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Why does everyone that I share my WLS plans with feel the need to tell me about their friend/family member/co-worker/random person's horrible experience with the surgery? I can't imagine what they must be thinking to feel the need to mention that. As if it isn't nerve wracking already! Either that, or they decide to share a diet idea that worked for them. I haven't told many people, which makes it all the more frustrating, as these are people who I am close to. Does anyone else encounter this, and, if so, any suggestions on how you handle this situation?

What about herbal teas? There are some wonderful flavors made by Yogi. My favorite right now is cranberry spice. I have actually found that drinking flavored waters slowed my weight loss. I'm not sure why, but as soon as I switched to plain Water and herbal teas exclusively, the weight has been falling off.

My surgeon told me the drain was to test for leaks. They can detect stomach fluids in the contents of the bag. Mine was taken out the day I left the hospital, though. I'm not sure the purpose of being sent home with one.

Yep, it is normal, and it does last for a while with both drinking and eating. It does ease up a bit, but mine didn't go away completely until 8 weeks post-op.

As long as the leggings are loose...that's what I used. Also, be sure you bring a pillow or have one in your car for the ride home. The road bumps can be very uncomfortable if you don't have something to support your stomach with.

@@Clarevoyant OH yes, smoothies hide it entirely! I'm not supposed to do smoothies anymore, but when I could they were amazing!!

I use it in cottage cheese, greek yogurt, and cream of wheat. I notice it subtly changes the taste of the cream of wheat, but I don't notice it at all in the others.

Yes, definitely. It's not as pronounced for me at 8 weeks, though.

Totally normal. It goes away in a few weeks

Though it's hard not to, you shouldn't compare your progress with others. Some people have BMI's well above yours, so they will lose weight faster. There are several factors that make weight loss easier for some more than others. As long as you are doing what you're supposed to, have faith that it will come off. Also, keep in mind that some people post their TOTAL weight loss...not just the amount lost from surgery. My stats show 45 pounds lost but that's total. I have lost 31 since surgery, and most of that was in the first month. I've only lost 8 pounds in the second month post-op.

@@justhere4theshow The changes are very interesting, aren't they? My biggest weakness pre-surgery was baked goods...cupcakes, Cookies, cakes, pies...anything sweet. Now I don't even think about those (thankfully!) I like to add romaine, celery, onion and pickle to tuna or chicken with greek yogurt or light mayo. I can only get down about 1/4 cup, but the additions to the Protein make it not so boring and give it some texture.

Loved it before surgery and still love it mixed with chicken or tuna.

@@dede_mont My goal is 154 (hoping to beat that, actually) with 70 pounds to go. This morning I finally weigh less than my husband who has put on 40 pounds since we married lol. Good luck on your journey!

@@ttdish Was it uncomfortable for you to go to those types of foods right away? I have had slight discomfort with just Protein shakes. I go to stage three this week and wonder what more solid foods are going to feel like.

It all gets very confusing. My surgeon didn't require a weight loss. My NUT told me that I should still try. My program coordinator warned me not to get below a 35 BMI. I'm not sure if it's the same with other programs.

@@TracyBar You're being very smart in how you're approaching this. It's definitely not something anyone should do on a whim, and thankfully most people (at least with insurance) have a waiting period before they can have the surgery. I would encourage you to read the book "The Obesity Code" if you have not already. I've spent about 41 years of my 51 blaming myself for being a failure, for being too gluttonous, too lazy, for something that really is largely out of my hands. I don't eat any more now than I did in my 20's, yet I am 100 pounds heavier! The statistics are sobering, and I'm sure you've read them...only 5% of obese individuals who lose weight manage to keep it off, and they are the ones who are in the gym all the time, something that most of us cannot commit to. Not because it's not important, but because we have so many responsibilities. I did have a trial run. I was approved in 2011 and backed out, lost weight with a personal trainer, watched it all come back very quickly. I feel my body breaking down due to carrying all this excess weight. I hope I made the right decision...too late to go back now at 12 days post op. But I'm down 15 pounds since last Saturday, and I really don't think eating with the small stomach is going to be as terrifying as I anticipated. Thanks for sharing your story and I hope you find some answers that help you in your decision! PS, I wouldn't go to that clinic either! An open dialogue is so important with this, especially when you will be returning back to the states and won't be able to just drive there the way you could with a center here!

@@Clarevoyant Oh duh, should have seen the ticker lol. So you excited, nervous, terrified, all of the above?

@@Clarevoyant I forget, have you had yours yet or is it coming up soon?

@@TracyBar It really is a bit of an emotional rollercoaster for me. I'm not swinging really high or really low, but I feel a little bit off. I'm not sleeping really well so I'm assuming that doesn't help, but I have no doubt the hormones are doing something! Stage 2 in our program is just broth, pureed, non-cream based Soups, yogurt and fluids. I would kill for a scrambled egg! When is your surgery?

@@TracyBar Doing well! Surgery went smoothly. Am just about over the discomfort from the incisions. Never had gas pains at all, thankfully! Still at Stage 2, so I am looking forward to moving on to the next stage next week. A bit tired and my emotions are all over the place, but I know that's to be expected. Down 15 pounds since I got home from the hospital last Friday!

Typically, the insurance coordinator faxes the paperwork over. I know I had a LOT of paperwork submitted, over 100 pages. You might want to keep in touch with your insurance company so that you know the progress. Probably easier to do that than to keep asking the coordinator. My approval came within 48 hours, but all companies are different. Good luck!

I agree with @MissKay. You really need 2 weeks. I mean, if you don't have a really physical job, you could go sit there and be present at work. This surgery and the post op diet really zap your energy, though.

I also got to the hospital 2 hours early. Several patients who were scheduled for surgery were seated in the waiting area and then escorted to the surgery area and taken into our individual rooms. I changed my clothes, and my possessions were put in plastic bags and labeled. The admitting nurse took my information down and started explaining how the day would go, which really put me at ease as she spoke about things post surgery. My blood was drawn for labs, an IV was placed, then they brought in a machine to do an EKG. It was all very fast and efficient. The anesthesiologist arrived about 20 minutes prior to my surgery time and joked a bit, then my surgeon arrived. I kissed hubby and sent him on his way, and they started rolling me to surgery and I was out before I ever got there. I woke up in my hospital room about 6-1/2 hours later (my surgery went long due to a hernia repair). The nurses started their pampering me right away and got me a cup of ice chips which was a godsend, as my throat was very dry. I was not in much pain at that point, and was comfortable. They explained how the PCA worked (every 8 minutes I could click it to administer pain relief from the IV). The nurses would come in frequently to check my blood pressure and temp and to bring new ice chips. They were amazing. I stayed 2 nights. The 2nd night was rougher than the first, as I had a headache, nausea and could feel the pain in my stomach, but by the next day I was much better and I was discharged. at around 1:30 pm.