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I was sleeved last Monday and I got my approval for my STD today, I'm approved until August 21st

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I've been approved for STD for my sleeve already. I'm wondering if I'll be eligible for it when I decide to have plastic surgery (hopefully late next year).

I'm having surgery on August 5th. I currently weigh 241. I would like to be under 200 by mid-December (4 and a half months). Is this a realistic goal or no?

My initial surgeon at O-Band Center in Brooklyn led me to Dr. Illan and BariatricPal Team MX.

I was going through the 6 appointments mandated by my insurance. On my 3rd visit, I met my surgeon for the 1st time and asked him about the pros and cons of the band and sleeve since I still had not decided which one I wanted. He gave me 2 statistics on average weight loss percentages and then told me to go home and do my research. I was taken aback by his answer. Yes, I fully intended on doing my research, but I wanted to hear from an actual doctor (MY doctor). His answer and demeanor coupled with several other things that left me feeling very uncomfortable about O-Band Center, led me to the internet. I don't remember what I started off researching, but eventually it led me here, and thus, to Dr Illan. I emailed O-Band yesterday to cancel my remaining appointments. :-)

I'm getting wayyyyyy ahead of myself since I'm not being sleeved for 13 more days, but I like to plan ahead. Is plastic surgery eligible for FMLA and/or Short Term Disability?

I will be traveling alone from SC to Tijuana August 5

Me too! My surgery is the 5th in Tijuana. Flying from Florida by myself.

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Who is your surgeon?

I will be traveling alone from SC to Tijuana August 5

Are you having your surgery will Dr. Illan? I'm going solo on August 5th as well.

I'm having my surgery two weeks from today with Dr. Jalil Illan in Mexico. It is costing me $4,399 + airfare. My experience so far has been good; my emails and questions are promptly answered, and when I call, an actual person answers rather than getting a voicemail. I don't know yet if there will be a single incision, but I can certainly let you know in approximately two weeks. :-) There were no qualifiers that I'm aware of, but I did have to fill out a 2 pg questionnaire.

Good question I was wondering too b/c I don't think I will tell anyone. I'm a very private person and if someone tends to probe too much I normally distant myself.

You just described me to a T. Glad I'm not the only person who does this.

I'm im Brooklyn. Was sleeved 7/7.

What neighborhood?

I live in Brooklyn. I'm getting sleeved on August 5th in Mexico. I would definitely love having a friend who is going through the same process!

Where in Brooklyn are ya? And how's that going? Do you have to do a liquid diet before that too or do you just go for surgery?

I live in Bensonhurst. Moved here 3 years ago, and I love it. Do you live in Flushing?

I start the liquid diet tomorrow. I'm not looking forward to the 1st couple days, but I know it gets easier after that.

_{I was told to take off 4 weeks due to my job. I work in retail and do heavy lifting.}

My surgeon recommends taking 4 weeks off due to the restrictions on lifting 40lb boxes. I'm actually looking forward to this time off. I live very close to the beach, so I plan on soaking up some rays :-)

Thank you everyone!

I live in Brooklyn. I'm getting sleeved on August 5th in Mexico. I would definitely love having a friend who is going through the same process!

How long do I have to wait to take a shower after surgery? 4 years ago, I broke my arm and had a plate and screws put in my arm. I had to wait several days before I could shower due to the incision. Do I have to wait again?

Can I use a menstrual cup, or is it pad only?

I keep reading about the need to walk after surgery in order to alleviate gas pains. Are we talking about farting or some other type of gas?

FYI regarding Biotin...

It doesn't just promote the hair growth on your head if you know what I mean. Your pubes are going to grow like crazy. You may want to look into finding a salon that provides a frequent customer discount on Brazilian waxing. Either that, or start buying your razor blades in bulk at a warehouse club.

I know my family will not be supportive of this decision. They actually shunned someone we knew who had it and never spoke to her again. My family is very judgmental, close-minded, and "uppity." Regardless, they all live about 1,200 miles from me.

I'm pretty much on my own where I live (dysfunctional family... had to get away from everyone about 4 years ago). I have 2 friends where I live now. They have never struggled with their weight. They're great friends, but they won't understand or support my decision to "give up" and "give in" to WLS.

So, basically, I'm doing this on my own. At some point I will have to tell people, but for now, I don't want to fight that battle. I want to focus on pre-op, post-op, and adapting to a new lifestyle. I don't want stress or distractions from F&F.

Has anyone basically done this alone? How did you get through it emotionally, mentally, and physically? Support group? Therapy? These forums?

I hope I don't sound rude saying this, but I'm not looking for advice on how to get F&F on board with my decision. I'm seeking advice on how to get through this alone.

Thank you in advance :-)

Awesome! Hopefully I'll be there next month. Keeping my fingers crossed that the financing comes through!

Really, though I want to go again now that my backside is not "tube size".

Haha! I can't wait to go once my booty is no longer "tube size" :-)

Has anyone used them before? Opinions?

I'm the Store Manager of two retail stores (clothing). I'm on my feet for 8 hours a day. I move boxes weighing approximately 40lbs, climb ladders, disassemble and re-assemble walls using hardware. Although I can delegate a lot of these tasks, I can't count on delegating everything 100% of the time.

Also, can I use FMLA for the surgery or no?

Thanks in advance for your input!