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I'm going to be blunt because I don't feel like anyone is really adressing what's going on here.

Grow up or walk away. You're selfish and immature.
I think you hit the real issue with the sentence "I'm scared he will change and I won't like the new him. " and then proceeded to cover it up in concerns for him being in pain and struggling. I'm sure you don't want to see him in pain or struggling, but let's call this what it is. What you're really afraid of is that he will change and won't like the same old you. If you can't get over that or work on that ASAP, then you need to get out of this relationship and let him do what he needs to do because this is not about YOU. How dare you hold someone back from the possibility of a healither life because you "can't handle it" and are insecure.
In my opinion, marriage is the last thing you need if you can't cut to the chase and admit that you're not supportive because you want this to be about you.

On 10/12/2016 at 8:18 AM, shirleyjohn001 said:

My one year anniversary was on August 12, 2017 and its so disappointing to see my hair loss. I am taking all my post op Vitamins and Biotin. But I have lost a lot and don't know what I can do to bring it back. So anybody with any suggestions please let me know cuz its devastating

Have you tried prenatal Vitamins?

I am having my surgery August 9th 2017.

Yay us August people.

4 hours ago, Padooh said:

I am here. I have no date yet, but was told yesterday that I most likely will be scheduled in August pending completion of the program and approval from insurance. I have to lose 3% to be eligible and go to monthly nutrition classes and a couple of surgeon meetings. I finally feel like I will have the missing tool to be able to lose this weight.

Did you have to take a mental eval? I am not required but I think I want one any way.

I am definitely nervous to go to him now in August. I have been light weight stalking his internet pages, trying to dig up every article/ procedure he has done. I know it won't effect the outcomes of my surgery but looking into his articles and you tube videos let me know that he's smart at least and his English is pretty darn good.

Try a heating pad

Mines is August 9th