MissMeowsy

Why is it any of anyone else's business?

Why would they care, and why would I want their input?

Honestly, I don't want anyone's opinions, comments, or questions.

Whether they like it or not should have no bearing on my decision making.

My health, my body, my choice.

As an adult, I don't need to justify or explain my actions to anyone.

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You've said it perfectly. Thank you so much.

We just don't have enough time in our days to cater to the ignorant or the curious.

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I control my narrative by refusing to quench the uncontrollable urge some people have to know things that don't affect them in the least. If it bothers people to not know, good.

Your answer implies that we should care more about what others think than maintaining our own sense of privacy and self.

I am visibly handicapped (totally unrelated to WLS). Those who need to know the whys and hows, do. Those who don't are free to wonder.

If someone thinks I'm sick on top everything else, that's okay. If they are nosy and "need" an answer, they're going to be deeply disappointed.

I've learned over the years not to answer questions about "what's wrong". I'm not here to make anyone feel better or to act as an example, or to be the "noble" handicapped person. If I had a nickel for every time someone said I was "brave" for doing everyday stuff, I could retire. [emoji4]

Ultimately, none of their "concern" makes my life (or theirs) any better. Answering inane questions about my weight, my handicap, or any other exterior condition wastes my time and doesn't fix anything. I'm still handicapped either way.





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Why is it any of anyone else's business?

Why would they care, and why would I want their input?

Honestly, I don't want anyone's opinions, comments, or questions.

Whether they like it or not should have no bearing on my decision making.

My health, my body, my choice.

As an adult, I don't need to justify or explain my actions to anyone.

Sent from my LG-LS777 using BariatricPal mobile app

I control my narrative by refusing to quench the uncontrollable urge some people have to know things that don't affect them in the least. If it bothers people to not know, good.

Your answer implies that we should care more about what others think than maintaining our own sense of privacy and self.

I am visibly handicapped (totally unrelated to WLS). Those who need to know the whys and hows, do. Those who don't are free to wonder.

If someone thinks I'm sick on top everything else, that's okay. If they are nosy and "need" an answer, they're going to be deeply disappointed.

I've learned over the years not to answer questions about "what's wrong". I'm not here to make anyone feel better or to act as an example, or to be the "noble" handicapped person. If I had a nickel for every time someone said I was "brave" for doing everyday stuff, I could retire. [emoji4]

Ultimately, none of their "concern" makes my life (or theirs) any better. Answering inane questions about my weight, my handicap, or any other exterior condition wastes my time and doesn't fix anything. I'm still handicapped either way.





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Hey everyone, I had my sleeve done on 9-12-17. I went through OSU and my surgeon was Dr. Noria. I had the best experience going through OSU and Dr. Noria is an amazing Dr. If you have any questions I am more than happy to answer.

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You've said it perfectly. Thank you so much.

We just don't have enough time in our days to cater to the ignorant or the curious.

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I'm in Dublin, I have my first appointment for the psych evaluation on 1/22. Then six months of supervised dieting (been there done that) and crossing my fingers my insurance will approve me. Hoping to be getting a new wardrobe for Christmas next year!

I control my narrative by refusing to quench the uncontrollable urge some people have to know things that don't affect them in the least. If it bothers people to not know, good.

Your answer implies that we should care more about what others think than maintaining our own sense of privacy and self.

I am visibly handicapped (totally unrelated to WLS). Those who need to know the whys and hows, do. Those who don't are free to wonder.

If someone thinks I'm sick on top everything else, that's okay. If they are nosy and "need" an answer, they're going to be deeply disappointed.

I've learned over the years not to answer questions about "what's wrong". I'm not here to make anyone feel better or to act as an example, or to be the "noble" handicapped person. If I had a nickel for every time someone said I was "brave" for doing everyday stuff, I could retire. [emoji4]

Ultimately, none of their "concern" makes my life (or theirs) any better. Answering inane questions about my weight, my handicap, or any other exterior condition wastes my time and doesn't fix anything. I'm still handicapped either way.





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Why is it any of anyone else's business?

Why would they care, and why would I want their input?

Honestly, I don't want anyone's opinions, comments, or questions.

Whether they like it or not should have no bearing on my decision making.

My health, my body, my choice.

As an adult, I don't need to justify or explain my actions to anyone.

Sent from my LG-LS777 using BariatricPal mobile app

You've said it perfectly. Thank you so much.

We just don't have enough time in our days to cater to the ignorant or the curious.

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Telling some nosey doogooder gossiper isn't educating anyone. Because I choose not to tell unimportant people doesn't mean I don't support the opportunity to educate on wls . If someone I think would benefit from what I did . I would discuss it. Telling everyone doesn't do what you said.

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Why do I give a **** what anyone guesses are they paying my bills ? I don't think so. I couldn't care less what anyone assumes.

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Snap to everything . Also visabily handicapped . I already deal with extra judgment why would any other kind suddenly bother me lol people already think I'm sick being young and using a chair so who cares.

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Why is it any of anyone else's business?

Why would they care, and why would I want their input?

Honestly, I don't want anyone's opinions, comments, or questions.

Whether they like it or not should have no bearing on my decision making.

My health, my body, my choice.

As an adult, I don't need to justify or explain my actions to anyone.

Sent from my LG-LS777 using BariatricPal mobile app

Why is it any of anyone else's business?

Why would they care, and why would I want their input?

Honestly, I don't want anyone's opinions, comments, or questions.

Whether they like it or not should have no bearing on my decision making.

My health, my body, my choice.

As an adult, I don't need to justify or explain my actions to anyone.

Sent from my LG-LS777 using BariatricPal mobile app

I control my narrative by refusing to quench the uncontrollable urge some people have to know things that don't affect them in the least. If it bothers people to not know, good.

Your answer implies that we should care more about what others think than maintaining our own sense of privacy and self.

I am visibly handicapped (totally unrelated to WLS). Those who need to know the whys and hows, do. Those who don't are free to wonder.

If someone thinks I'm sick on top everything else, that's okay. If they are nosy and "need" an answer, they're going to be deeply disappointed.

I've learned over the years not to answer questions about "what's wrong". I'm not here to make anyone feel better or to act as an example, or to be the "noble" handicapped person. If I had a nickel for every time someone said I was "brave" for doing everyday stuff, I could retire. [emoji4]

Ultimately, none of their "concern" makes my life (or theirs) any better. Answering inane questions about my weight, my handicap, or any other exterior condition wastes my time and doesn't fix anything. I'm still handicapped either way.





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Why is it any of anyone else's business?

Why would they care, and why would I want their input?

Honestly, I don't want anyone's opinions, comments, or questions.

Whether they like it or not should have no bearing on my decision making.

My health, my body, my choice.

As an adult, I don't need to justify or explain my actions to anyone.

Sent from my LG-LS777 using BariatricPal mobile app

I control my narrative by refusing to quench the uncontrollable urge some people have to know things that don't affect them in the least. If it bothers people to not know, good.

Your answer implies that we should care more about what others think than maintaining our own sense of privacy and self.

I am visibly handicapped (totally unrelated to WLS). Those who need to know the whys and hows, do. Those who don't are free to wonder.

If someone thinks I'm sick on top everything else, that's okay. If they are nosy and "need" an answer, they're going to be deeply disappointed.

I've learned over the years not to answer questions about "what's wrong". I'm not here to make anyone feel better or to act as an example, or to be the "noble" handicapped person. If I had a nickel for every time someone said I was "brave" for doing everyday stuff, I could retire. [emoji4]

Ultimately, none of their "concern" makes my life (or theirs) any better. Answering inane questions about my weight, my handicap, or any other exterior condition wastes my time and doesn't fix anything. I'm still handicapped either way.





Sent from my LG-LS777 using BariatricPal mobile app

Why is it any of anyone else's business?

Why would they care, and why would I want their input?

Honestly, I don't want anyone's opinions, comments, or questions.

Whether they like it or not should have no bearing on my decision making.

My health, my body, my choice.

As an adult, I don't need to justify or explain my actions to anyone.

Sent from my LG-LS777 using BariatricPal mobile app

I control my narrative by refusing to quench the uncontrollable urge some people have to know things that don't affect them in the least. If it bothers people to not know, good.

Your answer implies that we should care more about what others think than maintaining our own sense of privacy and self.

I am visibly handicapped (totally unrelated to WLS). Those who need to know the whys and hows, do. Those who don't are free to wonder.

If someone thinks I'm sick on top everything else, that's okay. If they are nosy and "need" an answer, they're going to be deeply disappointed.

I've learned over the years not to answer questions about "what's wrong". I'm not here to make anyone feel better or to act as an example, or to be the "noble" handicapped person. If I had a nickel for every time someone said I was "brave" for doing everyday stuff, I could retire. [emoji4]

Ultimately, none of their "concern" makes my life (or theirs) any better. Answering inane questions about my weight, my handicap, or any other exterior condition wastes my time and doesn't fix anything. I'm still handicapped either way.





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While I choose to talk about it if it comes up, I absolutely respect each person's individual decision. Whatever you choose to do, just remember that you are strong and beautiful, and those that love you will do so no matter what!

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Thank you everyone for the honest feedback. All points make sense to me. I do understand not discussing medical conditions and procedures. I'm just so excited about it I can't keep quiet.

Both my mom and sister have each had WLS. Neither of them made the necessary changes and both lost a very minimal amount of weight. They were the only two people I told besides my husband. They were unsupportive. Both said it was a waste of my time and money and that I should just do it on my own. I figured that if 2 people who have been through it wouldn't support me, I didn't need to waste my time convincing anyone else. I live my life for me, my husband, and our kids: as long as we are in agreement, no other opinions matter. After surgery, when my weight loss is showing, I will proudly tell people.,

It's because its my business. It's private. I'm not the one that puts every little thing on Facebook either. I've had other medical surgical procedures done and never broadcasted it. My Husband, kids , mom and sister know.. thats my support . No one else needs to gossip. Telling others puts a giant magnifying glass on everything I do and Im not one for the spotlight.