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lotacls
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lotacls got a reaction from BestDayEver in Rude people
Just out of curiosity, are your mil and sil overweight? I've noticed the people in my family that are the least supportive are those that also have an issue with obesity. Their attitude has definitely thrown me for a loop, but I've decided I won't over share my excitement about this new chapter in my life. If they ask questions, I'll answer honestly, but I tend to curb my enthusaism. I hope in time, they might end up realizing that I have a much richer, healthier life and consider it an option for them as well.
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lotacls got a reaction from Josey Quinn in Rude people
That's so sad! I think people are very afraid of change, it makes them insecure. I told myself before the surgery that this was the beginning of my new life. That from here on out I'm going to treat myself as well or better than I have always treated others. I've had to remind myself of this already a few times I've had people say something negative.
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lotacls got a reaction from Josey Quinn in Rude people
That's so sad! I think people are very afraid of change, it makes them insecure. I told myself before the surgery that this was the beginning of my new life. That from here on out I'm going to treat myself as well or better than I have always treated others. I've had to remind myself of this already a few times I've had people say something negative.
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lotacls got a reaction from Josey Quinn in Rude people
That's so sad! I think people are very afraid of change, it makes them insecure. I told myself before the surgery that this was the beginning of my new life. That from here on out I'm going to treat myself as well or better than I have always treated others. I've had to remind myself of this already a few times I've had people say something negative.
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lotacls got a reaction from BestDayEver in Rude people
Just out of curiosity, are your mil and sil overweight? I've noticed the people in my family that are the least supportive are those that also have an issue with obesity. Their attitude has definitely thrown me for a loop, but I've decided I won't over share my excitement about this new chapter in my life. If they ask questions, I'll answer honestly, but I tend to curb my enthusaism. I hope in time, they might end up realizing that I have a much richer, healthier life and consider it an option for them as well.