PhotoNut

*joins the line* no eating here tonight.. no no no eating here tonight.. you on a di-et!

Alrighty, August has come to a close and the new thread for September is now open at this link:

http://www.lapbandtalk.com/showthread.php?t=23001

(Telly's tat pics are there too)

Someone pass me a chilidog. I'm sure it would be a breath of fresh air compared to what I just stepped in on another thread. It's really getting deep around here.

Kelly, before you start kicking everyone off that's involved I would ask that you read thru the posts carefully. There have been a lot of people whose name appears over and over and over again.. Not because they have been posting mean and hateful things, but because mean and hateful things are being posted ABOUT them.

People are sick of seeing my name. I am sick of seeing my name. But I am not attacking anyone, nor am I being insulting or cruel, nor have I broken any LBT rules. I am simply asking someone, anyone, show me where Ive been hurtful or cruel or broken LBT rules and I will take responsibility for that.

If by that you see me as someone "involved" then I guess that is your right as a moderator to say so. But I really didn't appreciate seeing you say I should take my followers and leave. I have been strongly repremanded by a Moderator for even suggesting that someone please go on and leave quietly after they had said they hated LBT and were leaving but remained on the boards ripping people apart. (sound familiar?)

Would you have me go back and copy and paste? Is this necessary, because I DO have a job I need to tend to. Or couldn't you just say WHY you feel it necessary to have followed Lisa around and disrupted every thread she was on? Hell, don't even say why, just admit it is so and stop feigning innocence. Don't make excuses, don't lay blame, just admit you did it and call your pack off.

You and your crew tore into those posts and laughed like hyenas while you tried to destroy Delarla. Please don't misunderstand my intention here. I do believe Delarla has done far more damage than was ever necessary, but I was there. I did see and have seen exactly what she is talking about. You say you don't like her, you don't want to be around her, but you and your cohorts HAVE in fact disrupted every single post she has attempted to post on, with malice and with intention, laughing all the way.

Before I get torn to shreds as well, please understand, I think you (and others) were both wrong, but I also think it is unfair that Delarla is the one being burned at the stake (and especially by people who have no idea what transpired) when what she says is correct.

Letha, with all due respect, yes it is necessary for someone to go back and copy and paste any cruel things I have ever said to anyone. The reason it is necessary is because for the past two weeks I have been accused of being cruel, being a stalker, harassing people, frightening people, starting slanderous rumors, being a degenerate.. and the list goes on. Yet, not one person who supports these accusation has been able to produce anything other than to say, "Oh yes you did!". I'm sorry but you all can claim that I am these things, but I honestly don't understand where it came from. You all judge my heart, my intentions, my motives, my feelings.. and based on what? Your perception?

I have no pack. In fact, most of my closest friends on LBT have been trying their best to stay out of this - some are staying out of it at my request. Most of the people who have been responding to this stuff are people I've never even spoken to.

So tell me Letha, you say I showed up and posted on threads. Um, didn't others post as well? Why is it a big deal that I have? Please show me what I have ever done to anyone to warrant this type of vicious attack. Have I called anyone a f*cking c*nt? No, but I have been called that. Have I run around calling people drunken drug addicts? No, but people are doing that to me. So where does all this make any sense to you whatsoever? I have PM'd 3Loves and asked her to please help stop this. How is that wrong, or condescending, or trying to get 3Loves over to my side? When will someone show me one, JUST ONE, post of mine where I have been slanderous, vicious, hateful and cruel. Just one.

And before someone brings up my comment about 3Loves having her head up DeLarla's ass again, I posted a very sincere public apology to her about that. And before I hear about my first PM to 3Loves, in which I was asking her to stop attacking me, I did ask why she had chosen to align herself with two of the most unstable people I know. I was speaking of Lisa and Dody, and I think this past two weeks has only supported my statement.

This probably will make people angry. Here I am perpetuating this mess. But I dont care anymore. I have as much right to post and say, "Put Up or Shut UP" as (apparently) those who are attacking me have. You say I tried to destroy Lisa. Show me Letha. Show me where I did anything to destroy her. Now look at her posts to me and about me. Do you really not see the major differences?

*laughs* That single post has been copied and pasted so many times, but is completely out of context. Telly was joking around with Dody, and if you'll look at the rest of the posts that followed that one, you'll see Dody telling Telly that she is a sweetheart and still considers her a friend. This is why Dody didn't see that as breaking any rules. And by the way.. that was on the Gone for Good Club - August thread.

*laughs again*

I avoid her threads like the plague...Gone For Good and the Idaho thread. You don't find me posting to her or anyone from Idaho on there....it's a good way to feel safe. If you don't like someone, stay away from them.

Hmm... So about post #297 of this thread...

http://www.lapbandtalk.com/showthread.php?t=21710&page=20

You know, after re-reading things I can see exactly why me saying, "Hey Dody, if you're coming back to Boise you'd be more than welcome at the lapband support group meetings." would warrant such an attack from you. I really don't blame you at all for taking something I shared with my group of friends on the Gone for Good Club thread and using it to rip me to shreads. In fact, I'm such a mean and spiteful person that we should all be grateful for the good hearted, Christian women who have picked up the sword of Justice and come at me with the wrath of God on their side. :confused:

You are a pathetic sample....that is for sure. The way you have stalked Lisa has been horrible, and you still can't come up with an excuse. All I can think is some people are desperate in this world to become American Citizens at any cost....God Bless America.

I still haven't seen any evidence or proof that I have stalked or harassed anyone. I have said Put up, or Shut Up and all you and the other two can come up with is Explain Yourself! So I ask again. Explain myself for WHAT? For posting on the board?

My challenge STILL stands. Find and quote any post or PM that I have written in which I have attacked people with such hatred and cruelty as you have. Find it. Quote it. Post it. THEN ask me to explain why I said what I said.

Just because Lisa, Dody, and 3Loves SAY its so, that doesn't make it so.

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And here's a reminder for you Dody...

Formal & FINAL WARNING!

After recent events exhibited by some LBT members the Moderators (with Alex, owner) permission have decided to post this Formal and FINAL WARNING that personal attacks, inappropriate behavior, name calling, excessive cursing, disregard for the Rules & Guidelines, and like postings whether in a Private Message or in a Thread WILL NOT BE TOLERATED.

With the next incident the member WILL BE BANNED without warning or notification.

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Is it really necessary to start trying to degrade my marriage simply because you can't come up with one legitimate thing against me? Have you grown weary of calling me a degenerate, an alcoholic, and a drug addict? Now you must stoop so low as to make these kinds of hateful statements?

Go on Dody. Show us all why you hate me so much. Pull up things your genius daughter copied and pasted with such brilliance and SHOW US what I ever did to you to make you respond with such venom and cruelty. We are ALL waiting.

PUT UP OR SHUT UP

It truly was uncalled for so I changed it...it's kind of like P'Nut deleting the horrible e.mail that DeLarla wrote to her after she posted it on line...so glad m daughter copied and pasted it for future reference. There may come a time when a MOD will actually be interested in it....thank God my daughter knows how to do these things quickly. I didn't have time to report it as a bad post, but I do have it.

Well shoot. I gave in and posted Lisa's PM to me ~again~ because of this post from Dody, but then I got this really sweet PM from a very nice lady here on LBT who asked me to please not respond and to please take of the PM. So, once again, I have done that.

I do slip now and then and respond to these hurtful and very personally insulting attacks, but then I realize that I don't want to be like them, so I delete and try to move on.

God bless.

Susan

Cooooolloonnn bllllllooooowww!

It interests me, Diva. Please feel free to continue.

Im STILL laughing so hard I cant breathe.

Yes, Dody, I was drink at the same time. LOL

P'Nut what kind of grandmother would post a picture of her little grandson with a cigarette in his mouth and a beer can in his hand. That is using a little child that knows no better to play your sick and perverted game. I asked my daughter what she would do if I ever did anything like that with my grandson and her answer was "Mom you wouldn't be able to see him till you got some serious help for your problems. I would not allow you to drag an innocent child through the mud". This is just food for thought, because apparently the thought didn't cross your mind that this was cruel at all. In fact you laughed hysterically at it....and you have the nerve to call yourself a grandmother? That was degenerate behavior from a child like person trying to act like a woman....or were you drink at the time Susan and it was just a lark to you?

Ok.. NOW Im peeing myself!!! Rofl!!!

I found your village idiot!!! :faint: :clap2:

*whispers* boo

Elmer Fu_ _?

I know an Elmer. He stutters.

But he's the nicest guy you'd ever wanna know.

Now we have an Elmer's pancake House, but Dawg and I haven't been there since he first arrived in Boise, back in April of 99.

Yeah.. listen up losers (for Telly.. Loosers!).. everyone's stats will be updated by Joyce tomorrow. Mellow down. Thats an order from this drunken, controlling, psycho bitch! *hugs*

Ok Joyce, the Members Page is current now.

Working on the Honors Page but experiencing far too many interruptions! LOL

Fun night.

Jeeze LaMadam.. *sighs* Woman, how are you still functioning? *big hugs*

Um.. wow.. what an inspiration you are. I'm thrilled you have joined us. So thrilled.

So um.. (wow.. youre one strong woman!) .. wow

I'm almost too speechless to say anything.. um. Ok.

Do you want your stats up there on the members' page? If so, I'll need your highest weight, your weight at surgery, the weight youre at now and your goal.

By the way.. you got me in the tanning beds this year, and I didnt burn at all. For the first time in my life, I have a tan! That sounds so shallow now. Hm.. wow.

Oooo! And Vickie! Sorry, I missed your post! *laughs* Welcome to the club!

Welcome to the club LaMadam and Shari Lou!

Tell us a bit about yourselves and if you look on the list of members youll see everyones stats, if you include yours in a post with a breif blurb about yourselves, then we will get you added to the list.

This club is all about support, and all are welcome. *hugs*

Gotcha covered Nola