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cbonet

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  1. I suggest looking at your patterns. Is this the first time you've really comitted to changing your life with weight loss or have you done it several times before and gained it back. For me I have a life history of gaining and losing with always going back to the. Gaining. I'm done with that. I think it's wonderful that you've done so well. There are so many factors in this decision, age, health issues, quality of life and history. Best wishes and great job.


  2. Sorry for the topic. I'm 2.5 weeks after surgery ..still on liquids, 3 shakes a day, Water, a little broth, coffee. The headaches have been getting worse, causing really tight jaw pain and for the past few days,

    diarhea. I'm assuming it's from being on liquids since 9/11 Only water and Crystal Light from then till 9/19 and Protein Shakes, broth, water, coffee since then. I'm thinking it's from no real substance for a few weeks. Just wondering if others had the same 2.5 weeks out. Thanks


  3. Congratulations. Eat high lean Protein and low carb. Try to stay away from pastas, rice, bread, alcohol. Your liver needs to be pliable because the Dr is going to move it. Low carb will keep it soft.

    Drink lots of Water especially the days closest to surgery. It will help flush the anesthesia.

    For the hospital, I brought to much. In reality all I needed was toiletries, clean underwear and my cpap machine. I was in overnight, used hospital gowns and slippers, went home in the same clothes I went in.

    Prep at home included 2 full Brita Water pitchers, premiere Protein shakes(for a week later), Crystal Light (too sweet for md), Vitamin Patches I ordered from PatchMD.com, Tylenol tablets and milk of magnesia. I never used the Tylenol or milk of M. I was given prescriptions for pain and naseau in the hospital and we filled them on the way home. Also a pillow for the way home, a small one to put between seatbelt and you.

    The first day was tough, surgery at 9 a.m. I was walking by 5 30 and kept walking for about 20 minutes, rest for 30, walk for 20...... Took my pain meds like clock work to stay ahead of it. At home I stopped pain meds after day 2, with the exception of an additional one on a day I did too much. There's no lifting, vacuuming, walking dog according to Drs orders, remember the internal stitches. When home drink, walk, rest. I slept in my bed.

    I hope this is helpful. Good luck to you.


  4. Your grandmother has been an important presence in your life. You two have shared love and affection. Why would you want to say "goodbye" to such delicious things? I see the emotional adjustments as being more about knowing that the love is still in you as are the things you learned from your grandmother about how to live a good life. Missing her physical presence is the hard part, but time takes care of it emotionally and intellectually.

    Now is the time to feel your feelings. They do make staying your course shaky. You can draw on the strength and resolve you used to begin exploring surgery. If your grandmother knew that you've had the procedure, recall that she'd be cheering you on. No matter what, don't berate yourself for having difficulty now or even if you slide a little. Journaling about your grandmother, your relationship and how you feel about her death may clarify a lot. Find comfort wherever it is, but be aware that it isn't in food; overeating and bad choices will only numb you and delay the inevitable, making it more difficult.

    This poem may help.

    Epitaph by Merritt Malloy

    When I die

    Give what’s left of me away

    To children

    And old men that wait to die.

    And if you need to cry,

    Cry for your brother

    Walking the street beside you.

    And when you need me,

    Put your arms

    Around anyone

    And give them

    What you need to give to me.

    I want to leave you something,

    Something better

    Than words

    Or sounds.

    Look for me

    In the people I’ve known

    Or loved,

    And if you cannot give me away,

    At least let me live on your eyes

    And not on your mind.

    You can love me most

    By letting

    Hands touch hands,

    By letting

    Bodies touch bodies,

    And by letting go

    Of children

    That need to be free.

    Love doesn’t die,

    People do.

    So, when all that’s left of me

    Is love,

    Give me away.

    Beautifully said. Beautiful

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