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Have a great trip and a wonderful time with your mom. I know you've been looking forward to this. I hope it turns out to be very relaxing and refreshing. See you when you get home. *hugs* :hippie: :flypig: :rainbow:

With all due respect, Mods... I wrote this before I had any knowledge of any previous threads being deleted, and my post was an apology and statement of regret that things went so badly. Yet, three of the four Mods here have posted on this thread, shaking a finger of warning at me. I ask each of you... why have you not posted these sentiments on the thread started by DeLarla, entitled "Old Disgruntled Failure Forum" in which she and Geezer Sue continue their mocking remarks about the deleted threads? Perhaps you missed their ongoing jabs at the people who were involved in those deleted threads. I sincerely hope that's the case. I choose to believe that your concerns about the rules of LBT and the protection of personal rights are extend to all members and not just a select few. With that in mind I hope this "oversight" will be remedied at once and that all members will be reminded of the rules and that all threads containing such disturbing posts be locked. Thank you.

Before I start this, I want it to be very clear that I am not looking for a fight, nor do I want anyone jumping in here turning this thread into an Us vs. Them thread. I want to say something to everyone that I feel is very important and I don't want it to be lost in stupid bickering. It was stated that I slapped someone around and planted vicious seeds on the chicken Sh*t thread. That is a strong accusation that I felt I needed to address. If the moderators wish to ban me for doing so, then so be it. I would hate to lose LBT, but I hate people thinking this way about me even more. I grow continually frustrated with being treated like I refuse to hear the truth about what one can encounter with the band. I grow equally frustrated with being accused of living in a land of rainbows, pink ponies, butterflies, and so on, simply because I see no reason to rain on people's parades all the time. Yes, the facts are there. Yes, the facts do contain a negative aspect, but I see no reason to constantly focus on them. When people do, it causes fear and upset in others that just isn't necessary. THAT attitude is what my response on the Chicken Sh*t thread was all about. That and that alone was what I addressed. I had no idea that anyone else was going to express such strong feelings about the user I addressed. In fact, there were quite a few of those people who posted that I'd never really talked to before. Those feelings were theirs, not mine, and obviously they needed to express them. It was not my intention to begin a war, or plant any seeds. I spoke out in frustration without thinking about what others would have to say in response. I just felt bad that this user felt it necessary to bring down a woman who was excited and hopeful about her weight loss journey. What happened after that had nothing to do with me. It was, in my opinion, people voicing their feelings about a user who has attacked, degraded, scared, and harassed others to the point of them not even wanting to post here at LBT. As I said in that thread... she spread enough of it around that some finally got on her. I do feel bad about the way the thread ended up going, and I did try at one point to step in and get people back on the topic. I even stated that if it couldn't get back on topic, it should be closed. I do not apologize to the user for my opinions about them, nor do I feel responsible for the way others responded to that thread. However, I do feel bad that I participated in the Sunshine Sisterhood thread with a direct slam at the user in question in the first thread. That was childish of me and I apologize for allowing myself to be caught up in it. I am proud of the women who were referred to as Sunshine Sisters, as named by the user in the Chicken Sh*t thread. They are caring, loving women who are always so ready to help a brother or sister stay on track. They are positive happy people who, in my opinion, are indeed rays of sunshine on LBT. I do know how easy it is to get caught up in these types of fights, but I think it's always more productive to avoid them. So I restate, that was not my intent to start any wars when I posted my opinion on the Chicken Sh*t thread. I know how upsetting that is to many people who come here and I'm sorry things went to the point of requiring intervention by the staff. Sincerely, Susan

Oh my gosh, Audrey! Your pictures took my breath away and made me cry. (Passes the tissues to DonnaB) I'm so sorry about your mom's passing. I can't imagine how hard that must be to face. I'm sure your mom is very proud of you and pleased at your fabulous accomplishment. I hope you don't mind my putting your pics up side by side. They are so inspirational.

dinner is at Johnny Carinos in Meridian. There's a shopping center on the east corner of Fairview and Eagle Rd. Old Navy and ShopKo are in there. Carino's faces Fairview and is in the same parking lot. If you are coming from the freeway and Eagle Rd, turn right onto Fairview and it's the second or third driveway on your right. You can't miss it, but if you get to WalMart, you've gone too far. Can't wait to see you and give you a big hug! I miss walking so much. LindaV and I walked every day for a solid week until she got banded and I got my grandson! hehe

Oh my goodness! Oh my goodness! I was so glad to see this post! I owe you an apology for not getting together to walk yet. I've been babysitting my 2 1/2 yr old grandson during the week and it's pretty much kept me off the computer and worn me out but good! But Kayla! I'm very happy to hear that you are back on track. I was really worried about you girl. *hugs* Come to the Idahobandsters dinner Tuesday night - and bring your hubby!

Reminder: Next Tues, May 23 Johnny Carino's 6:30pm Be there or be... somewhere else! For reservations, I know that Shackdog and most likely his wife will be there too.

You are blown to smithereens when your fun loving co-worker fills a whoopee cushion with nitroglycerin. Hm.. I always said that co-worker was a pain in the ass.

Hi Gayle! Welcome to LBT! You'll find an endless supply of friendship, support, and great information here, and I think you'll also find that the Texas bandsters are a wonderful bunch of people. Congrats on getting your band! I'm very happy that it was all smooth sailing for you! Keep us posted on your progress.

My Dr told me that until you get that first fill, your band is pretty much wide open and you'll be able to eat anything you want just like you did pre-band, but that doesn't mean you SHOULD. What did eating guidelines did your Dr give you? Those should be followed to help you get the most success from your band. Eating solid foods too early (especially large quantities of them) can slow the healing process of the stitches in your stomach by pulling on them as the stomach works to digest the food. It sounds like you don't have much swelling left, otherwise you could have had problems with that burger, such as PB'ing or putting a lot of pressure on the band, both of which could result in a slip. There is no way to tell if you've done any damage, but I would be very careful from here on out. Will you be getting a fill soon? If they do that under fluro, they will be able to see if your band is still properly placed. Take good care of yourself and your band. *hugs*

That would be great Mystjin. I'm sure Dody would LOVE to have a bandster sister nearby to share things with. I just got a PM from her and the plan is for her to be banded on the 5th, which isn't long after you!

Here are a couple of awesome threads that will be very helpful to anyone who is about to be banded. Click on the links to open them. Post-op Checklists - Things to have before surgery http://www.lapbandtalk.com/showthread.php?t=14814 LAPBAND Questions to ask!!!! http://www.lapbandtalk.com/showthread.php?t=15595

I know this may sound contrary to what you'd think would be logical, but I think you need to go get a slight unfill. Being so tight that you are constantly struggilng to eat good solid foods can lead to eating liquid calories and softer foods that are easier to get through the band. If you were able to eat fish and chicken, good solid protein, you would actually have the full feeling that helps fight that head hunger. My suggestions would be as follows: 1. Get enough of an unfil so you can live without PBs. 2. Make yourself go outside and walk a little bit each day. I don't know your circumstances or your physical abilities, but even if you can't walk far... walk as much as you can without pain. Getting your blood pumping and that fresh air in your lungs will help with the "depression" you're feeling. 3. Get rid of all foods in your house that are high in carbs, sugars, or flour. Sure, you can always just go out and get that stuff if you are that determined, but it does help when it's not at your fingertips, calling out to you from the kitchen. 4. Start your day with protein. Do you like cottage cheese? I have found that if I start my day with carbs, such as oatmeal or Fiber One cereal (although both are good for you) I will be eating like a fool all day. But, when I have 1/2 cup of low fat cottage cheese with 1/2 cup of canned peaches (light syrup) the rest of my day seems to be easily controlled. 5. Be aware of the foods that typically cause bandsters problems and avoid them. I was a dough freak before banding. My biggest fear was giving up my breads and pastas. I haven't had one bite of either since banding. I refuse to even try. I'm happy to believe that they will cause me pain. It's a enforced eating modification that I welcome. I had all the bread and pasta I wanted for the first 49 years of my life. I'm ready to give that up to have something I've never had - good health and a nice figure! It is very hard to get out of slumps, but very worth it when you can do the "simple" things that make such huge differences in your mental and physical states.

Mary, that is such a cute dress!! I don't think you're asking too much. Go for it, girl! :confused:

Ah ha! Thanks 3Loves :confused:

Leah, what's the SSS club you asked about. I haven't heard of it, but I'll be glad to help ya, if I can.

So I've been thinking about this problem and I wanted to ask. Those of you who are losing their hair... do you have thyroid problems? Are you taking meds for it? The reason I ask is, I'm on synthroid. Have been for years now. If I ever slack off and forget to take the synthroid for a period of time, my hair starts to fall out. So, I was wondering if perhaps our thyroid conditions are changing with our weight loss, which causes the hair loss. Since I was banded, I have been eating between 70 and 100 grams of Protein per day (meat and dairy products, no suppliments) and I've been taking Multivitamins, Calcium, Vitamins E and C, every day. My weight loss has been fast, but not drastic. So I'm thinking about having my thyroid levels tested to see if things have changed. *shrugs* Just a thought.

Telly - I knew you weren't trying to insult the handicapped. You were trying to point out the stupidity of fighting on the net. And you're right, it is pointless. You apologized for offending anyone. That should have been the end of it. It's so easy to let our feelings get hurt and to want to defend ourselves in situations like that. I've come to find that if I just ignore the posts that trigger that in me, I'm better able to find more valuable information in what people have to share - even if it comes from someone whom I've fantasized about ripping their lips off in the past. And trust me, there have been a few. *chuckles*

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Once someone has apologized.. dont you think it's time to let it go? Telly deleted her posts, she apologized for the joke and deleted it as well. What more can a person do? Please don't keep dragging it back up by pasting the deleted stuff again. I would ask that any further personal arguments be taken to PMs. Thanks gals. :confused:

I made y'all smaller and you didn't have to have surgery. Isn't that cool? Back Row L - R: Jtaurus, Mrs Sabre, gordonfamily3, wavy Frond Row L - R: (some of the kiddies) Bondgirl, Dragonwillow, The Best Me

Hey Steve, if you'll delete the [ url=http://www.TickerFactory.com/] and the [ /url] in your signature, the ticker will show up correctly.

I had seen threads about hair falling out and never could contribute much because I hadn't experienced it. So here I am at just midway between 4 and 5 months out and I'm shedding like crazy. There is hair in the shower, on the bathroom floor, on the counters, in the sink, in the hairbrushes, always on my shirts and my arms. It's awful. I haven't seen a real difference in the way my hair looks, but dang... this is more than a little disturbing!

I got my 30 minutes of walking in today, and only spent $20 at the yard sales. I bought a small tv to put on top of the bookcase by our treadmill. Hey, it was exercise related! *grins* Telly, hun, just reading your exercise posts wears me out. Can I count that on my daily chart? *chuckles* Mystjin - Tuesday? That's wonderful! You know, you are fairly close to Dody. She's in Knoxville.

Happy Happy Birthday to you Jenna! Hope it was one of the best! *hugs*