Raymia

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I can't wait either because none of them know what I'm doing Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G928A using the BariatricPal App

I'm sure Marvin is charming and knows how to behave like a human being. It's just his family.... It can play out in different ways. When you lose the weight, they won't notice you or they'll make a big fuss and say more stupid things. At least the stupid things will be a new script. If they take the low, ignorant road next year, you can have fun planting wicked seeds. Whisper to one of them, "Did you ask Uncle John's wife if she plans on getting false teeth so that she can enjoy the turkey?" "Does Carla's boyfriend see a dermatologist?" Just kidding, but you can have some fun thinking of ways to start trouble amongst them. At the same time, imagine them naked. Lol yes Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G928A using the BariatricPal App

I've always been the Big girl, and always heard your pretty to be Big thats just as crazy as the other favorite thing ppl tell me. Your pretty to be dark skin.... Like really keep your fake butt complement Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G928A using the BariatricPal App

Only if they knew how rude their statements are... Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G928A using the BariatricPal App

Do you ever miss the old you??? The cubby person you once were? Because I still see the slender me when I think of myself and when I look in the mirror it's the pictures that kill me! I'm like wait a minute who's that fat girl or when I see my shadow and I'm like damn....... That's all me! but once it's gone do you miss it? like right now I can use my fat arm as a comfy pillow and my thighs make great warmth for my hands on cold nights and football games... lol but seriously do you look at pictures and miss the old you?

That's crazy.... He has no clue how you feel I pushed having my surgery years ago because of my parents my mother had a bad experience with the gastric bypass. Since then I've worked out, got a personal trainer, used diet pills I'll lose 20 to 30 pounds but it just comes back! Now I'm 34 like what a waste of time.... So I'm going for it! I feel you should too! We only live once and it's your life do what makes you happy.

I think you made the right decision, I'm sitting here holding off on my last class because I want surgery in January. I already have to maintain my weight during the holidays but I couldn't imagine doing a fast right now... you're a champ!

Thanks for your replies, I find myswlf wondering will I miss this body... Its crazy tho I never really realize my size until I see a picture. But I see all of your points. Doing the things I enjoy like bike riding, skating, dancing would be a lot easier once I lose this weight. Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G928A using the BariatricPal App

Thanks I always wonder.... Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G928A using the BariatricPal App

Yes and No... I have a separate Instagram with my Pre Op plans I just started it today, but I haven't told all my close friends and family only a few know. Once I have it done if they ask I'll be honest about it.

Join the club..... I've been feeling the same way, everything in my life was going crazy and the one thing I thought I could control was my weight. Well that didn't happen so here I am.... Trust me we'll get it together

I sure will Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G928A using the BariatricPal App

So I just made a new Instagram blkDiamond_VsG... I need some followers I will be documenting my journey ???? Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G928A using the BariatricPal App

Saving this... Sent from my SAMSUNG-SM-G928A using the BariatricPal App

Ok everything is going great but I'm scared to have sex, I'm not on birth control and my fiancé hates condoms.... So to be honest he ummm yeah pulls out... There I said it! lol but I guess we're all grown so this should not offend anyone if so sorry kindly stroll pass. But for others what did you do about sex? Also how soon after surgery did you have sex?

he's gonna have to deal with it {condoms}... I have to focus on myself right now He can enjoy making love to you while wearing a condom, but if he won't wear one and must feel skin, tell him to use his hands (he doesn't need latex gloves for that). lol I won't mind watching that, thanks for the idea you don't get any safer then that plus it sounds fun....

yes.... Hi friend

OK I just got back from the surgeons office and everything is looking great! Since I have NJ BCBS PPO I only have to do 3 classes so I scheduled them all in December... (yes with my insurance there is no wait!) if a class is available I can take it even in the same month. I got my blood work done, and all other appointments set for December hopefully I'll be ready for surgery in January..... What a way to start the new year

he's gonna have to deal with it {condoms}... I have to focus on myself right now

lmao....

I track mine as well so I think I'll be fine safety first tho