reannabanana

Edmonton, Alberta, Canada

Edmonton, Alberta, Canada

@@Sophie74656 --
I already wrote a note to you, but somehow it disappeared when I tried to follow it by quoting Michigan Chic.
My guess is that your husband and this charmer were friends long before you arrived in his life? If so, she's jealous that she has to share him (not that I'm saying "share" is the appropriate word). She's less central to him and gets to spend less in-person and phone time with him. Tossing the straw wrapper into his glass says that she has a right to be as easy and casual with him as before. She's showing ownership. If your husband truly is oblivious, he needs to be made aware that she has made herself a marital issue. My next guess is that he has at least some awareness, but doesn't know how to handle it.

yeah sh'e not the best person, my husband is friends with her and sometimes in order to spend time wiht my husband I have to put up with her tagging along.

at the restaurant she takes the wrapper off her straw and tosses the paper into my husband's glass of Water and thinks it's just the funniest thing ever.

OK, given this, there is a lot more wrong here than this so-called "friend" being rude. Husband needs a knock upside the head. One does NOT treat one's spouse like this. Period.

@@Sophie74656
Are you kidding me? Your husband makes you sacrifice your comfort in order to spend time with him? F*ck that! I'd never. He'd never. We'd never.
They both sound pathetic.

So sorry you had a complication. I hope you're feeling much better very soon.

Sending prayers and good thoughts your way. It will all be well.

I had a leak a week after WLS and it took a little bit for them to realize the drain tube was the problem. I was like you and the fact that I wasn't mad but just wanted to get everything started. Trust me before you know it you will have dropped 100 pounds like me and forgetting about this minor setback that you're having. Hang in there

kindafamiliar said it all....but prayers to you, hang in there!

Praying for a smooth recovery & bounce-back for you. One thing that all / any of us on this forum need to be truly grateful for is observant, attentive surgeons and care teams - & it sounds like you're in good hands.
As a nurse of nearly 25 years (and less than 48 hours pre-op as I write this post), I know that complications can occur..and whereas scores of suregeries go off without a hitch or a hiccup, there is always going to be that "0.0001%" where someone experiences an unplanned Detour.< /p>
I will keep you in my prayers that you bounce back stronger and more determined to "master the sleeve" than you ever were before, hon. --You've got this...and you've got a world of support right HERE...whenever you need it.
[[[[[[ hugs ]]]]]]
Karen in Monroe,WA

I think Kinda said it all so I am just sending you ~~ Hugs ~~ Really hope you feel better soon x

G'day @@reannabanana
Sounds like a shitty couple of weeks you've had...
And another shitty couple to go...
After that tho, it's alllll good...
Your time is coming...
Good on you for not letting these complications get you down...
Honestly, you had me at "I'm not upset that this happened.... I'm just struggling today..."
Others who are unfortunate enough to go thru similar things should read your post...
You've not given up...
You've not thrown in the towel...
You've managed to see the bigger picture and for that you should be commended...
Take care reannabanana...
And stay positive...
I'm sure you will...
KindaFamiliar
P.S. - Keep us (or me) posted regarding your condition...
Hopefully it's all smooth sailing from here...