HookerSpouse

I think your code word should be something silly or something or some place that is special between you guys. This way when the code word is said, and when she thinks about the silly word or the special memory it will make her smile.

My apologies if the post was misleading.

This was just something she brought up. She knows her mood swings with the medications can be quite up there.

I of course will tell her I love Her every step of the way. And be supportive.

Thx for the tips and hope you are doing great with your recovery.

Charles

Hello all. My wife's surgery date is 3 days away. We have been talking about a code word for her for when/if she gets upset.

I can't tell her to calm down because that will only make it worst.

Any suggestions??

Thx

Charles

Appreciate your advice!!!

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Thank you all!! I am taking leave for a about a week to make sure I can have our lil one outta her hair. Also to help her in what she needs to do.

I would never tell her to suck it up. Lol. Only do that if I wanna get knocked out.

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Hooker is. Not spouse. Lol

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Nope. That's my last name

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I never thought about that aspect. I do realize it will be the same person. I have kept on seeing that her attitude would change after surgery.

With that said. What things can I do and say to get through those attitude changes.

Thanks for all the advice and eye opening perspectives.

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Thanks. It does help. My mother in law is coming down to help out as well. She was a nurse for years. So that will be a big help.

So just be real patient and organized for the most part?

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Hello all. My wife will be having a stomach sleeve done in the next couple months. Just looking to see what tips people have for me to make sure to help her out.

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