I'm sorry you're going through that. It would help to know what reason the doctors who rejected you gave for their decision - I understand the original doctor said he/she wouldn't operate because of the right-sided pain, but I don't understand why the other doctors passed.
With the right-sided pain, have you had your gallbladder checked? That might be the source and something that should definitely be fixed.
Non-surgical options for pelvic floor problems include kegal exercises and sometimes even physical therapy. Did the doctors who rejected you as a surgical candidate give you referrals to any other type of provider? If not, I would suggest asking them for guidance.
With the rectocele, make sure you have a good bowel movement regimen so that you can avoid constipation/straining since that will just exacerbate the problem.
Again, sorry you're going through all this. It really sounds like you need to address the specific reasons the doctors gave you when they said no to surgery though.
