NeedaBreak4Me

Best feeling in the world was seeing my shadow today and it looked noticeably thinner and less lumpy around the sides. .. then i caught my reflection in the glass doors at work and saw that my legs were getting thinner too...
I thought... hey sexy thang!! Looking good... lol
And thats only at a 22 pound loss!! Imagine when i get to goal!!

Hahha i hope not! I am not into men who are old enough to be my dad!! But his behaviour definitely belongs in a playground... no reasonable decent mature person in their 50s would be that mean..
I secretly hoping he does say something again.... im carb deprived and i have some good comebacks now...
Im not normally a mean or rude person... but i would love to show him my wrath!! Haha

Hahha i hope not! I am not into men who are old enough to be my dad!! But his behaviour definitely belongs in a playground... no reasonable decent mature person in their 50s would be that mean..
I secretly hoping he does say something again.... im carb deprived and i have some good comebacks now...
Im not normally a mean or rude person... but i would love to show him my wrath!! Haha

I do not think what you are doing is unreasonable... i think many of us do focus on what we are eating and when we are working out this early out.
I myself plan what i will eat for the rest of the week and i have rules that i must meet... for example... i won't allow myself to go to bed until i have drank all my my Water for the day... this keeps me accountable.
However, if you have an addictive personality and you are feeling you are starting to dip into the obsessive side... i would be cautious... you do not want to create disordered eating... this can create a eating disorder if it goes to far.
Do you have a friend or partner that can keep you moderate? Or a counsellor that you can talk to?
Remember... life is about balance... if you tip way too far on either end of the scales... the consequences can be counterproductive.

Hahaha its so annoying... now that its been a few hours since it has happened i have thought of like 50 comebacks to say to him.. dont you just hate that!!
Well... to make my day better... a lady that i see on the train home from work actually came up to me and said that i am looking good.. so that made me feel a little better...
I know ive only lost a small amount of weight but it shows fairly quickly on me.. so yay me...

Yes true.... i should have said.... maybe you should take a page from my book and eat a little.... you are too thin!!! Seriously a size 0 would squash this dude lol
Funny how its okay to make fun of overweight people but not thin people.

hair - not much
Young - 52
Dumbass - definitely
Now that ive calmed down a little... its actually sad.. that we as a society are so focused on size.... yes i am chubby... but for a fatty... i can outrun any of my little tiny friends at the gym... im active and confident... thankfully... so to be judged is kinda annoying

Oh wow... some people have no filter.. they seem to forget that just because we are overweight that they do not need to sensor themselves... they forget that there is a normal sensitive person who has feelings.

Yeah... that makes me feel better.. especially when I'm full of it

Oh noooooo...i have been promoted to the childish abusive irrational side... i better get some help!! I mean... heaven forbid if i choose a side that has thoughts.. feelings and experience and support. .. my mother told me to stay away from people like that hahaha lol

Lipsticklady!!! I dont know what to do anymore!!!!! I lose weight... but i get called fat..
I want to mentally punch someone.. but that makes me abusive..
I complain.. therefore i am irrational
And now you are asking me to ignore the irrationals?? What does that make me if i do??? Lol

Wow.... you belong in the same category as the dude i made the post about.
Calling us childish and irrational?? Thats so supportive of you..
This is posted in the "rants and raves" section for exactly that purpose... to rant.
Please do not tell me how to post or what to say.. as irrational as they may seem to you.
I am entitled to let of some steam, in whichever manner i deem appropriate.

Are you taking what we say as literal?

Aww i love you guys!!!
At least someone understands how i am feeling!
Yes.. i agree... the face is probably not the most suitable area... kicking in the genital region sounds much more appealing

I so wanted to punch him in the face! I visually did in my head!
Its funny though.. this came from the skinniest lanky dude who has never probably weighed more than 120 pounds in his life...
I can't help thinking if he is this rude to me... what does he say to people who are much larger... if i wasnt so angry i would actually pity him for his arrogance

I have a little rant about stupid insensitive people who don't know how to keep their mouth shut.
Why do people feel the need to tell you that you are fat...
Its like .... what!!! No way! I never knew i was overweight.. i got my stomach cut off because i thought i was thin! I dieted for years because i was bored! I have spent the last month eating like a mouse because i have nothing better to do!
I had the sleeve 4 weeks ago... and finally it is starting to show physically.. so i was feeling so good about myself.. until BAM!
Some idiot at work felt the need to mention that i was "chubby" and that i am lucky i don't hurt myself.
Mind you i am 5'7" and 216 pounds.. and a size 14... i thought i hold my weight really well.... even my surgeon said i don't look what i weigh...
I just wanted to punch this guy in the face.... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr

Lipsticklady!!! I dont know what to do anymore!!!!! I lose weight... but i get called fat..
I want to mentally punch someone.. but that makes me abusive..
I complain.. therefore i am irrational
And now you are asking me to ignore the irrationals?? What does that make me if i do??? Lol

Wow.... you belong in the same category as the dude i made the post about.
Calling us childish and irrational?? Thats so supportive of you..
This is posted in the "rants and raves" section for exactly that purpose... to rant.
Please do not tell me how to post or what to say.. as irrational as they may seem to you.
I am entitled to let of some steam, in whichever manner i deem appropriate.

Are you taking what we say as literal?

Haha we would never do that to you!!! Unless you call someone fat!! Then its war!!

I know.. but i was completely dumbfounded i didn't know what to say... its been a while since anyone has actually called me fat...

Lipsticklady!!! I dont know what to do anymore!!!!! I lose weight... but i get called fat..
I want to mentally punch someone.. but that makes me abusive..
I complain.. therefore i am irrational
And now you are asking me to ignore the irrationals?? What does that make me if i do??? Lol

Wow.... you belong in the same category as the dude i made the post about.
Calling us childish and irrational?? Thats so supportive of you..
This is posted in the "rants and raves" section for exactly that purpose... to rant.
Please do not tell me how to post or what to say.. as irrational as they may seem to you.
I am entitled to let of some steam, in whichever manner i deem appropriate.

Lipsticklady!!! I dont know what to do anymore!!!!! I lose weight... but i get called fat..
I want to mentally punch someone.. but that makes me abusive..
I complain.. therefore i am irrational
And now you are asking me to ignore the irrationals?? What does that make me if i do??? Lol

I have a little rant about stupid insensitive people who don't know how to keep their mouth shut.
Why do people feel the need to tell you that you are fat...
Its like .... what!!! No way! I never knew i was overweight.. i got my stomach cut off because i thought i was thin! I dieted for years because i was bored! I have spent the last month eating like a mouse because i have nothing better to do!
I had the sleeve 4 weeks ago... and finally it is starting to show physically.. so i was feeling so good about myself.. until BAM!
Some idiot at work felt the need to mention that i was "chubby" and that i am lucky i don't hurt myself.
Mind you i am 5'7" and 216 pounds.. and a size 14... i thought i hold my weight really well.... even my surgeon said i don't look what i weigh...
I just wanted to punch this guy in the face.... grrrrrrrrrrrrrrrrr