaters got a reaction from sassy683 in 30 days!   
    it is now down to 30 days!! I hope 3rd time is a charm, I started this journey 5 years ago... Its almost "to true".... a bit of anxiety is setting in now. I am down to my upper GI, blood work, Nutritional class and finial clearance from my primary. My phyc exam went better then I expected. I was soooo worried they were going to yell stuff like "why did you eat that pizza? " "did you really need that candy bar?'

    It was pretty laid back. They wanted to see where I was mentally in this change. I do not know exactly what I said "right" but they told me I got an A+.... I was very on the fence with a few of their questions. Like how am I going to do with food after my operation. my answer was honest "I don't know" .... I told them I was going to take it slow, that my body is by far NOT normal. I would take everything a moment at a time. Apparently me being uncertain was the "correct answer" cause they gave me the green button!
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    willowwaters reacted to chynadoll619 in Lost 40 pounds in two weeks   
    50 all together counting pre op diet, my doc was shocked.. I am to yesterday was my birthday.. And my weight loss was my greatest gift!!.. I sent this pic to my mom she was so shocker my face has slimmed down alot!!/& I have a neck now lol happy
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    willowwaters reacted to confusedturtle3 in 33 days!   
    I was surprised by the upper GI, so gross! I need to have it done one more time just before surgery because I have a hiatal hernia, not looking forward to it



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    willowwaters got a reaction from pfisher in Calling all October sleevers!!   
    Yes October 23

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    willowwaters got a reaction from AmandaC86 in stupid people   
    I have done my research...... and I am not talking a day or two, I am talking years.... 5....5 years. I am shell fish free, a celiac, dairy intolerant, and now soy. I have been grow tumors since I was I very little. This operation, is many ways, may be the only way I can try and live a more normal life. I have asked so many questions, and continue to ask questions, because I know, "not every one is the same" ..... but why is my counselor trying to almost talk me out of it. she keep throwing all the worst cast in my face, and then all she try to trip me up by asking questions to me like she does not know the answer already. DAMN if I wanted people to debate me with my choice to try and get healthier I would tell people who sell plans like 21 day fix...... Why is it so hard for people to past judgment on me cause I am over weight, and not as healthy as I want..... but as soon as I through in the towel, cause ever diet, exercise, and life style goal have not worked enough they get mad again. Now that I have gone to the point where I am going to change my digestive patterns to add in my ability to lose the fat, they are screaming about that. over and done with people not being happy for me! its not like my weight problem is effecting them!
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    willowwaters got a reaction from sleevemebabyy in October Sleever Preparing for pre op diet   
    my pre-op diet should be starting in about a month. I have already bought some shakes. I have found there is one a "the dollar Tree" that I am allowed its called "protein Boost" it a mix berry flavor. its 45 calories, no sugar, and 10 grams of Protein in a 3 ounce serving. its made with a Hydomaxx protein Blend. its also gluten, lactose, and soy free. I am not sure if it will help you much, but its no to bad tasting.
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    willowwaters got a reaction from AmandaC86 in stupid people   
    I have done my research...... and I am not talking a day or two, I am talking years.... 5....5 years. I am shell fish free, a celiac, dairy intolerant, and now soy. I have been grow tumors since I was I very little. This operation, is many ways, may be the only way I can try and live a more normal life. I have asked so many questions, and continue to ask questions, because I know, "not every one is the same" ..... but why is my counselor trying to almost talk me out of it. she keep throwing all the worst cast in my face, and then all she try to trip me up by asking questions to me like she does not know the answer already. DAMN if I wanted people to debate me with my choice to try and get healthier I would tell people who sell plans like 21 day fix...... Why is it so hard for people to past judgment on me cause I am over weight, and not as healthy as I want..... but as soon as I through in the towel, cause ever diet, exercise, and life style goal have not worked enough they get mad again. Now that I have gone to the point where I am going to change my digestive patterns to add in my ability to lose the fat, they are screaming about that. over and done with people not being happy for me! its not like my weight problem is effecting them!
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    willowwaters got a reaction from Apple203 in stupid people   
    Its all just over whelming. I know I have tried and tried to beat the scale at it own game. Now I can't "work out", but I can walk .....so I walk every chance I get. even If its only for a hundred yard or so. I count my calories. I keep a food journal, and with the exception of my crystal light consumption (now mind you and most that's 50 calories a day), I don't lie about anything. I own it! She has told me the negative effects weight loss procedures has had on her loved ones. But I know the risks. I know I have to be on point the first few months for sure. I need to be there for my son, otherwise I won't live to see 40

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